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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Much interest this evening?

We’re hoping to attend.

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By *rivatepitMan
over a year ago

Battle

Looking forward to seeing you there, sounds like there's a good crowd expected. It's normally a good night, and the facilities make for some very different experiences....

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

ME1 is a gay sauna so guess itst a bi-night tonight?

Only ask because you are both straight so am confused (easily done!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"ME1 is a gay sauna so guess itst a bi-night tonight?

Only ask because you are both straight so am confused (easily done!) "

It's advertised as a bi night but for as long as I've been attending (2019) its definitely more straight than bi

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By *estlondonladMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

"ME1 is a gay sauna so guess itst a bi-night tonight?

Only ask because you are both straight so am confused (easily done!) "

Presume you are the bi-police

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

well was thinking of giving it a go but if thats true we probably won't bother. Nothing ruins bi nights more than straight people attending, for a variety of reasons. Just from experience.

The bi events at some of the clubs around here make bi orientation a condition of entry, as they really should be a night for the bi males (every nights a bi night for females). Where places haven't done that it can end badly - I've seen hostility due to an advance from a guy towards a straight, presumptuous youths who think all women are fair game as they 'swing', t-girls avoiding as its not a 'safe space' and my personal bugbear - women turning it into a greedy girls event due the larger number of single guys. They turn up and get through as many as they can, wrapping up after a successful night, only for the everyone else facing a near empty club as the blokes all jet off once they have cum, usually well before the end of the night!

I don't know the venue so whatever works for them and the regular clientele I suppose. I'd probably wrongly assumed that it being a gay venue, there would be fewer straights generally but maybe not.

By the way, people playing 'straight' until a certain point and then lots of MM stuff happening is common and is okay, but thats bi folk playing straight, not straights doing their thang

Sorry if come across preachy, don't mean to

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

Hey, clubs can do whatever they want.

t's just in experience, we have never been fans of bi clubs nights letting straights in. It's not as thought they don't have enough straight nights to go to....Seriously, I understand the attraction as bi nights often have a great vibe to them, but thats usually borne out of people knowing everyone else is into the same thing (or curious about it).

No offence to the OP either. I was genuinely confused initially

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By *hilleoMan
over a year ago

surrey

I have been a few times and it’s very bi. More gay, bi guys than straight in my experience.

Am thinking of gong tonight, so to see some of you the

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey, clubs can do whatever they want.

No offence to the OP either. I was genuinely confused initially"

Such a shame that we won’t get to meet you

Still at least you won’t catch our “straightness”

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

It’s okay, we are fully vax’ed up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s okay, we are fully vax’ed up

We are literally finding your nonsense hilarious but shaming anyone even “straight” shaming says more about you than those you seek to embarrass.

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