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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hoping to attend tomorrow

Is it busy lately on a monday?

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By *illyvMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Mondays can be busy or quiet but it can also be full of women as they get in free or you get alot of guys there who dont no how to be social i will be there from around 12 till 3 hopefully the guys who was in the steam room last time we see each other there aint still moaning haha

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent

In our experience it’s never full of women on a Monday, it’s full of single guys hoping that there’s lots of single women lol

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By *illyvMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

I went two weeks ago and there was more women than guys but last week was way more guys than women

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent

We’ve been on Mondays and there hasn’t been any single women at all. Just a few couples and lots of men. Be interesting to see who attends tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weather forecast looks better for our other hobby now so we’ll go later in the week.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
over a year ago

brentwood

We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day "

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x"

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before. "

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x

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By *illyvMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x"

Haha i think i no who your talking about he was there Wednesday night with me and laura went he didnt stay long

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x"

Lol x we found a few of the single guys follow you around or they are like meerkats ever time Mandy moves

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x

Lol x we found a few of the single guys follow you around or they are like meerkats ever time Mandy moves

"

Meerkats, yes that’s such a good description

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Weather forecast looks better for our other hobby now so we’ll go later in the week. "

Shame you aren’t going, would have been good to put a face to your great forum posts x

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By *aldyman500Man
over a year ago

Enfield

Really think there should be more couples only days rather than just Saturday evenings perhaps this would attract more people

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By *obincrusoeMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Was planning on visiting after work but after reading this post sounds like Mondays are

A day to avoid?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weather forecast looks better for our other hobby now so we’ll go later in the week.

Shame you aren’t going, would have been good to put a face to your great forum posts x"

Ha ha.

Thanks.

We’ll probably go later on the week.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"Really think there should be more couples only days rather than just Saturday evenings perhaps this would attract more people "

Would be great to have a couples only day

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
over a year ago

brentwood


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x

Lol x we found a few of the single guys follow you around or they are like meerkats ever time Mandy moves

Meerkats, yes that’s such a good description "

Did you have a nice time today? Many Meerkats about

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
over a year ago

kent


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x

Lol x we found a few of the single guys follow you around or they are like meerkats ever time Mandy moves

Meerkats, yes that’s such a good description

Did you have a nice time today? Many Meerkats about "

We had a great time thanks, not too many meerkats today. Some really friendly people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really think there should be more couples only days rather than just Saturday evenings perhaps this would attract more people

Would be great to have a couples only day "

It would suit some but we’d give that day a miss.

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By *obincrusoeMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Anyone visiting today to make the list of this last minute sunshine

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By *iamond cockneyWoman
over a year ago

kent


"Anyone visiting today to make the list of this last minute sunshine"

I’m here x

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Hi thinking of going tonight ….. hate the thought of being a pest here to those really not interested …. But if you are, message me - literally not been in a few years !

Be nice to chat to some friendly people

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

I have been going for years, and as a single woman, I would avoid it like the plague, unless you like a lot of attention, and more.

Now I am a couple, I still avoid Mondays, as it’s full of meerkats, and some with no manners try and touch you up in the jacuzzi. Other than that it’s a nice place.

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

That’s sad to hear as even I find that embarrassing and awkward to watch when men just follow naked women round and then just grope in the hot tub.

Think I’ll still head there and enjoy the facilities, and if I click with anyone it will be a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We went in Sunday and actually managed a half hour in the garden too.

It was pleasantly warm out of the breeze.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Hi thinking of going tonight ….. hate the thought of being a pest here to those really not interested …. But if you are, message me - literally not been in a few years !

Be nice to chat to some friendly people "

Why would you be a pest there, everyone's welcome, and no one's a pest unless they make themselves one

You'll always get the odd one or two who act like they've never seen a naked women there before but they are in the minority most attendees are lovely

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By *tevieb1987Man
over a year ago

Thames Ditton


"We stopped going on Mondays we found that women having free to enter attracted far to many single men who expected much more than a just a spa day

We’re going today purely because it fits in with work. I have no interest in all those single guys roaming around hoping to get lucky. They will be told in no uncertain terms too if they pester. As I’m over a certain age they very rarely bother me. But will be told if they do!

Jules x

Last time we went on a monday it was like the guys had never seen a naked woman before.

Oh god, that’s the last thing you want. There is one particular guy that we’ve seen a few times. Who looks directly at you and rubs himself and his fancy razor cut pubic hair lol. I have no idea what he’s hoping to achieve. I’m never sure if I should laugh or give a round of applause lol

Jules x

Lol x we found a few of the single guys follow you around or they are like meerkats ever time Mandy moves

Meerkats, yes that’s such a good description "

I call them sharks in the pool area

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

Went on the Monday night, was pleasantly surprised that it was quite busy, more men but quite a few women. I had an enjoyable fun time from being in the naked relaxed environment, talking to people and also having some intimate time with sexy minded couples and ladies.

I was not one of the men just following naked women about being an annoyance - sadly there were quite a few there, I find that it gives single guys a bad vibe generally in that until you get talking to others there they are clearly worried about single guys. I got chatting, was friendly and gave them space ….wanted to get to know people, and see if we clicked

Had a lovely time

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Hi thinking of going tonight ….. hate the thought of being a pest here to those really not interested …. But if you are, message me - literally not been in a few years !

Be nice to chat to some friendly people

Why would you be a pest there, everyone's welcome, and no one's a pest unless they make themselves one

You'll always get the odd one or two who act like they've never seen a naked women there before but they are in the minority most attendees are lovely "

Maybe a pest is the wrong description - it is what I guessed most women expect from a single guy here - ie I’m a pest until I can prove otherwise

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Hi thinking of going tonight ….. hate the thought of being a pest here to those really not interested …. But if you are, message me - literally not been in a few years !

Be nice to chat to some friendly people

Why would you be a pest there, everyone's welcome, and no one's a pest unless they make themselves one

You'll always get the odd one or two who act like they've never seen a naked women there before but they are in the minority most attendees are lovely

Maybe a pest is the wrong description - it is what I guessed most women expect from a single guy here - ie I’m a pest until I can prove otherwise "

I've never had a problem with single guys at Silverleighs although bizarrely it's the only place where I've had bad experiences with couples

There's good and bad in every demographic even single women too I'm sure, we can only control our own behaviour

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By *aveonMan
over a year ago

Dartford

It’s now free entry for females on a Thursday as well as Monday, anyone going tomorrow 3rd November ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m thinking of going there for a week next year now Acorns retreat is no longer naturist like the idea of a indoor swimming pool is there a room for playing

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"I’m thinking of going there for a week next year now Acorns retreat is no longer naturist like the idea of a indoor swimming pool is there a room for playing "

There are 3 restrooms available in what we call the naughty corridor,Rm 1 has a more comfortable bed and can put chairs up against the door tilted to have privacy,rm 2 has a small single higher bed,which can be moved slightly against door for privacy,both rooms do get very hot so can work up a sweat rm 3 has 2 single beds and is used as an open room or chill out room

However if you are staying for a week the hotel rooms are alot more comfortable and private to play in,some have ensuite too

Silverleigh is more a naturist venue,so no play in gardens,spa facilities or any other public area's,play can happen just respect not everyone is a swinger,and maybe there to use the facilities and enjoy the social side

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

Exactly

Which is the last thing couples want

Go Friday evening when it's Couples Only

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

A lot of them haven't, or haven't for a very long time

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon


"I have been going for years, and as a single woman, I would avoid it like the plague, unless you like a lot of attention, and more.

Now I am a couple, I still avoid Mondays, as it’s full of meerkats, and some with no manners try and touch you up in the jacuzzi. Other than that it’s a nice place. "

Consensus for Couples and women to avoid Mondays

Why not make Monday the Single Male Only night

That's what it's turning into

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon


"It’s now free entry for females on a Thursday as well as Monday, anyone going tomorrow 3rd November ?"

Yes all the single men will be

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By *arcteggMan
over a year ago

grays

Single male alert ******

Yep that’s me , I have a Free day Thursday daytime , and having never been to silverleigh before I’m wondering what to expect ?

Im not Into wandering around praying for a lady .. but wanna relax and chill

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

When is the first Silverleigh Friday Couples party this year?

End of the month ?

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By *ndrewInEssexMan
over a year ago

Harlow

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By *ndrewInEssexMan
over a year ago

Harlow


"When is the first Silverleigh Friday Couples party this year?

End of the month ? "

Probably the Friday before or after Valentine's Day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone clear this up for me is this eurekas or is it a separate venue thanks

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By *iamond cockneyWoman
over a year ago

kent

Silverleigh is a naturist hotel and spa in west kingsdown

Eureka is a naturist club in longfield

Both are in Kent a short distance from each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silverleigh is a naturist hotel and spa in west kingsdown

Eureka is a naturist club in longfield

Both are in Kent a short distance from each other "

thank you have a great day

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By *illyvMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Anyone going today ?

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