FabSwingers.com forum: Club virgin!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, not a new biscuit variety or a Richard Branson venture (although he's probably done that actually)

I've never been to a club and planning to do so. I've moved to the North West in the past couple of weeks and no time like now I guess.

Cupids looks welcoming, so I'm just in need of the final bit of courage, any guidance or tips, and ideally a nice woman to hold my hand.

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you know that Cupid's is a club where you have to dressdown immediately on arrival and wear just boxers or a towel in the bar ? For a first time visit some people prefer a club where you can stay fully clothed in the bar.

Wherever you choose to go I hope you have fun.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks - I guess I take a bit of a bold approach to some things. I learnt to swim after jumping of a pier into the sea, my first trip skiing involved a black run so why not go all in?

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thanks - I guess I take a bit of a bold approach to some things. I learnt to swim after jumping of a pier into the sea, my first trip skiing involved a black run so why not go all in? "

So do you still need a woman to hold your hand ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can get someone to go with then brilliant and well done. If not then do not start stalking anyone there or making a nuisance of yourself. Single guys tend to creep out many at clubs because they do not know how to behave. Be respectful and friendly, don't interrupt when folks are enjoying themselves and don't come across as sleazy. You'll also have a greater chance of something happening this way.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks - the hand holding position remains open!

And yes - I have no intention of being an annoying git trying to get involved in every, but also don't want to be the weird bloke who sits in the corner that no one ever speaks to.

It's about getting the right balance