FabSwingers.com forum: Erections in clubs

By *eeds_SM OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

This might sound like a stupid question.

When I'm in a club, even if just in the bar area or wondering about I tend to be aroused, and hard. The club I go to is dress down only so I'm often just in by boxers and unable to hide my 'situation'.

Think it's the environment and the sexual energy in the air, it just gets me all worked up.

Is it inappropriate to be like this? Would anyone even notice? Or think twice if they did notice?

Think I'm probably overthinking this but does anyone have an opinion on this?

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

As long as you don't knock anyone drink over with it or poke someone eye out you shouldn't have a problem.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Try taking 100mG of Argaiv.

Often goes under the trade names of 'Down Boy' or 'Descendra'

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By *eeds_SM OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Try taking 100mG of Argaiv.

Often goes under the trade names of 'Down Boy' or 'Descendra'"

Thanks I'll have a google

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

That’s one reason towels are popular - easier to conceal an erection, apparently?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"That’s one reason towels are popular - easier to conceal an erection, apparently?"

And if they don't conceal it.....at least you have somewhere to hang it.

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By *eeds_SM OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"That’s one reason towels are popular - easier to conceal an erection, apparently?"

Actually yes, this is really helpful.

Will help me feel much more comfortable later.

The simple ideas are the best lol

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By *op cornCouple
over a year ago

You won't know it

Why hide it? Let it point to who you fancy!! Ha ha xx

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By *airybaresCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

it pays to advertise!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't the erection but what you do with it that counts. Trying to hide it is a dishonest act so wear it out. Some maybe put off and others won't be. Perhaps wearing some snug shorts which will show the erection in place but not sticking out in front of you? A little more discrete but if they look they'll be able to see you are aroused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why hide it? I really don't see the problem, even if you're just in the bar xx

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

do you have an erection 100 % of the time you are in there then ???

amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might sound like a stupid question.

Think it's the environment and the sexual energy in the air, it just gets me all worked up.

Is it inappropriate to be like this? Would anyone even notice? Or think twice if they did notice?

Think I'm probably overthinking this but does anyone have an opinion on this?

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

You could pretend it's a Dr who theme night and claim you're there as a Dalek shouting exsperminate as you walk around

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

"Why hide it? I really don't see the problem, even if you're just in the bar xx"
very broad minded of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see erections all the time at Chameleons (Darlaston) - no problem whatsoever to anyone.

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

"We see erections all the time at Chameleons (Darlaston) - no problem whatsoever to anyone. "

Walking around in chams with the towel around my neck late out night sporting an erection I find a real thrill … never had anyone complain (maybe a couple of disgruntled looks)..

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Never seen a man walking around with one at a club

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By *ream of Sum Yung Gai2Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I always let mine out.

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I took a lady to Quest in Leeds and it was just for her to check it out.

We stood checking to a single guy, both of us in towels and she just started playing with him.

Afterwards I asked why she changed her mind, she said his cock was pleased to see me, can't say I noticed.

But he must have had it showing in the bar area.

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By *ighlander40Man
over a year ago

oxford

Just explain it’s your compass - a kind of North Star of intent

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"This might sound like a stupid question.

Think it's the environment and the sexual energy in the air, it just gets me all worked up.

Is it inappropriate to be like this? Would anyone even notice? Or think twice if they did notice?

Think I'm probably overthinking this but does anyone have an opinion on this?

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

You could pretend it's a Dr who theme night and claim you're there as a Dalek shouting exsperminate as you walk around"

I'm reading this whilst my other half sleeps... I just genuinely laughed out loud and almost woke him up!

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By *adylerieWoman
over a year ago

Leatherhead, Surrey

Is this a serious question? Why would anyone mind the most natural thing in the world? I certainly wouldn’t but I am a cock lover. I can see this being a problem at a public swimming pool but in a swingers club? No complaints from me

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By *ovinFunMan
over a year ago

Whixley

That wins the internet

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

"We see erections all the time at Chameleons (Darlaston) - no problem whatsoever to anyone. "

Fairly sure I know what the cause is.

You would probably see them in the supermarket if you looked hard enough

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

There was a guy at Eureka one day last week walking round with a permanent stiffo.

Whenever he sat down he wanked continuously but never to completion.

I meant to ask around as to whether he was U2's The Edge.

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By *ickjones993Man
over a year ago

heathrow

stay off the viagra !

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"This might sound like a stupid question.

Think it's the environment and the sexual energy in the air, it just gets me all worked up.

Is it inappropriate to be like this? Would anyone even notice? Or think twice if they did notice?

Think I'm probably overthinking this but does anyone have an opinion on this?

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

You'd probably be very popular!

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

I think erections are OK but leave them alone

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By *ndrew025Man
over a year ago

west lancs

I’ve never been to a club but I’d definitely be in the same boat. I get an erection when there is a slight breeze lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why you're complaining.

I have the opposite problem

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By *parkleandfluffCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

My OH often walks around chams sporting a large erection. No one has ever made any comment or seemed offended. It’s a sign he’s enjoying him self. People do chuckle when he hangs his towel on it

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

Not been to a club in several years but I seem to recall always walking around with a semi at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aiming in your direction probably

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Nope, wouldn’t bother me at all.

I’m the same I love club vibes so always excited… just easier to hide being a gal haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, the issue is that you get a hard on at a sex club?

Sorry if I've misread, but considering it's more likely for men to suffer the opposite problem, enjoy it!

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By *5funMan
over a year ago

carisbrooke

I’m much the same, evan if it’s just stripping off at the nudist beach, tends to settle back down to place after a while lol, think it’s just the environment, I could be there with. I one else for miles and still has the same effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard not to get an erection around lots of beautiful women when everyone is dressed down. I've received many a blowjob because my bulge was showing or my hard cock was out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why hide it? I really don't see the problem, even if you're just in the bar xx very broad minded of you"

Well it's a sex club lol, I really can't see the issue! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby has had erections at clubs. He was quite self conscious but TBH no one seemed bothered with it. What’s the point if you don’t get a stuffy at a sex club?

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Vixen gets very horny when hound walks around in a club with an election whether it's in his trousers, pants, towel or naked.... if it happens it happens.. just try not to touch anyone with it uninvited lol

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By *indy777Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Can make it tricky getting served at the bar when you can’t get near it!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"There was a guy at Eureka one day last week walking round with a permanent stiffo.

Whenever he sat down he wanked continuously but never to completion.

I meant to ask around as to whether he was U2's The Edge."
He probably has taken viagra and has to keep it stimulated we see it all the time at clubs ..

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Having an erection in a club where nudity is allowed is one of the greatest and most erotic feelings that can be experienced...as long as you don't flaunt it around like a kid with a balloon.

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

I agree it is nice to see erections or even semi erect just don't like to see the wanking bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have thought going to a sex/swingers club and NOT seeing or having an erection would be more of an issue…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might sound like a stupid question.

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

I’d think having a stiff cock in a swingers club would be a lot less embarrassing than trying to explain why you’re wearing two layers of underwear!

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

quote]This might sound like a stupid question.

Think it's the environment and the sexual energy in the air, it just gets me all worked up

Is it inappropriate to be like this? Would anyone even notice? Or think twice if they did notice?

Think I'm probably overthinking this but does anyone have an opinion on this?

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

Ever though of going to a train sporting club

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Vixen gets very horny when hound walks around in a club with an election whether it's in his trousers, pants, towel or naked.... if it happens it happens.. just try not to touch anyone with it uninvited lol

If she’s holding the election Vixen gets my vote xx

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

If she’s holding the election Vixen gets my vote xx

Lol. Erections are much more vixens cuppa tea. Dam autospell lol "

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We see a lot of men can’t get erect in clubs.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Errections are not problem in a swingers club. No need to hide it. Honestly no one minds. Obviously if your being inappropriate or harassing people who don't want to be with it that's a different matter. In which cause the problem is with the owner of said errection, not the errection it's self.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Errections are not problem in a swingers club. No need to hide it. Honestly no one minds. Obviously if your being inappropriate or harassing people who don't want to be with it that's a different matter. In which cause the problem is with the owner of said errection, not the errection it's self."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This"

This!!

Many guys who love the idea of swinging find the reality is they cant get it up in public / group situations or / and when been watched.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Must be the only person to worry about getting an erection at a swingers club

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By *estlondonladMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Must be the only person to worry about getting an erection at a swingers club

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"There was a guy at Eureka one day last week walking round with a permanent stiffo.

Whenever he sat down he wanked continuously but never to completion.

I meant to ask around as to whether he was U2's The Edge.He probably has taken viagra and has to keep it stimulated we see it all the time at clubs .."

Yes, it’s been a while since we’ve frequented clubs on a regular basis but chatting to a few guys over the years, especially those of maturing years, viagra is quite common to assist them and I guess it’s hard to keep it down in that sort of environment.

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By *angler 321Man
over a year ago

Hereford

I've been to a few clubs, and always had the same problem as you, I didn't let it bother me, in fact I quite enjoyed it, and from the attention I received, so did everyone else, just wear tight boxers so your erection sits against you, if it's sticking straight out in front of you it might look a bit awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are considering our first club visit and we’re kind of hoping that erections would feature largely in the experience.

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By *urious_couple_ukCouple
over a year ago

South Cambs

I wouldn’t see it as too much of an issue. Wear a towel if you’re more comfortable but as a woman I don’t see it as a problem! You see men and women in all states of nudity and arousal. I can guarantee some women will be glancing to check out the goods!! As stated above, some men will be jailed off your abilities!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love to see a man with stiffy at the club ..my FB often gets one so I just stroke it ...or sometimes more lol never had any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an erection today at Kestrels. I got out the pool and walked round to my towel and nobody bothered. Just chill, it happens. We’re not kids after all.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"We are considering our first club visit and we’re kind of hoping that erections would feature largely in the experience. "

With a bum like yours, I think that's pretty much guaranteed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are considering our first club visit and we’re kind of hoping that erections would feature largely in the experience.

With a bum like yours, I think that's pretty much guaranteed!

Why, thank you! Nice to know.

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"This might sound like a stupid question.

Think it's the environment and the sexual energy in the air, it just gets me all worked up.

Is it inappropriate to be like this? Would anyone even notice? Or think twice if they did notice?

Think I'm probably overthinking this but does anyone have an opinion on this?

I'm off to a club tonight and considering wearing looser underwear with tighter underwear under to hide this...

You could pretend it's a Dr who theme night and claim you're there as a Dalek shouting exsperminate as you walk around"

Or refer to it as the sonic screwdriver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see erections all the time at Chameleons (Darlaston) - no problem whatsoever to anyone.

Walking around in chams with the towel around my neck late out night sporting an erection I find a real thrill … never had anyone complain (maybe a couple of disgruntled

looks).. "

We wouldn't mind seeing this in chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those very worried, wear cycle shorts. Makes getting undressed that bit trickier tho.

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

It’s not uncommon I have seen guys wanking in some of the public play areas in fact that’s what some of the people that play in those areas are hoping for.

As for the bar area, again not uncommon, it’s a sexual place and even in the bar if it’s dress down you are likely to see quite a bit of flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see an issue at all with this.

I frequently walked around a club with a serious erection and never had a negative reaction to it.

Indeed a couple times it has been used by a very horny female as an alternative to grabbing my hand to pull me into a room.

Even had a very cute TS come up to me in the bar and ask if she can suck on it.

So only positives from my perspective.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Having a stiffy in a swingers club is surely a blessing as opposed to a curse surely? At least if you meet someone who catches you’re eye then you’re primed and ready for action. Win win if you ask me

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By *eusstoneMan
over a year ago

Thurrock

Love laying in the bottom feild at Eurekas showing my full erection off

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I dont see that it would be an issue unless your walking around stroking it or deliberately trying to get peoples attention with it, like bumping it into people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let people look. Enjoy the attention

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