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Attic 1st of July

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By *orkshirecouple2022 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Me and Mr heading over to attic for our first club visit.

Is anyone one else attending or will we be on our own haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, I'm going tonight for my first time. Following the other threads is making me a little nervous of it now though! Hope you enjoy it

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Hey, I'm going tonight for my first time. Following the other threads is making me a little nervous of it now though! Hope you enjoy it "

What's making your nervous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I'm going tonight for my first time. Following the other threads is making me a little nervous of it now though! Hope you enjoy it

What's making your nervous?"

It's the whole how to engage and how to approach scenarios. Reading so many different things, everything seems to be the wrong method. I see myself as polite but shy as well at first and it doesn't sound a good mix

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield


"It's the whole how to engage and how to approach scenarios. Reading so many different things, everything seems to be the wrong method. I see myself as polite but shy as well at first and it doesn't sound a good mix"

It's hard becuase it's easy to say don't just walk up to people and say "wanna fuck?" Cause some people may actually want that. Polite is a good start.

It's your first time, so treat it as that. No expectations of anything, your just going to read the vibe, checkout the venue, and get a feel (no pun intended) of the place. If you like what you see and such return at a later date with dodgy chat up lines at the ready (joking, icebreakers obviously). If you really want a little help, speak to the staff, they'll do the introduction for you get the conversation going. Nothing to be nervous of really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the whole how to engage and how to approach scenarios. Reading so many different things, everything seems to be the wrong method. I see myself as polite but shy as well at first and it doesn't sound a good mix

It's hard becuase it's easy to say don't just walk up to people and say "wanna fuck?" Cause some people may actually want that. Polite is a good start.

It's your first time, so treat it as that. No expectations of anything, your just going to read the vibe, checkout the venue, and get a feel (no pun intended) of the place. If you like what you see and such return at a later date with dodgy chat up lines at the ready (joking, icebreakers obviously). If you really want a little help, speak to the staff, they'll do the introduction for you get the conversation going. Nothing to be nervous of really"

I did have a short visit before COVID times for the induction kind of thing they do. Spent the rest if my time with the staff then, they were brilliant. It did have a few strange singles in at the time. It kind of stop others engaging then.

Thank you though, like you say I'll just be myself

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By *uvBugsCouple
over a year ago

CAMBS

Chill guys, there's no pressure there at all. Quite the opposite, everyone we've met are friendly and we'll be going tonight as well. So nobody will be alone unless they want to be

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