FabSwingers.com forum: Secrets this weekend advice please

By *isa40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

Hi all,

We are heading up to Secrets this weekend. We are club newbies.

Any newbie advice?

Also completely stumped at what to wear. don't want to over or under dress. For those that have been before what is the general norm for men and women?

Thanks

By *Lcouple999Couple
over a year ago

Bathish

Hi guys this will be our second time going. We are meeting before hand in a pub if you wanted some people to walk in with. Honestly it's so laid back. They provide towels and everything else you could need.

I went with a sexy dress and lingerie underneath. People soon strip down to there undies. Hubby wore jeans and a shirt last time. Which seemed to be the norm. Some men walked around in undies and some got dressed and undressed as required.

By *isa40 OP Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall

That's great advice thank you. Thanks for the offer really appreciate it, we are camping on the site so we will be there early, feel free to come and say hi if you see us

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

We are heading up to Secrets this weekend. We are club newbies.

Any newbie advice?

Also completely stumped at what to wear. don't want to over or under dress. For those that have been before what is the general norm for men and women?

Thanks"

If it's your first club then you have chosen very well just be aware that unlike lots of other venues in the SW this place usually gets quite busy.

Over the standard advice of not drinking too much Dutch courage, being yourself, talk to people and trying not to stay in the corner

it's a good idea to not get there early ish so you can get a tour.

Dresscode - pritty much everyone attending makes an effort think sexy side of classy. Boys mostly opt for looking smart. a shirt, trousers and shoes. Girls usually opt for a short dress. Later on lot's choose to dress down and rock some lingerie/posh pants.