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Milf club VA - 13 july

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’re hoping for our first daytime visit here, not too sure what to expect but would love to see who else is going on this day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re hoping for our first daytime visit here, not too sure what to expect but would love to see who else is going on this day x"

I'll most likely be there.

If the weather is good they open lux lounge so it could be outside. I find the atmosphere much more relaxed than a party night. Other than that there's not much difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’re hoping for our first daytime visit here, not too sure what to expect but would love to see who else is going on this day x

I'll most likely be there.

If the weather is good they open lux lounge so it could be outside. I find the atmosphere much more relaxed than a party night. Other than that there's not much difference. "

Ah ok. Can you still go inside too? Is the dress code still same for men during the day?

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By *apt.Chaos Maj.MischiefCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re hoping for our first daytime visit here, not too sure what to expect but would love to see who else is going on this day x

I'll most likely be there.

If the weather is good they open lux lounge so it could be outside. I find the atmosphere much more relaxed than a party night. Other than that there's not much difference.

Ah ok. Can you still go inside too? Is the dress code still same for men during the day? "

If it's fully outside they have an inside playroom open but toilet, bar and hot tub are outside.

Only one hot tub will be running at a time.

Smart casual is fine in the day.

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

Hopefully I will be there , providing I make the cut of Single Men applications .

I’ve been about half a dozen times now and Luv Weds afternoons .

But I’ve never been there when the outdoors has been open .

Any good. ?

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By *aughtyminx321Woman
over a year ago

London

I will be there, MILF club is just the best Wednesday day out ever

I’ve have a month’s break so in need of some fun x

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"I will be there, MILF club is just the best Wednesday day out ever

I’ve have a month’s break so in need of some fun x"

Kool ….. hope to see you there …..Cum and say hello .

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By *heff32Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Hi I’m bit new to these party’s and clubs but love to try where is this based would love to come down x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I’m bit new to these party’s and clubs but love to try where is this based would love to come down x"

The vanilla alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to another chilled Wednesday at VA.

We will be there with some very hot friends

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

Look forward to meeting you all , and to say hello ??

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Fingers crossed I will be there this Wednesday and next

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"Fingers crossed I will be there this Wednesday and next "

Look forward to seeing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is pretty close to me

Never been to a club before. Are there many single guys there?

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

On a Weds they usually try to cap Single Guy attendance to around the 25 / 26 number .

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By *ugby_DeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Cambs

We plan to go on 13th for what will probably be our first visit and looking forward to meeting some of the people we've met here

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"We plan to go on 13th for what will probably be our first visit and looking forward to meeting some of the people we've met here"

Look forward to saying hi to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like fun.

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"This sounds like fun. "

It is , get yourselves along D&D

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By *mmmmmmmMan
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

Hoping to see you by then! Might go!

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By *aughtyminx321Woman
over a year ago

London

Weather looks great for next week so guys better book your space as single guy places will go quickly

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

Thankfully I had the same thought , so I’m booked in ….can’t wait for hopefully a warm day ..

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By *ockey LoveMan
over a year ago

Bozeat

I'm booked in, looking forward to catching up with people and chilling in the hot tub. X

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By *azzyCouple
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"I will be there, MILF club is just the best Wednesday day out ever

I’ve have a month’s break so in need of some fun x"

Look forward to catching up with you this week. Looks like it will be a hot one

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

Yes , look forward to catching up with you also Kazzy , we can enjoy a glass of Fizz in the Sunshine ?

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I’ll be there, I also have a spare seat from Peterborough if anyone would like a lift.

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By *aughtyminx321Woman
over a year ago

London


"I will be there, MILF club is just the best Wednesday day out ever

I’ve have a month’s break so in need of some fun x

Look forward to catching up with you this week. Looks like it will be a hot one "

Definitely need more cocktails, just to keep hydrated of course lol

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"I will be there, MILF club is just the best Wednesday day out ever

I’ve have a month’s break so in need of some fun x

Look forward to catching up with you this week. Looks like it will be a hot one

Definitely need more cocktails, just to keep hydrated of course lol"

Absolutely !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looks like it’s gonna be really hot next week. Do guys still have to wear trousers or jeans or can they wear shorts?

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By *abyb29Couple
over a year ago

Mk

I'm coming on Wednesday with my friend. It will be my first time at this club. Do people dress down into lingerie during the day? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm coming on Wednesday with my friend. It will be my first time at this club. Do people dress down into lingerie during the day? X"

Dress down in the play areas is a rule. Anywhere else is up to you.

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I wore smart shorts and a linen shirt last time and it was fine, most guys were naked or close to.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm coming on Wednesday with my friend. It will be my first time at this club. Do people dress down into lingerie during the day? X"

Most ladies dress in lingerie of sexy dresses, or if it's hot and we are outside I'm often in a bodysuit or similar, many are naked in the heat.

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By *aughtyminx321Woman
over a year ago

London


"I'm coming on Wednesday with my friend. It will be my first time at this club. Do people dress down into lingerie during the day? X

Most ladies dress in lingerie of sexy dresses, or if it's hot and we are outside I'm often in a bodysuit or similar, many are naked in the heat."

You always look gorgeous hun x

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"I'm coming on Wednesday with my friend. It will be my first time at this club. Do people dress down into lingerie during the day? X

Most ladies dress in lingerie of sexy dresses, or if it's hot and we are outside I'm often in a bodysuit or similar, many are naked in the heat.

You always look gorgeous hun x"

She certainly does xxx

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By *r and Mrs. HCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We went to Va for the first time yesterday for a club night and have just got home from spending today in Lux lounge. Amazing place. Outside is so relaxed.. were be back wednesday for some more action.

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"We went to Va for the first time yesterday for a club night and have just got home from spending today in Lux lounge. Amazing place. Outside is so relaxed.. were be back wednesday for some more action."

Hi Clara and Saul ,

Pleased you enjoyed yourselves, please come and say hi ….. I think we will have the weather for it !!!

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By *harlieFun123Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ll try and be there

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By *ickAlotAPuzzMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'll be attending for My birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See you on Wednesday…

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Hope I haven't left it too last to get on the list. Fingers firmly crossed.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm coming on Wednesday with my friend. It will be my first time at this club. Do people dress down into lingerie during the day? X

Most ladies dress in lingerie of sexy dresses, or if it's hot and we are outside I'm often in a bodysuit or similar, many are naked in the heat.

You always look gorgeous hun x"

Thank you, I look forward to seeing you on Wednesday XXX

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"Hope I haven't left it too last to get on the list. Fingers firmly crossed."

Fingers crossed for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got my confirmation. I'll be there. Would love a lift from Bedford station.

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By *aughtyminx321Woman
over a year ago

London


"Just got my confirmation. I'll be there. Would love a lift from Bedford station. "

I’m sure there is a closer train station

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got the day off - thinking I may attend!

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"I’ve got the day off - thinking I may attend! "

It looks like it will be a fantastic day with lots of lovely people

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"Hope I haven't left it too last to get on the list. Fingers firmly crossed.

Fingers crossed for you!"

Thanks, still waiting.

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By *ominosMan
over a year ago

hatfield

Naked is fine

Will try and be there by the way x

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By *aughtyminx321Woman
over a year ago

London


"Naked is fine

Will try and be there by the way x"

Oh Mr LoverLover lol

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Everyone else looking forward to fun and frolics in the sun tomorrow?

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By *harlieFun123Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I won’t be there unfortunately, looks like they are full! Have fun everyone x

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By *ominosMan
over a year ago

hatfield

Tomorrow Mr.Lovalova is back

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By *edonandHellCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

As much as we like VA, last week when we attended has out us right off.

Not gonna slate the club as its a really good club, but single men seem to be a little out of control, coming up and encroaching or touching. Thinking they can just come in the couples room.

We ended up going in the couple room to get some space. Ended up about 8 couples all in there arms the singles guys where like a swarm of pests.

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"Tomorrow Mr.Lovalova is back "

See you there mate !!

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By *r and Mrs. HCouple
over a year ago

bedford

This is worrying

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding


"This is worrying "

Worrying. ?

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By *r and Mrs. HCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"This is worrying

Worrying. ?"

Yes, touching without permission and singles going into the couples room, sorry should of replied and quoted the message above.

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By *edonandHellCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This is worrying

Worrying. ?

Yes, touching without permission and singles going into the couples room, sorry should of replied and quoted the message above."

When all the couples are coming in the couples room because the single men are like a pack, just shows that alot of single men are just after emptying there sack.

Done swinging as a single male and as a couple.

For me being a gent and sitting and chatting and getting that rapport was always the way I played in.

Always listened to there wished and boundaries and did very well.

Now in a relationship and playing as a couple it seems that a few men need to take a step back and assess the strategy when approaching a couple or single female. Respect goes a long way.

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By *entleman_PerveMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"This is worrying

Worrying. ?

Yes, touching without permission and singles going into the couples room, sorry should of replied and quoted the message above.

When all the couples are coming in the couples room because the single men are like a pack, just shows that alot of single men are just after emptying there sack.

Done swinging as a single male and as a couple.

For me being a gent and sitting and chatting and getting that rapport was always the way I played in.

Always listened to there wished and boundaries and did very well.

Now in a relationship and playing as a couple it seems that a few men need to take a step back and assess the strategy when approaching a couple or single female. Respect goes a long way."

Thats really disappointing, I’ve mostly stayed away from normal events like this but had a really nice experience going to this event a few weeks back it had a really relaxed vibe and everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves and I didn’t witness any consent violations. Hopefully this was a one off because I plan to return with a friend tomorrow.

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By *edonandHellCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"This is worrying

Worrying. ?

Yes, touching without permission and singles going into the couples room, sorry should of replied and quoted the message above.

We have been a few times on a Wednesday and it's been ok.

But Wednesday gone has put us off now.

Still love the club as its a really good club, but we will stick to a Saturday night now.

When all the couples are coming in the couples room because the single men are like a pack, just shows that alot of single men are just after emptying there sack.

Done swinging as a single male and as a couple.

For me being a gent and sitting and chatting and getting that rapport was always the way I played in.

Always listened to there wished and boundaries and did very well.

Now in a relationship and playing as a couple it seems that a few men need to take a step back and assess the strategy when approaching a couple or single female. Respect goes a long way.

Thats really disappointing, I’ve mostly stayed away from normal events like this but had a really nice experience going to this event a few weeks back it had a really relaxed vibe and everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves and I didn’t witness any consent violations. Hopefully this was a one off because I plan to return with a friend tomorrow."

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

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By *ominosMan
over a year ago

hatfield

As a single guys my self i have been going at VA almost every Wednesday and sometimes Friday and i have never seen anyone touch anyone without their permission… u should have reported him straight away so they would bann him for good …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go regularly on a Wednesday (granted not last week) and I've not seen or heard anything like this. The manager Kim runs a tight ship on that. If you let the staff know they will step in.

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

I am a single guy who visits regularly on a Weds and thankfully I have not seen or heard anyone being as disrespectful as you describe.

I hope its a one off , because worryingly the genuine, respectful single guys amongst us sadly get thought of in the same way .

Thankfully we are not all the same .

Hopefully your experience will be better on your next visit !!

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over a year ago

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By *i3188Man
over a year ago

Just outside Spalding

Wow……get that Sun lotion out Ready ….. See you later !

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By *edonandHellCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"As a single guys my self i have been going at VA almost every Wednesday and sometimes Friday and i have never seen anyone touch anyone without their permission… u should have reported him straight away so they would bann him for good … "

Not for me to report, we chatted in the couples room about it and he wasn't happy.

The other times been there it's been no issues and chatted to a few single guys who joined in on some fun with us.

But last Wednesday there it was very off-putting, hope it was a 1-off as its a very good club and always had fun there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guys my self i have been going at VA almost every Wednesday and sometimes Friday and i have never seen anyone touch anyone without their permission… u should have reported him straight away so they would bann him for good …

Not for me to report, we chatted in the couples room about it and he wasn't happy.

The other times been there it's been no issues and chatted to a few single guys who joined in on some fun with us.

But last Wednesday there it was very off-putting, hope it was a 1-off as its a very good club and always had fun there.

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Its certainly a one off. Single guys know not to group up together and go into couple rooms. And security is very tough on these matters.

Its certainly another hot day!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"As much as we like VA, last week when we attended has out us right off.

Not gonna slate the club as its a really good club, but single men seem to be a little out of control, coming up and encroaching or touching. Thinking they can just come in the couples room.

We ended up going in the couple room to get some space. Ended up about 8 couples all in there arms the singles guys where like a swarm of pests."

I'm sometimes partnered and know how this feels. So sorry that it happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun guys. Gutted not to catch up with you all but the sun is scaring me away lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this now fully booked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this now fully booked ?"

I imagine so. It gets booked for single guys really quick.

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