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"Hi we are a couple from Manchester we don't want to play on our own doorstep so have chosen Leeds but not sure which club to visit Pandora or quest any tips or advice would be nice Kim ben x " Quest is MUCH smaller than Pandora's, so it's much easier for it to have an atmosphere. It's a great club, but we've found that single guys can be a bit pushy. Pandora's is HUGE and has everything a swinging club could possibly need. Because of the size, it "can" lack atmosphere when there's "not loads" of people there. When it's busy, it might be the best club in the country. Ultimately, any night at a club is only as good as the people you meet and that's completely down to luck. I'd definitely advise trying them both. Cal | |||
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" Ultimately, any night at a club is only as good as the people you meet and that's completely down to luck. " Exactly this | |||
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"What are rules of clubs i have never been but do find it interesting It might also help me a couple who want to be watched?" In a club if anyone is playing in a public room you can watch silently but you must not touch or get involved without asking first | |||
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"What are rules of clubs i have never been but do find it interesting It might also help me a couple who want to be watched? In a club if anyone is playing in a public room you can watch silently but you must not touch or get involved without asking first Okay and it’s basically a nightclub music drinks ?" It depends on the club, but generally: They have a social area, either pub like or nightclub like. Then there will be some separate play rooms. Often there will be a hot-tub and/or a sauna. Most clubs also have a "dark room" where you will not be able to see who you are playing with (or who's playing with you), then there will be large room for groups or organisations type play, and there will be some smaller lockable rooms for more intimate and private play. It is also almost universal to have some glory holes, often into other play rooms, but also many have glory holes leading into a small space that you can't see into. Finally, almost every club has a dungeon/fetish area. There is usually restraints and fetish furnishings. You should really get yourself into HU9 one weekend and have a look. It's a great club and well attended. Cal | |||
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"What are rules of clubs i have never been but do find it interesting It might also help me a couple who want to be watched?" From a rules point of view, there are some universals: 1. No means No... 2. Don't touch without permission. 3. No photos or videos. 4. Tidy up your mess after play. Most clubs will have their own rules too, such as "couples only areas" or "no single guys beyond this point", "no heels on the beds", "you must dress down (undies or towel) to enter the play areas", and "no sex in the hot-tub". Each club will explain their rules on your first visit and there will be signage to remind you too. Cal | |||
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"What are rules of clubs i have never been but do find it interesting It might also help me a couple who want to be watched? From a rules point of view, there are some universals: 1. No means No... 2. Don't touch without permission. 3. No photos or videos. 4. Tidy up your mess after play. Most clubs will have their own rules too, such as "couples only areas" or "no single guys beyond this point", "no heels on the beds", "you must dress down (undies or towel) to enter the play areas", and "no sex in the hot-tub". Each club will explain their rules on your first visit and there will be signage to remind you too. Cal" Okay appreciate that thank you very much just really not sure what to expect on my first visit to a club haha | |||
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"What are rules of clubs i have never been but do find it interesting It might also help me a couple who want to be watched? From a rules point of view, there are some universals: 1. No means No... 2. Don't touch without permission. 3. No photos or videos. 4. Tidy up your mess after play. Most clubs will have their own rules too, such as "couples only areas" or "no single guys beyond this point", "no heels on the beds", "you must dress down (undies or towel) to enter the play areas", and "no sex in the hot-tub". Each club will explain their rules on your first visit and there will be signage to remind you too. Cal Okay appreciate that thank you very much just really not sure what to expect on my first visit to a club haha" The best thing is to just go and see. Maybe plan your first trip as just "recon". Just go and chat to people and observe what happens. If you plan that you're "not" going to make any attempt to play, then there is zero pressure. Cal | |||
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