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"Just act as if it’s a normal bar. Socialise, make friends and have a laugh with no expectations and you’ll be fine. A lot of people are there looking for single men so as long as you do the things mentioned above you’ll be fine." Thanks | |||
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"Just act as if it’s a normal bar. Socialise, make friends and have a laugh with no expectations and you’ll be fine. A lot of people are there looking for single men so as long as you do the things mentioned above you’ll be fine." This is good advice. I'd add, don't be weird and don't sit on your moped afterwards in the middle of the car park leering at the couples as they go to their cars, which is what happened last Friday at a club we visited with another couple  .
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"Just act as if it’s a normal bar. Socialise, make friends and have a laugh with no expectations and you’ll be fine. A lot of people are there looking for single men so as long as you do the things mentioned above you’ll be fine. This is good advice. I'd add, don't be weird and don't sit on your moped afterwards in the middle of the car park leering at the couples as they go to their cars, which is what happened last Friday at a club we visited with another couple .
C. "No that's not my style, once I leave I'm in the car and home. If I've chatted to anyone and clicked they can message me on here but certainly won't be watching and waiting outside. | |||
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"Also don’t approach the female of a couple when the male half goes to the bar or toilet. Approach them together and make conversation with both of them. Chances are if the Mr doesn’t like you then you won’t be getting near the Mrs." That's something I'd never do anyway, I'm a respectful guy and I'd prefer chat to both people if they're together as just chatting to one comes across like I want her and you don't matter when there a couple so again not something I'd do. | |||
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"Also don’t approach the female of a couple when the male half goes to the bar or toilet. Approach them together and make conversation with both of them. Chances are if the Mr doesn’t like you then you won’t be getting near the Mrs. That's something I'd never do anyway, I'm a respectful guy and I'd prefer chat to both people if they're together as just chatting to one comes across like I want her and you don't matter when there a couple so again not something I'd do." With that attitude you should do fine. | |||
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"Just loiter by the women’s toilets playing with your todger "On our first visit to a new club Mrs went to the toilet and asked me to wait outside as she was nervous and a man just stood across the little hallway wanking and looking straight at me. | |||
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"Just loiter by the women’s toilets playing with your todger
On our first visit to a new club Mrs went to the toilet and asked me to wait outside as she was nervous and a man just stood across the little hallway wanking and looking straight at me. "That’s grim | |||
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"Just loiter by the women’s toilets playing with your todger
On our first visit to a new club Mrs went to the toilet and asked me to wait outside as she was nervous and a man just stood across the little hallway wanking and looking straight at me.
That’s grim"Mrs came out the toilet and he approached us and I just said “put that fucking thing away” and ran off  | |||
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"Dress smart, don't mope, engage in small talk where possible, expect nothing (but be prepared with condoms), follow the rules explained to you upon entry, ask permission before engaging in anything, talk to staff if your unsure about anything, don't get d*unk" I always tend to dress so I look good I any situation, I'm chatty in general (salesman job) I get to be polite and I'd definitely ask if I was unsure as for drinking I don't so not gonna be d*unk. Thanks for your advice it's appreciated | |||
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"I always tend to dress so I look good I any situation, I'm chatty in general (salesman job) I get to be polite and I'd definitely ask if I was unsure as for drinking I don't so not gonna be d*unk. Thanks for your advice it's appreciated " Anytime | |||
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"Dress smart, don't mope, engage in small talk where possible, expect nothing (but be prepared with condoms), follow the rules explained to you upon entry, ask permission before engaging in anything, talk to staff if your unsure about anything, don't get d*unk" Actually, some clubs are dress-down ones, check beforehand. You'd be then required to walk around in a towel (normally provided) or some underwear. Anyway, let's start from the very beginning, meaning which club to choose. My advice, have a look at the clubs reviews page, in the area you're in or area you're prepared to travel to (remember about the extra costs for travel/accommodation). Once you like the sound of a club, check their website. As a single guy, you may need to jump through a few hoops. For starters, not every single club is open every day and they don't always allow single men in on all days they are open. Make sure you follow your chosen club's procedure for single men attending the club. It might be that you will need to contact the club beforehand to secure your place, or sometimes you may need to purchase a ticket for the event or put some non-refundable deposit in. It's all been designed to deter the less determined way but also as a way of controlling the numbers of single guys in a club. Nobody wants just a sausage fest. Once you know which club you're going to and when, check whether you can bring your own alcohol or if you need to purchase drinks there, also check the dress code for the event. As I mentioned before, some clubs are dress down on arrival, then some- you only dress down if/when you want to proceed to play areas and finally there are some where you are not required to dress down at all. Check if the club has a hot tub and whether you need to bring your own towel- hot tub is a brilliant place for getting to know people socially. Also check how you need to pay for the club, as some clubs still take cash only. Take into account entry fee (if you haven't already paid for ticket), potential membership fee plus any drinks you may want to buy while there. On the actual day- be friendly, respectful and don't follow people around. Remember to bring some condoms with you, just in case- ones that fit you well. Yes, some clubs do provide condoms or you can buy some at the bar, but those are not always the best of brands. All in all: be friendly, chatty, sociable, don't drink too much and enjoy! | |||
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"Dress smart, don't mope, engage in small talk where possible, expect nothing (but be prepared with condoms), follow the rules explained to you upon entry, ask permission before engaging in anything, talk to staff if your unsure about anything, don't get d*unk Actually, some clubs are dress-down ones, check beforehand. You'd be then required to walk around in a towel (normally provided) or some underwear. Anyway, let's start from the very beginning, meaning which club to choose. My advice, have a look at the clubs reviews page, in the area you're in or area you're prepared to travel to (remember about the extra costs for travel/accommodation). Once you like the sound of a club, check their website. As a single guy, you may need to jump through a few hoops. For starters, not every single club is open every day and they don't always allow single men in on all days they are open. Make sure you follow your chosen club's procedure for single men attending the club. It might be that you will need to contact the club beforehand to secure your place, or sometimes you may need to purchase a ticket for the event or put some non-refundable deposit in. It's all been designed to deter the less determined way but also as a way of controlling the numbers of single guys in a club. Nobody wants just a sausage fest. Once you know which club you're going to and when, check whether you can bring your own alcohol or if you need to purchase drinks there, also check the dress code for the event. As I mentioned before, some clubs are dress down on arrival, then some- you only dress down if/when you want to proceed to play areas and finally there are some where you are not required to dress down at all. Check if the club has a hot tub and whether you need to bring your own towel- hot tub is a brilliant place for getting to know people socially. Also check how you need to pay for the club, as some clubs still take cash only. Take into account entry fee (if you haven't already paid for ticket), potential membership fee plus any drinks you may want to buy while there. On the actual day- be friendly, respectful and don't follow people around. Remember to bring some condoms with you, just in case- ones that fit you well. Yes, some clubs do provide condoms or you can buy some at the bar, but those are not always the best of brands. All in all: be friendly, chatty, sociable, don't drink too much and enjoy! " Thank you | |||
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"Just act as if it’s a normal bar. Socialise, make friends and have a laugh with no expectations and you’ll be fine. A lot of people are there looking for single men so as long as you do the things mentioned above you’ll be fine. This is good advice. I'd add, don't be weird and don't sit on your moped afterwards in the middle of the car park leering at the couples as they go to their cars, which is what happened last Friday at a club we visited with another couple .
C. "There some creepy people about 
Let's hope we don't get this on Saturday.
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"Dress smart, don't mope, engage in small talk where possible, expect nothing (but be prepared with condoms), follow the rules explained to you upon entry, ask permission before engaging in anything, talk to staff if your unsure about anything, don't get d*unk Actually, some clubs are dress-down ones, check beforehand. You'd be then required to walk around in a towel (normally provided) or some underwear. Anyway, let's start from the very beginning, meaning which club to choose. My advice, have a look at the clubs reviews page, in the area you're in or area you're prepared to travel to (remember about the extra costs for travel/accommodation). Once you like the sound of a club, check their website. As a single guy, you may need to jump through a few hoops. For starters, not every single club is open every day and they don't always allow single men in on all days they are open. Make sure you follow your chosen club's procedure for single men attending the club. It might be that you will need to contact the club beforehand to secure your place, or sometimes you may need to purchase a ticket for the event or put some non-refundable deposit in. It's all been designed to deter the less determined way but also as a way of controlling the numbers of single guys in a club. Nobody wants just a sausage fest. Once you know which club you're going to and when, check whether you can bring your own alcohol or if you need to purchase drinks there, also check the dress code for the event. As I mentioned before, some clubs are dress down on arrival, then some- you only dress down if/when you want to proceed to play areas and finally there are some where you are not required to dress down at all. Check if the club has a hot tub and whether you need to bring your own towel- hot tub is a brilliant place for getting to know people socially. Also check how you need to pay for the club, as some clubs still take cash only. Take into account entry fee (if you haven't already paid for ticket), potential membership fee plus any drinks you may want to buy while there. On the actual day- be friendly, respectful and don't follow people around. Remember to bring some condoms with you, just in case- ones that fit you well. Yes, some clubs do provide condoms or you can buy some at the bar, but those are not always the best of brands. All in all: be friendly, chatty, sociable, don't drink too much and enjoy! Thank you" The above but most of all, don't expect to have sex, it's a swingers club and not a brothel x | |||
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"Dress smart, don't mope, engage in small talk where possible, expect nothing (but be prepared with condoms), follow the rules explained to you upon entry, ask permission before engaging in anything, talk to staff if your unsure about anything, don't get d*unk Actually, some clubs are dress-down ones, check beforehand. You'd be then required to walk around in a towel (normally provided) or some underwear. Anyway, let's start from the very beginning, meaning which club to choose. My advice, have a look at the clubs reviews page, in the area you're in or area you're prepared to travel to (remember about the extra costs for travel/accommodation). Once you like the sound of a club, check their website. As a single guy, you may need to jump through a few hoops. For starters, not every single club is open every day and they don't always allow single men in on all days they are open. Make sure you follow your chosen club's procedure for single men attending the club. It might be that you will need to contact the club beforehand to secure your place, or sometimes you may need to purchase a ticket for the event or put some non-refundable deposit in. It's all been designed to deter the less determined way but also as a way of controlling the numbers of single guys in a club. Nobody wants just a sausage fest. Once you know which club you're going to and when, check whether you can bring your own alcohol or if you need to purchase drinks there, also check the dress code for the event. As I mentioned before, some clubs are dress down on arrival, then some- you only dress down if/when you want to proceed to play areas and finally there are some where you are not required to dress down at all. Check if the club has a hot tub and whether you need to bring your own towel- hot tub is a brilliant place for getting to know people socially. Also check how you need to pay for the club, as some clubs still take cash only. Take into account entry fee (if you haven't already paid for ticket), potential membership fee plus any drinks you may want to buy while there. On the actual day- be friendly, respectful and don't follow people around. Remember to bring some condoms with you, just in case- ones that fit you well. Yes, some clubs do provide condoms or you can buy some at the bar, but those are not always the best of brands. All in all: be friendly, chatty, sociable, don't drink too much and enjoy! Thank you The above but most of all, don't expect to have sex, it's a swingers club and not a brothel x " I think I just want get a feel for the whole scene before I try anything with anyone | |||
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"Dress smart, don't mope, engage in small talk where possible, expect nothing (but be prepared with condoms), follow the rules explained to you upon entry, ask permission before engaging in anything, talk to staff if your unsure about anything, don't get d*unk Actually, some clubs are dress-down ones, check beforehand. You'd be then required to walk around in a towel (normally provided) or some underwear. Anyway, let's start from the very beginning, meaning which club to choose. My advice, have a look at the clubs reviews page, in the area you're in or area you're prepared to travel to (remember about the extra costs for travel/accommodation). Once you like the sound of a club, check their website. As a single guy, you may need to jump through a few hoops. For starters, not every single club is open every day and they don't always allow single men in on all days they are open. Make sure you follow your chosen club's procedure for single men attending the club. It might be that you will need to contact the club beforehand to secure your place, or sometimes you may need to purchase a ticket for the event or put some non-refundable deposit in. It's all been designed to deter the less determined way but also as a way of controlling the numbers of single guys in a club. Nobody wants just a sausage fest. Once you know which club you're going to and when, check whether you can bring your own alcohol or if you need to purchase drinks there, also check the dress code for the event. As I mentioned before, some clubs are dress down on arrival, then some- you only dress down if/when you want to proceed to play areas and finally there are some where you are not required to dress down at all. Check if the club has a hot tub and whether you need to bring your own towel- hot tub is a brilliant place for getting to know people socially. Also check how you need to pay for the club, as some clubs still take cash only. Take into account entry fee (if you haven't already paid for ticket), potential membership fee plus any drinks you may want to buy while there. On the actual day- be friendly, respectful and don't follow people around. Remember to bring some condoms with you, just in case- ones that fit you well. Yes, some clubs do provide condoms or you can buy some at the bar, but those are not always the best of brands. All in all: be friendly, chatty, sociable, don't drink too much and enjoy! Thank you The above but most of all, don't expect to have sex, it's a swingers club and not a brothel x I think I just want get a feel for the whole scene before I try anything with anyone " . Be yourself….call or email Jaydees club in Bedfordshire to book in as a single guy for your choice of date. Arrive dressed accordingly. Everything else will become clear very quickly.  | |||
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"Go with zero expectations" I will be. Need to see if its my thing before I try doing anything | |||
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