FabSwingers.com forum: Seating on the edge of beds

By *portyndNaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

I guess this is a question for couples who like open play areas in clubs.

On your views it is acceptable for single men who you don't know of have spoken early to sit on the edge of the bed you are occupying?

Recently I noticed this common behaviour in clubs which on my view is intrusive and disrespectful when you are not invited. Interestingly after few attempts on different beds some of them got lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve experienced one guy that laid down really close to us. When we asked him to move and he refused we just stopped playing.

Twat spoiled it for everyone.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Id say that's a no unless invited, an outsider would have no way of knowing whether they'd been a conversation prior though

Also I guess it depends on the venue, have they chosen an open room where people can enter or sit to get a better view, could they have chosen a room with a stable door where people have to keep a distance, if the venue had more discreet rooms but they'd chosen a more ooen room then maybe they don't mind

If in doubt ask

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

My partner is still teasing me over a situation we had at a club a while ago. We were on a 4 poster bed in the middle of the room, playing. Plenty of space on sofas around the bed, without the need to sit on the bed. A single guy came in and tried to sit on the bed. My partner said I released my "inner Domme" then, I (apparently) pointed at the guy and very clearly said "no!". The guy was like "I just want to watch", to which my reply was "You can watch from there"- pointing at the sofa. He had no choice but to move.

Even if my reaction was slightly over-the-top, I learned I have to be like that, very clear. As it happened to me before, someone who wanted "just to watch" started touching me, without permission, as soon as my guard was down.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

At our regular haunt guys can't do that, even on mixed nights.

To enter an open playroom they have to be invited in to join couples or others and can't just wander in as they please.

Works really well as it's inclusive, yet ensures that rooms don't get swamped with singles that people aren't playing with.

We had a guy try and follow us and another couple into a private room the other week. He got a death stare from the ladies and a swift "I don't fucking think so bud" from me.

Good guys are great and an asset to any club. Pushy, expectant ones can jog on.

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

I don’t like them on the bed as they just can’t resist touching and not just touching but grabbing, groping and pinching and a guy yesterday who I told three times to back away from me hid behind my husband on the sofa and stuck his finger up my arse!!! Some guys really spoil the fun and just can’t help themselves! All the rest were very well mannered and waited to be invited and we managed to have fun!

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Open playroom or not we'd be fairly unimpressed if a guy just came and sat next to us, within touching distance, if he hadnt been invited

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