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Amigos - last night

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Well I finally put my big boy pants on and ventured into a swingers club,

AMIGOS,

All I can say is thank you, met some amazingly friendly people, whilst I didn't play, (this was due to my nervousness and self confidence issues) I did however go in the hot tub,

Thanks guys for making me feel welcome.

See you all soon I hope

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pleased to hear you took the plunge and went. I hope your confidence is boosted for next time.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Great to hear you felt welcome as a single guy OP, and want to return . Other clubs could take note

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

One thing that did surprise me though, is the lack of effort the single men put in.

I finished work, went to gym, shaved, showered, put shirt and my favourite trousers and boots on,

Brushed teeth, moisturised, styled hair, the works.

Some of the guys looked like they came straight from work.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex


"One thing that did surprise me though, is the lack of effort the single men put in.

I finished work, went to gym, shaved, showered, put shirt and my favourite trousers and boots on,

Brushed teeth, moisturised, styled hair, the works.

Some of the guys looked like they came straight from work.

"

We find this at a lot of clubs, be it single guys, or the male half of couples. Really grinds our gears - it doesn’t take much effort for a guy to put on a suit, or even just trousers and a shirt.

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"One thing that did surprise me though, is the lack of effort the single men put in.

I finished work, went to gym, shaved, showered, put shirt and my favourite trousers and boots on,

Brushed teeth, moisturised, styled hair, the works.

Some of the guys looked like they came straight from work.

We find this at a lot of clubs, be it single guys, or the male half of couples. Really grinds our gears - it doesn’t take much effort for a guy to put on a suit, or even just trousers and a shirt. "

I probaby wouldn't wear a suit but certainly a shirt and decent trousers, definitely not a tracksuit bottoms

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Love it when a man makes an effort. With kestrels/abfabs its a bit more relaxed on a naturist spa as everyone usually just wears towels lol... but last fri even though it was fancy dress for halloween, amount of men with suits or smart clothing was lovely to see. Only saw one who wore jeans and vest top which wasnt sure if it was part of his halloween costume or just the fact he didnt try to look smart, I don't know, but 99% of people looked amazing

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Love it when a man makes an effort. With kestrels/abfabs its a bit more relaxed on a naturist spa as everyone usually just wears towels lol... but last fri even though it was fancy dress for halloween, amount of men with suits or smart clothing was lovely to see. Only saw one who wore jeans and vest top which wasnt sure if it was part of his halloween costume or just the fact he didnt try to look smart, I don't know, but 99% of people looked amazing "

I wore a crisp white shirt, black skintight jeans (it shows off my thighs) and a pair of brown boots (not DM's)

Decent aftershave, doesn't take much to make an effort

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Love it when a man makes an effort. With kestrels/abfabs its a bit more relaxed on a naturist spa as everyone usually just wears towels lol... but last fri even though it was fancy dress for halloween, amount of men with suits or smart clothing was lovely to see. Only saw one who wore jeans and vest top which wasnt sure if it was part of his halloween costume or just the fact he didnt try to look smart, I don't know, but 99% of people looked amazing

I wore a crisp white shirt, black skintight jeans (it shows off my thighs) and a pair of brown boots (not DM's)

Decent aftershave, doesn't take much to make an effort

"

Good for you. Think you will do well in the scene by putting in that effort.

Another thing which helps single guys, if you are contacting a couple or single female on Fabs, please read their profile, most single guys don't !

There are many great clubs in the Midlands so try a few others, even tho it does cost a bit for a single guy in joining and entrance fees.

Good luck.

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour


"Love it when a man makes an effort. With kestrels/abfabs its a bit more relaxed on a naturist spa as everyone usually just wears towels lol... but last fri even though it was fancy dress for halloween, amount of men with suits or smart clothing was lovely to see. Only saw one who wore jeans and vest top which wasnt sure if it was part of his halloween costume or just the fact he didnt try to look smart, I don't know, but 99% of people looked amazing

I wore a crisp white shirt, black skintight jeans (it shows off my thighs) and a pair of brown boots (not DM's)

Decent aftershave, doesn't take much to make an effort

"

Sounds lovely and I hope you gpt compliments on your thighs lol

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By *etsplay90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Yipeeeeee, membership approved

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