FabSwingers.com forum: Beginners 1st club night

By *r and Mrs. H OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Hey everyone.

Were very new to all this, decided to try Vanilla alternative for our first experience on 9th July.

Feeling a little nervous, any tips?

If your there, come say Hi

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By *ouAndKisses.Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

Hi, I've been to a few clubs now but not that one! Just don't expect too much from your first visit. I was like a rabbit in head lights and do what ever you feel comfortable. Make sure you get a tour most clubs will do one for new people.

Have fun!

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By *ssexgalWoman
over a year ago

Essex

You’ll enjoy Va.It’s a friendly place where u can ask anything.

Just be careful on a1 that as soon as you see it turn into car park or you’ll have to do a circuit.

Have a great time and enjoy chilling as the jacuzzi is great and the rooms x

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By *ellobluMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

I agree with _ssexgal VA is a great club, well run, friendly and clean, you will have a great evening taking in all the new experiences, relax and enjoy your first (but not your last) visit

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By *ouAndKisses.Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

Let us know how you get on? Really hope you enjoy it.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Every club night is different. Go with no intentions other than to enjoy a great night together in a safe and freindly environment.

Also have a little talk on a couple of fundamentals before hand. This is common advise. But don't get too bogged down in complexity, lists or a ton of what if scenarios either. Because complexity is difficult to follow and generally the best nights are the ones that just flow naturally. You never quite know how you'll feel and what you want or will discover until your in that time and place. So as long as you communicate well, have great feel for each other and don't have selfish attitudes you'll be fine. Just go enjoy and see where the night takes you.

Also with the above in mind go with no expectations but go equipped for anything to happen that your open to just in case.

Also don't be afraid to talk to people. Clubs are freindly spaces but people won't always go out their way to talk to you. Even experienced swingers can be quite shy. So don't just sit in a corner alone if your intention is getting to socialise (and/or more) with others. If people take your fancy and the opportunity is right just go an introduce yourself to them and see where it leads. Every interaction is an opportunity and often a gateway to other interactions.

Whatever happens and whatever you get up to or not you'll have a great night as long as you go with the right attitude and communication skills.

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By *r and Mrs. H OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Thanks for this, seems like great advice x

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By *r and Mrs. H OP Couple
over a year ago

bedford

"Let us know how you get on? Really hope you enjoy it. "

Will let you know

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