FabSwingers.com forum: Maidstone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I own several bars, which proves helpful.

Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..

Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.

Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I own several bars, which proves helpful.

Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..

Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.

Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? "

We would be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be interested in finding out more.

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By *unguy43Man
over a year ago

hailsham

Would like to know more about this

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Interested

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By *otshot14Woman
over a year ago

nuneaton

Interested to find out more

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By *winkletoes3002wiceasCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone / Tonbridge

Sounds interesting …

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By *ave playerMan
over a year ago

chatham

"I own several bars, which proves helpful.

Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..

Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.

Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? "

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By *ave playerMan
over a year ago

chatham

"I own several bars, which proves helpful.

Thinking of starting a “secret night” where you’ll need a password to enter. Blacked out windows..

Aimed exclusively at Fab Swingers.

Who would be interested… wanna know if it’s worth my time / effort ? "

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By *exleyboyMan
over a year ago

Erith

Yes, would be interested in finding out more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Initial idea.

A Friday Night.

More of a social, and see where it heads kind of thing… free entry, you buy your drinks

There will be a limit on single men. And it will be worked out on a ratio.

Lively music and dance floor.

Should it go well I will look to expand on these night to have themes, I.e hot tub night, masked dance etc

Let me k ow your thoughts

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

Sounds good to me.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Just an idea, thinking outside the box, there are socials and club nights all over the country where single guy numbers are restricted more so than couples. To create something different, what about limiting the number of couples and allow a greater number of vetted single guys. Chaps we have spoken to regarding clubs mostly say the same thing, that they feel the clubs are a bit Clicky when all the couples are engaging in conversations together and they don't feel comfortable approaching a group like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just an idea, thinking outside the box, there are socials and club nights all over the country where single guy numbers are restricted more so than couples. To create something different, what about limiting the number of couples and allow a greater number of vetted single guys. Chaps we have spoken to regarding clubs mostly say the same thing, that they feel the clubs are a bit Clicky when all the couples are engaging in conversations together and they don't feel comfortable approaching a group like that. "

As I said, would be worked out on a ratio, or you could end up with 60 guys, 20 women… estimating that 50% of those guys would be straight rather than bi…. That then makes it potentially very uncomfortable for the women here… who then wouldn’t come back again.

Quite frankly if you have the confidence to turn up to these things, but don’t have the confidence to actually engage with anyone… then you need to check yourself… and give yourself a good talking to.

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By *achel_SJTV/TS
over a year ago

Gravesend

I would be interested

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm interested

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Keeping an eye on this.

As long as there was a good mix of couples/girls/guys and everyone else.

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By *obbiepaulMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yes please xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in!!!

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By *otswapsCouple
over a year ago

Medway

This may be of interest to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely of interest to us

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By *harles MaidstoneMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

I’m interested

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By *ipsy74Woman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Sounds interesting ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds like we are on…

I will start planning the evening and get all the right things in place.

If any F/CPL fancy helping me getting me verified before I do this, I would be eternally thankful, and free drink for you all night at my event !

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Sounds like we are on…

I will start planning the evening and get all the right things in place.

If any F/CPL fancy helping me getting me verified before I do this, I would be eternally thankful, and free drink for you all night at my event ! "

You dont need a veri to do this, not with this much interest. If it does happen you will have plenty or veris after anyway

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Just a thought, if its to be fab exclusive would a guest list be a better option? At least you would know if its feasible and what the turn out would be before hand and so you can keep a good ratio and mix of people. I like the sound of what your plotting but as a single gal I would want to know, or see who is going before hand so Im not gonna turn up, say pineapple handbag or what ever the pass word was only to walk in and find 4 couples, 2 single girls and 3425 single guys. Also if you did just use a password there is nothing to stop that password being passed on to non fab members. So Keith who is the only fab member out of his mates could just be like "I got an idea for friday night, just say this word and you can get in"

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By *igbustedmilfWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Sounds like a great idea. Interested to know more

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By *ola81Woman
over a year ago

pond

Interested

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By *egardMan
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

Sounds like a good idea

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By *aughtyxButNiceMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Yes would Definitely be up for it

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

Oh yes, a social this close to me would be great

would love to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested. Would just be C looking for single guys

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"4 couples, 2 single girls and 3425 single guys"

Sounds like a great evening!

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich

Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would anyone be up for a small private social gathering at the bar this Saturday?.. Closed to the public… I’d be interested in testing the water with a sample group before launching this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone be up for a small private social gathering at the bar this Saturday?.. Closed to the public… I’d be interested in testing the water with a sample group before launching this. "

Watching the numbers.

Possibly.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

No good to me personally, But i do love the idea.

Good luck with the concept in making mate

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By *ikos81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Interested

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By *aughtyxButNiceMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"Would anyone be up for a small private social gathering at the bar this Saturday?.. Closed to the public… I’d be interested in testing the water with a sample group before launching this. "

Think there is a lot going on at the clubs this Saturday night eureka/DV8/pleasures all got event on so number will probably be low

But would be interested next time

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By *weetKoRn20Couple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

We would be interested

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By *igbustedmilfWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Personally I can’t do this Saturday as I’m working.

Whilst some can do short notice I think a lot of people like to plan ahead so it might be better to give a date at least a couple of weeks in advance. To give time for people to plan.

Or if it’s just going to be a social then maybe midweek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested. Can't do this Saturday but will be keeping an eye for updates.

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By *ultansofswing90Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Erm.. yes please!

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Yes, pleas I am in with a bit of advance notice

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By *ibertine_LifestyleCouple
over a year ago

Sheerness

Yes! We are local to maidstone, just make sure the music is good

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By *illyvMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

I would definitely be interested in this and maidstone is pretty local to most of us thats commented so far think this might be the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just shelving the idea for a couple of weeks …

Needs a bit more planning etc, but thanks for the ideas…

Plus I’m slightly disillusioned with the site and the people within it at the moment … Not saying the people that have shown an interest in this thread are horrible … but there are some right rotten tomatoes on this site, ha !

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By *aughtyxButNiceMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"Just shelving the idea for a couple of weeks …

Needs a bit more planning etc, but thanks for the ideas…

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Could b fun x

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By *ouplemeet39Couple
29 weeks ago

kent

Anyone on here use Snapchat wide wants to show off some pics

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