FabSwingers.com forum: Towel twitchers

By *it of fun cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Went to a club last night and just can not understand some of the guys, we are not having a go at all single guys because that is why we go to mixed nights. Sat in the bar and it seemed fairly quiet, one or two couples and singles milling around, then decided to go for a play upstairs, the room we like has glory holes all along one side, when we got upstairs it was packed!! Single guys just milling around going from room to to room even though all the rooms were empty and they had just looked in the room 30 seconds ago!

We get into the room and start playing but all you can hear is the guys chatting and trying to get a look and the every 10 seconds the door handle twists. Next thing all you can hear is arguing and banging around outside the room as they all try and vie for positions... We had our fun and as we open the door to leave there is a mass stampede away from the room! We really do not understand the logic to it. A little later we are sat in the bar and a guy comes along and starts chatting and shortly after MrsH takes him off to a room and has a bit of fun.. The moral is to all the towel twitchers out there, talk to couples, prove you have social skills, you will have a lot more success than milling around the corridors twitching your towels and waiting to pounce! Sorry guys but even if you were the best looking most well hung guy in the world just moping around the corridors does you no favours. Rant over !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I don't agree, it's Elaine here,

if I go to a club I walk round in underwear, like it or not I will get looked at etc, if people openly play then ditto, as long as the no means no rule is enforced then what's the issue ? Men playing under a towel isn't ok, but you play in full view and that's fine ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps not all people who go to clubs want to pjay either, watching is their thing, you play they watch, if you didn't play they couldn't watch !!!!!

Once you go to a club as long as no rules are broken you have to accept there are all different kinds of people, shy, introvert , lack of confidence, married etc etc etc such is life , I know if I wear just bra and knickers I'll get looked at it's bound to happen !

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By *it of fun cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

No problem with being looked at or anyproblem with watchers, it is the fact that the guys just wander from room to room expecting to play but not willing to socialise..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they wanted socialise they would go to a pub, they know people will be playing in public in a club so it's there already, if you Want to socialise first pick someone up in a pub ?

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"If they wanted socialise they would go to a pub, they know people will be playing in public in a club so it's there already, if you Want to socialise first pick someone up in a pub ? "

we like you

couldn't agree more.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"If they wanted socialise they would go to a pub, they know people will be playing in public in a club so it's there already, if you Want to socialise first pick someone up in a pub ?

we like you

couldn't agree more."

see... i can kinda get what higgi is saying....

you tend to be able to split single men into clubs into 2 groups...

1) those who wont say boo to a goose, wander round in clubs like lost sheep patrolling all the play areas, and anyone starts playing they are first there wanking/key jangling...

2) those who go and chat, will mingle and socialise and chat and will more play it by ear than the others... just because it is a club it doesn't mean you have to act like a lonely sex starved puppy...

some will like 1.... some make like the other.....

in my times of going to clubs, I know which group tends to do better in the long run...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"If they wanted socialise they would go to a pub, they know people will be playing in public in a club so it's there already, if you Want to socialise first pick someone up in a pub ?

we like you

couldn't agree more.

see... i can kinda get what higgi is saying....

you tend to be able to split single men into clubs into 2 groups...

1) those who wont say boo to a goose, wander round in clubs like lost sheep patrolling all the play areas, and anyone starts playing they are first there wanking/key jangling...

some will like 1.... some make like the other.....

in my times of going to clubs, I know which group tends to do better in the long run... "

Couldn't agree more Fabio, we very rarely play with a single guy but when we do it's because he's taken to time to speak to us. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they wanted socialise they would go to a pub, they know people will be playing in public in a club so it's there already, if you Want to socialise first pick someone up in a pub ?

we like you

couldn't agree more.

see... i can kinda get what higgi is saying....

you tend to be able to split single men into clubs into 2 groups...

1) those who wont say boo to a goose, wander round in clubs like lost sheep patrolling all the play areas, and anyone starts playing they are first there wanking/key jangling...

some will like 1.... some make like the other.....

in my times of going to clubs, I know which group tends to do better in the long run...

Couldn't agree more Fabio, we very rarely play with a single guy but when we do it's because he's taken to time to speak to us. Z"

agree totally

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Its alright singing the praises of the single guy who take time to talk to couples, the other group do the gang bang work that those guys won't do. Some couples like that.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Its alright singing the praises of the single guy who take time to talk to couples, the other group do the gang bang work that those guys won't do. Some couples like that.

who says...... maybe the difference is that if i am in a "gangbang"... i would have talked to the couple first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men generally have to pay 40 quid to get in, they maybe are reluctant to discuss their private lives, married in a relationship etc etc.

They may have poor social skills no confidence and now if they go to a club they will see people shagging in public and walking round bLed or sexy underwear for anyone dho is there to see. You can't walk round in that then say to some blokes hey donylook at me can you !!!!!!

then as someone said, people go on a big bed a have a free for all, no chatting then !!!!

It's all our own preferences , if you Want a chat and someone doesn't then you don't play with them ,but if you play in public they are bound to want to watch, who wouldn't !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit. . It depends on my mindset as to how i like to play. . I can be just as happy playing with someone i don't know, especially if they have observed the rules and not pushed in. . And other times i will have conversed with someone before hand. . Mind Mr J has a some input into this too

As a few people have said we are all different (some are shy, some are outgoing, some are cocky) . . We have had a gentleman watch us twice in a club now, he really doesn't seem to play, just loves watching a woman being pleasured. . Its his thing. .

Being watched, knowing they can't touch without an invite can be exciting to, if you are that way inclined

S Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to talk

I try and strike up conversations, not always easy... not always hard... sometimes you get knocked back, but if you've been polite and respectful then the knockback is often the same. That's life... and as said by others, a gangbang might be a different kettle of fish, but if it's a social setting then it at least pays to have a bit of social grace.

After all, if I've paid @ ?30-?50 for a night out then I want to have a bit of a nice time, no entitlement to play, but if there's a room full of people chatting, drinking, having a nice time then I'd have to be bonkers to hide myself away when I could be joining in with that, right?

As for the patrols... as offputting for a single guy as it is for a couple I guess. It's often "regulars" that stake out areas I've found. Some exceptions and YMMV... certainly when visiting YouTopia and Isis I've had better evenings when socially mixing... with all kinds of outcome, friendship or fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find its best not to stovepipe anyone into a group...we are all different and after different things.

Some days I would class myself as a towel twitchier, the next i'm very social the next i just want to lick every single bit of pussy in the club.

I'm sure i'm not the only one out there who behaves according to his mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples and women have to remember that single guys are the lifeblood of the clubs and there currency keeps them afloat...i as a respectful single guy and occasional towel twitcher find the attitude of some single women and couples tiresome. Some being on a power and control trip haughty and condescending..constant dialogues about the lacivious behaviour of the single men.swingers clubs are not good places to be looking down your nose at anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Went to a club last night and just can not understand some of the guys, we are not having a go at all single guys because that is why we go to mixed nights. Sat in the bar and it seemed fairly quiet, one or two couples and singles milling around, then decided to go for a play upstairs, the room we like has glory holes all along one side, when we got upstairs it was packed!! Single guys just milling around going from room to to room even though all the rooms were empty and they had just looked in the room 30 seconds ago!

Ive been to clubs many times and seen couples go in and the guy 'dump' his Mrs at the bar while he goes off playing

So manybe all these single 'towel twitchers' srnt so single, men are men single or not

saying that im a proud towel twitcher, i go to clubs for sex so i go looking round rooms to see whats going on and if theres anything id like to watch or join in

I see no problem in going to a sex club looking for sex

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

As someone who looks for single guys, rather than couples, in a club, it depends on how we want to play.

If we're more into the social side that night we'll go to a dressed club and mingle in the bar more before wandering to play rooms. If we're more interested in the play than the chat we'll go somewhere like Chams. If I'm wandering around there in underwear I expect to get looked at and comments. Generally people will ask to touch, but some don't - sometimes that's ok, sometimes it's not so good - so it can be a minefield for single guys!

I have no problem with pretty much anyone watching, especially if they're not right in my face (or their face is getting in the way!) - if I'm playing in an open room then that's fair enough. I would still appreciate them respecting 'no' and checking with myself/ husband in some way before just jumping in and joining in the action (I'm not talking group play with multiple ffs to more mms, but me and 1/ more guys)- and I hate it when someone presents themselves in a queue with a condom already on - it's assuming the answer will be a 'yes' - which almost always results instead in a 'no'

Generally, though, single guys are, in my books, a 'Good Thing'

and I would never again go to a couples only event..

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Ive been to clubs many times and seen couples go in and the guy 'dump' his Mrs at the bar while he goes off playing

So manybe all these single 'towel twitchers' srnt so single, men are men single or not

saying that im a proud towel twitcher, i go to clubs for sex so i go looking round rooms to see whats going on and if theres anything id like to watch or join in

I see no problem in going to a sex club looking for sex

Like, NN I also prowl the rooms myself to see where any action is/ what it is and who is in there - so single guys aren't the only ones 'going from room to room'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having public sex in clubs designed for public sex leaves you with little right too complain how the public sexually react

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to couple of clubs and I totally get off on watching/playing this is why I go to them I love to watch and on ocassion play what better place to do this than in a swingers club???, hmmmm maybe I should change my name to towel twitcher lol

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Why don't you just go on a couples only night then!

Bash Bash Bash!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Why don't you just go on a couples only night then!

Bash Bash Bash!"

But they have stated straight off that they go on a mixed night because they'll play with single guys...

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