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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast

Hi, we are thinking of heading to Xtasia on Fri 19th Aug. We wondered if anyone could provide some answers to a couple of Q’s?

Is there a lot of ‘hounding’ from single men on a Fri? It says there are couples only areas, are there a few of these or do they get quite cramped?

Has anyone stayed at the accommodation there? What’s it like? Would you recommend it? Thanks in advance - hoping to do Xtasia on the Fri and Lib Elite on the Sat for a mini swinging road trip -

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire

Watching with interest. Sounds like a plan. We’ve heard good things about both clubs but haven’t plucked up the courage to explore them yet…

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Hi, we are thinking of heading to Xtasia on Fri 19th Aug. We wondered if anyone could provide some answers to a couple of Q’s?

Is there a lot of ‘hounding’ from single men on a Fri? It says there are couples only areas, are there a few of these or do they get quite cramped?

Has anyone stayed at the accommodation there? What’s it like? Would you recommend it? Thanks in advance - hoping to do Xtasia on the Fri and Lib Elite on the Sat for a mini swinging road trip - "

On a Friday the main club will be mixed couples and single males. However, Flirts bar is couples only and the cellar area of Flirts is a very big play area. It's actually bigger than some clubs we have been in.

So have a walk round the main area, you won't be hounded by single guys at all, the staff see to that, but if you feel you want a couples only area then just walk the few yards to Flirts bar and go downstairs !

We always stay in the accommodation, saves getting a taxi to the local hotels, but ring the club well in advance of your visit to reserve the type of room that you want.

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast


"Hi, we are thinking of heading to Xtasia on Fri 19th Aug. We wondered if anyone could provide some answers to a couple of Q’s?

Is there a lot of ‘hounding’ from single men on a Fri? It says there are couples only areas, are there a few of these or do they get quite cramped?

Has anyone stayed at the accommodation there? What’s it like? Would you recommend it? Thanks in advance - hoping to do Xtasia on the Fri and Lib Elite on the Sat for a mini swinging road trip -

On a Friday the main club will be mixed couples and single males. However, Flirts bar is couples only and the cellar area of Flirts is a very big play area. It's actually bigger than some clubs we have been in.

So have a walk round the main area, you won't be hounded by single guys at all, the staff see to that, but if you feel you want a couples only area then just walk the few yards to Flirts bar and go downstairs !

We always stay in the accommodation, saves getting a taxi to the local hotels, but ring the club well in advance of your visit to reserve the type of room that you want."

Thanks so much for all that info. That’s really reassuring to hear. We appreciate it

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


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Hi, _lawsome_couple

Geordies has described mostly everything that happens in xtasia perfectly,

I (male halfto our couple) work there as doorstaff/security,

On a Friday it is single males and couples in the main club xtasia

But single females and couples in flirts, males can not come in flion a Friday

On a Saturday is single females and couples in the main club xtasia

But single males and couples in flirts,

Couples can go between the two venues on both days,

You do not get hassle off singles in there, it is a nice chilled atmosphere,

If singles do approach you, say sorry not interested, they walk away.

If they don't tell the staff and we have a word with them,

If you want to message me privately with any questions , please feel free to,

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast


"[Removed by poster at 12/07/22 16:17:42]Hi, _lawsome_couple

Geordies has described mostly everything that happens in xtasia perfectly,

I (male halfto our couple) work there as doorstaff/security,

On a Friday it is single males and couples in the main club xtasia

But single females and couples in flirts, males can not come in flion a Friday

On a Saturday is single females and couples in the main club xtasia

But single males and couples in flirts,

Couples can go between the two venues on both days,

You do not get hassle off singles in there, it is a nice chilled atmosphere,

If singles do approach you, say sorry not interested, they walk away.

If they don't tell the staff and we have a word with them,

If you want to message me privately with any questions , please feel free to,

"

Thanks so much for getting in touch. We’ve booked to come on the Fri and are staying on site too. It’s great that there are plenty of options of areas to go to and it sounds like you keep everything and everyone in check. Very reassuring to hear. We can’t wait to come up and have some fun

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By *evil in the DomMan
over a year ago

London

There is a mini event there on that day where some of us from the chat rooms are going for someone's bday... You'll be surrounded by respectable fabbers so I wouldn't worry

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By *2123Man
over a year ago

Close

Have been as a couple a few times, would recommend going on Saturday “couples & single females only” night. We went once on a Friday and was completely different getting hounded by single guys, couldn’t sit or chill anywhere without men loitering around. Saturdays are great though, very busy with plenty of sexy attractive couples and good times

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast


"There is a mini event there on that day where some of us from the chat rooms are going for someone's bday... You'll be surrounded by respectable fabbers so I wouldn't worry "

Sounds great! We’re looking g forwards to coming up

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast


"Have been as a couple a few times, would recommend going on Saturday “couples & single females only” night. We went once on a Friday and was completely different getting hounded by single guys, couldn’t sit or chill anywhere without men loitering around. Saturdays are great though, very busy with plenty of sexy attractive couples and good times "

Ah we would usually do a Sat but we are doing Chams on the sat as it’s a trek for us to get up there so having a bit of a road trip. It sounds like there’ll be a nice crowd in though so hopefully it’ll be less houndy and more fun

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By *evil in the DomMan
over a year ago

London

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1274298

If you wanted to check the guest list...

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast


"https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1274298

If you wanted to check the guest list..."

Ah thanks - I’ve popped a message on to say hi! Appreciated

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By *uncouple 321Couple
over a year ago

south West

So xtasia still open for other members on the 19th August yeah ? We was hoping to visit again hotels booked

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By *uncouple 321Couple
over a year ago

south West

We went in May on a fri and sat night we wasn't followed around or hassled by single guys at all , its a great place to visit , thats why looking forward to coming back nxt month

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast

We’ve had to cancel Mother Nature has deemed it so. FFS. But all your advice has been very helpful and we are looking at other dates to come and visit.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Good information, we're looking to explore some new club's! Stopping overnight? Any advice? Tia

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By *lawsome_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast

We’re hoping to do youthful exuberance towards the end of the year. How to see some new faces then

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Libs is good ill show u around

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Youthful exuberance is a great night with a super crowd

Club has clamped down on single guys who follow but don't chat so don't let that worry you on a Friday night

Door staff patrol regularly so you will be fine

Hotel is great and like others have said two venues to flit between

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"So xtasia still open for other members on the 19th August yeah ? We was hoping to visit again hotels booked "

Yes still open as normal just a few birthdays being celebrated so should be a busy night

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