FabSwingers.com forum: Chams in Darlaston tonight.

By *randmrsnaughty2019Couple
over a year ago

Evesham

"First time tonight, anyone else going?"

Can you let us know what it was like as we're thinking of trying it out, not done chams yet and a bit nervous

By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Had my first night on Friday.

There is absolutely no need for any worry.

It is the most chilled and friendly place you can imagine. Ten minutes and I was hooked.

Is it intimidating? Maybe until you enter. Maybe a little as you go to change. Treat it like jumping into the sea. The first seconds - and I mean only seconds - may feel uncomfortable but then as soon as you are wet you never want to leave. The time flies.

I’m no Adonis, but I got the impression that since there is no ambiguity as to why people are there, it is more relaxed. Everybody talks to you. Don’t worry about an inferiority complex - I’m not sure that a six pack or a supermodel body are a valuable currency in the club.

Just as a tester, smile and say hello to a random person. You have to talk.

And if I am there, say hello to me or whoever is around me if you are nervous. We will talk to you.

Simply: The worst is the first few seconds, and even then it is far less worrying than getting changed at a gym.

After that, to me, a relatively reserved person with a little self confidence issue, it was just wonderful.

I fucking loved every second.