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More than voyeurs / exhibitionists - finding our tribe...advice sought ?

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By *inkypair6969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

We have visited clubs a couple of times and have enjoyed the experience and are keen to repeat it. But our time is precious and so we want to make the most of it.

Discussing our visits and what we enjoyed we realised that we are probably both exhibitionists and voyeurs. Thinking about our most exciting memories from club visits what come to mind are watching a gang-bang while we touched each other - sort of feeding off each other's arousal at what we were watching, fucking while surrounded by others who were very obviously aroused and enjoying the show, and a time when F tied B and then invited a very surprised passer by to watch as he fucked her.

But we have realised that while the simple being watched and watching turns us both on what really matters to us is being in a place where we can be our free and wholly sexual selves - without inhibitions. We love wandering around naked, aroused, without shame. And amongst other people who are like that and understand that.

We might not necessarily want to play with others (though we had a magical soft experience with a couple we found ourselves on a bed with in a club) but we want to be amongst others who are open and not shy about the fact that we are all here - in a club - to fuck.

Does this strike a chord with other people here ?

And any recommendations for clubs in the South East where we might find this vibe ?

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By *ossdinCouple
over a year ago

CROYDON/GATWICK/BEXHILL

Definitely sounds like something we'd enjoy too

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

No recommendation on venues but this is basically us. We enjoy being watched.

Mr enjoys watching more than Mrs does but we both enjoy a shared room for playing much as you describe and occasionally soft swap too.

You’re not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely us. Couldn't have described it better, even for a fiver.

We've tried lots of clubs and you can have this experience wherever you go as long as the right people are there.

With that said, OP4F has a cool area where there's a white line voyeurs aren't allowed to cross. Pleasures has a small room you can play in while watching action through a window (last time we were there, three other couples were playing in the corridor next to us). It also has a giant orgy bed! DV8 has a great outdoor space where the guys have always been really respectful of look/wank, but don't touch.

But I've found you always need the right people there when you go, or it can feel flat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would echo the previous comment that Pleasures on a good night might suit you.

Eureka lower field on a warm day is nice and there is a roped off section for couples only although we have found that when we play outside the ropes section the single guys have always been respectful and appreciative.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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This is definitely us too.

Would love to meet like-minded people who are in the East Midlands!!

OP, we hope you don't mind us joining in your thread!!

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"This is definitely us too.

Would love to meet like-minded people who are in the East Midlands!!

OP, we hope you don't mind us joining in your thread!!"

Echo everything from above. We do travel, say 90mins/60miles, so if we could find a mutual location, this could work.

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By *inkypair6969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Hey - thank you all for the replies. It sounds like "our tribe" might exist. Just a question of finding the place where they're most like to be.

With luck we might meet some of you

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