FabSwingers.com forum: First ever club visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All, we are looking at our first ever club visit on the 8th October at VA for seductive saturday.

We have had a couple of private meets and really enjoyed them however we know a club is going to be different. Both really nervous about it but really excited at the same time.

Have a few questions if anyone could help us newbies out.

How many people roughly would be at VA on a night like this?

Is it really as relaxed and no pressure as people say?

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By *yphodMan
over a year ago

London

Have not been to this particular event, but at the majority of clubs there is very little pressure, you often see couples sit at the bar all night just for the social aspect, or just watch other couples maybe play with each other whilst they are watching. Go at your own pace no pressure.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

"Hi All, we are looking at our first ever club visit on the 8th October at VA for seductive saturday.

We have had a couple of private meets and really enjoyed them however we know a club is going to be different. Both really nervous about it but really excited at the same time.

Have a few questions if anyone could help us newbies out.

How many people roughly would be at VA on a night like this?

Is it really as relaxed and no pressure as people say? "

Seductive Saturdays usually attract between 60 and 80 people, mostly couples but sometimes some single ladies too.

And yes it is really relaxed with no pressure. One of the team will show you around and answer any questions, and then you can do whatever you feel happy with. Each weekend there are several couples just like you, experiencing club life for the first time and their feedback at the end of the night is always positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, just nervous about the whole thing, not saying we are most attractive couple but until you go you have all these things running through your mind about what it could be like.

The no pressure one is the big one for us.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Thanks, just nervous about the whole thing, not saying we are most attractive couple but until you go you have all these things running through your mind about what it could be like.

The no pressure one is the big one for us. "

You'll love VA, we're there Saturday for Chic.. 3rd visit..

The layout lends itself really well for your first experience!

There is no door to walk into the play area's, although divided. Meaning you can observe fully clothed and partake as you like. Honestly our favourite club out of the 3 visited for this reason..

We're far from shy, but really like the lack of a psychological and physical threshold between the social and play in the club!

Hope that's helpful, go at your pace and enjoy! X

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks, just nervous about the whole thing, not saying we are most attractive couple but until you go you have all these things running through your mind about what it could be like.

The no pressure one is the big one for us.

You'll love VA, we're there Saturday for Chic.. 3rd visit..

The layout lends itself really well for your first experience!

There is no door to walk into the play area's, although divided. Meaning you can observe fully clothed and partake as you like. Honestly our favourite club out of the 3 visited for this reason..

We're far from shy, but really like the lack of a psychological and physical threshold between the social and play in the club!

Hope that's helpful, go at your pace and enjoy! X "
Ah that sounds cool, didn’t realise you could

be in the bar and watch. I’m sure we will get involved and play but you just don’t know until you are there. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to house rocks a month ago. The place was busy but not packed. It was our first time and we were super nervous but wasn’t long before we got talking to a few couples and we had a great night. Super relaxed everyone on the night was friendly and respectful staff were excellent. Go with an open mind with no expectations and you’ll love it. We’ve booked to stay again in October

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP: we've been to VA a number of times, mostly on a Wednesday day time for MILF Club but most recently on a Friday evening.

We find (maybe because of how we play) that the Wednesday day times are better. The single guys then seem to be more sociable and they undress for the play areas. Maybe it was just a bad night but the Friday that we went to seemed to be all couples that only wanted to play with each other, and single guys that kept their clothes on and just wandered around the play areas staring at the couples.

Quite possibly a bad evening, and we'll try it again but might just stick to the Wednesday. If you don't like it first time, maybe try a MILF Club next time.

(Bry)

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