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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm finally going to dip my toe into the club scene!

I'll be honest I'm bricking it, as I'm not sure what to expect.

As a single guy will I be welcomed at the above, seen so many mixed things about single guys at clubs.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

All newbies are welcomed at Club Play and given a full tour on arrival along with the rules explained and introduced to other customers, best advice is look at what’s on on the night you’re planning on coming to the club and all hosts and the owners inboxes are open for any questions you have before you come along xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much! Nervous but looking forward to it

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me


"Thank you so much! Nervous but looking forward to it "

Your in good hands

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By *ick_RyderMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"So I'm finally going to dip my toe into the club scene!

I'll be honest I'm bricking it, as I'm not sure what to expect.

As a single guy will I be welcomed at the above, seen so many mixed things about single guys at clubs."

As a single guy I can tell you that we are welcome at Club Play. There are some caveats, though:

1. No means no. This applies to everyone, but for some reason a lot of single guys don't understand this. They think that because they paid to be in a sex club they are entitled to sex; don't be one of them.

2. Concentrate on the social aspect more than anything else. Relax, have great conversations with other people, and don't be pushy.

3. An hour will not cut it. Don't expect to enter the club, talk for five minutes, and then think you are in with a shot of sex with three sexy supermodels. Even if you are Brad Pitt with a 12 inch cock and a tongue that can tie a cherry, you still need to be able to socialise with others. So make it an all night affair, talk to others, have fun, get invited into play areas, and don't be a prude about anything you see.

4. If you are lucky enough to be able to walk up to someone, tell them to drop their clothes there and then, and get all the sex you can eat in an instant, don't be a dick about it; the rest of us are not so gifted.

In my experience you have more fun if you don't expect fun, but still remain open to having fun.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"So I'm finally going to dip my toe into the club scene!

I'll be honest I'm bricking it, as I'm not sure what to expect.

As a single guy will I be welcomed at the above, seen so many mixed things about single guys at clubs.

As a single guy I can tell you that we are welcome at Club Play. There are some caveats, though:

1. No means no. This applies to everyone, but for some reason a lot of single guys don't understand this. They think that because they paid to be in a sex club they are entitled to sex; don't be one of them.

2. Concentrate on the social aspect more than anything else. Relax, have great conversations with other people, and don't be pushy.

3. An hour will not cut it. Don't expect to enter the club, talk for five minutes, and then think you are in with a shot of sex with three sexy supermodels. Even if you are Brad Pitt with a 12 inch cock and a tongue that can tie a cherry, you still need to be able to socialise with others. So make it an all night affair, talk to others, have fun, get invited into play areas, and don't be a prude about anything you see.

4. If you are lucky enough to be able to walk up to someone, tell them to drop their clothes there and then, and get all the sex you can eat in an instant, don't be a dick about it; the rest of us are not so gifted.

In my experience you have more fun if you don't expect fun, but still remain open to having fun. "

That’s excellent advice and even as a single female I always go with no expectations xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much for this! This has not only put me more at ease but also let me know what to expect!

Thanks dude massively appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once where you were. Not that long ago either. I've not spoken to anyone there who hasn't been anything but lovely and welcoming.

The advise given here is excellent, but if I can add a couple of other things....

Be respectful of everyone, no matter who it is or what you see. And if you have a question, ask. As I found out, people are happy to help and answer pretty much anything

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Hi OP Club Play is well renowned to be extremely welcoming to all, I went to my 1st club visit by myself (on crutches) on a very busy Saturday night. My advice is chat to people, tell them that you're a nervous newbie, we've all been there and can empathise your nerves. As an initial question maybe ask people what their fab username is and go from there. Don't expect anything and just go with an open mind and enjoy the experience. I'm sure if you go with the right attitude you'll have fun

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By *urple-lustWoman
over a year ago

northwest

Was going to add a comment but these guys have covered it brilliantly.

But as a woman i still have to put my two peneth in lol

The bonus at club play is your not expected to dress down on arrival, you can stayed dressed in the bar area, when looking at clubs online for the first time that was the one thing that made me choose club play, it gave me chance to relax and feel comfortable xx

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Couldn't have put it any better

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