FabSwingers.com forum: AbFabs Monday Bi night .. as a straight guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right, so nights out are very limited but it looks like I should be able to get a rare night out to AbFabs on a Monday in a few weeks.

But .. it’s Bi night and I’m straight straight, not Fab straight!

Now I’ve got problem being around bi people, I’m not one of those ‘phobics’ at all, but was just wondering if it tends to pretty much a waste of time going on a Monday as a straight person?

Obviously you always go with no expectation of anything other than a good night out (no expectation of play etc) but what does the typical mix look like on a Monday evening (obviously each week will be different, but in average) .. is it mainly bi people looking for bi action or a mix?

Many thanks in advance, Fabsters!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gotta love a typo, right?

“Now I’ve got NO problem being around bi people” is what it SHOULD have said.. if only Elon would buy up FabSwingers and invest in an edit button!

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By *ssexgalWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Gotta love a typo, right?

“Now I’ve got NO problem being around bi people” is what it SHOULD have said.. if only Elon would buy up FabSwingers and invest in an edit button!

It’s very chilled and “all types” go and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gotta love a typo, right?

“Now I’ve got NO problem being around bi people” is what it SHOULD have said.. if only Elon would buy up FabSwingers and invest in an edit button!

It’s very chilled and “all types” go and enjoy "

good to hear, thank you

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

More then welcome as a straight guy to a bi night. Just be aware that you may see guys playing together, that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More then welcome as a straight guy to a bi night. Just be aware that you may see guys playing together, that’s all. "

thank you. Yes, of course, I guess it is what it says in the tin! Not phobic in any way, so that’s no issue as long as there’s a mix of clientele (on average! I appreciate you can never tell on any individual specific night!)

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

When my partner was alive we stayed on into a Monday evening and he was straight. It’s a mix - but as you say you can never tell who will be there when!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Its a fab chilled night everyone is respectful of who wants, last Monday I went to some really nice couples and a great mix of tastes heinz comes to mind, I'm going tomorrow as cant make Monday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When my partner was alive we stayed on into a Monday evening and he was straight. It’s a mix - but as you say you can never tell who will be there when!"

Thank you, sounds like it should be a good craic whatever happens, with a mix of people there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a fab chilled night everyone is respectful of who wants, last Monday I went to some really nice couples and a great mix of tastes heinz comes to mind, I'm going tomorrow as cant make Monday "

57 varieties! Sounds fun - looking forwards to it! Enjoy tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any couples going tomorrow

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

Monday nights tend to attract all sorts. If you get chatting to couples there, they will usually say if they are looking for male bi play.

It's a spectrum, talk about whatever your comfortable with, your choice, your limits.

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By *uke_1997Man
over a year ago

London

What's the age range thier as I'm thinking of attending 24 straight male I don't want to go and feel outer place if it's mainly alot older people who go say over 40s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Monday nights tend to attract all sorts. If you get chatting to couples there, they will usually say if they are looking for male bi play.

It's a spectrum, talk about whatever your comfortable with, your choice, your limits."

thanks yes I guess on bi night there’s an assumption you’ll be looking for bi play. Hopefully there will be a good mix when I go

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