FabSwingers.com forum: Mf first time at a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning. I'm part of a couple looking to hopefully go to our first club tonight. I was wondering if anyone has any advice, dos, don't, and just what to expect.

Thanks in advance. (Our couples profile is C and E)

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By *obtributeMan
over a year ago

Somerset

Good post. Keeping my eyes on this, as we are in the same situation. Hope to go to Swingers Quay tomorrow evening, but so nervous!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Why don't either of you have couples profiles? You might get more wanting to chat to you both if you did.

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By *obtributeMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"Why don't either of you have couples profiles? You might get more wanting to chat to you both if you did."

I opened my account whilst single. I now have a new partner; how do I add her to this account? I really have no idea. Thanks, Rob

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Why don't either of you have couples profiles? You might get more wanting to chat to you both if you did.

I opened my account whilst single. I now have a new partner; how do I add her to this account? I really have no idea. Thanks, Rob"

I think you just have to open a new account.

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

Just have a really good chat before you go and iron out your boundaries and make sure if either of you decides to push those boundaries a little you have your own safe word that means no, a word that only you both recognise. Also a secret signal to advance play if you meet anyone that either of you fancy taking it further. We use a hand squeeze, once for ok and twice for no. It works both ways too. Also if it’s your first time limit your alcoholic drink so you’re both in control.

Go with no expectations and even if you play alone enjoy each other before and after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't either of you have couples profiles? You might get more wanting to chat to you both if you did."

I do, I even have the username on the original post ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”. "

Hey thanks for the reply. I agree with you. I've spoke to my partner and expressed, I presume it's like a typical night out. Go have fun, few drinks, dance. Only difference being I don't have to get us a taxi home to play ??.

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”. "

This would depend on what club you go to surely. If it was a wet club then things are slightly different.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”. "

'The wanking dead'

seen a few of those over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”.

This would depend on what club you go to surely. If it was a wet club then things are slightly different. "

Perhaps you could explain to the OP what happens at a “wet club” rather than pick holes in our response?

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”.

This would depend on what club you go to surely. If it was a wet club then things are slightly different.

Perhaps you could explain to the OP what happens at a “wet club” rather than pick holes in our response? "

I wasn’t picking holes in your response so once you climb down off your pedestal read it again. It was more of an open ended reply which would suggest yourself or others to continue with advice on past visits, wet club or not. Supposed to be a friendly site this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”.

This would depend on what club you go to surely. If it was a wet club then things are slightly different.

Perhaps you could explain to the OP what happens at a “wet club” rather than pick holes in our response?

But you didn’t impart any information did you?

Except that you believe I’m on a pedestal.

Thanks for placing me there sweetie. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning. I'm part of a couple looking to hopefully go to our first club tonight. I was wondering if anyone has any advice, dos, don't, and just what to expect.

Thanks in advance. (Our couples profile is C and E)"

We went to chams for the first time as a couple last night.(we had both been to other clubs previously as singles) Had no idea what to expect so went with no expectations. We knew we were there more to get a feel of the place and work out what happens where etc. So we only played with each other and that was good enough for us. (the audience helped. Lol)

Just talk about what the both of you would like to do and what you wouldn't. Don't put pressure on yourselves to enter huge gang bangs or things like that. Every club night is different. Which is what makes them so much fun.

Have a drink, make some new friends and just go with the flow. But most importantly enjoy yourselves.

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”.

This would depend on what club you go to surely. If it was a wet club then things are slightly different.

Perhaps you could explain to the OP what happens at a “wet club” rather than pick holes in our response?

But you didn’t impart any information did you?

Except that you believe I’m on a pedestal.

Thanks for placing me there sweetie. X"

Ok perhaps a little hasty so please accept my apology and disregard my pedestal comment. A lot can be lost in translation messaging and it doesn’t really help OP with the answer they want. Sorry to offend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first went we talked about do’s and don’t and we had code words and boundaries but it was all bollocks.

We just had a good time in the end and enjoyed a good dance a few drinks some banter and a good night out.

The wanking dead can be an an eye opener but most single guys and other couples are good company.

Chat, laugh and have fun.

No one is expecting you to “perform”. "

truth

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