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By *iss Imperfect OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

After attending my first club experience last weekend and having an amazing time I have a question….. I loved the glory hole and enjoyed all it had to offer. However, rather naively didn’t think that STD’s can be passed on this way too (oral gonorrhoea and chlamydia for eg) for guys giving oral too obviously. I would always use a condom when having sex but for some reason isn’t the done thing giving oral. I love giving and receiving oral…. What are other’s view on this?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Someone on this thread will say it's Russian roulette

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

It’s a risk. Assume everyone has stis and make your decisions accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The is risk but it's less with than intercourse. Protect yourself as much as you need to feel confident. My preference is no condoms for either and I've not had a STD ever. But I respect that's a risk not everyone is willing to take.

Tbh I don't think anyone uses a condom for oral. Xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Tbh I don't think anyone uses a condom for oral. Xx"

I tried it once and it tasted horrid

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In Swinging there is an element of risk v reward. Most on the scene don't use oral precautions and (purely anecdotally) we don't hear of anyone coming undone from unprotected oral. So there is risk as you pointed out but to us oral unprotected is a level of risk we're happy with. However its your health, your life, your choice.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

It's a much lower risk x

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"The is risk but it's less with than intercourse. Protect yourself as much as you need to feel confident. My preference is no condoms for either and I've not had a STD ever. But I respect that's a risk not everyone is willing to take.

Tbh I don't think anyone uses a condom for oral. Xx"

I have had a guy put on a condom for oral. It wasn't nice for me and kept slipping down.

Ms x

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By *iss Imperfect OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"It’s a risk. Assume everyone has stis and make your decisions accordingly.

"

I don’t think I would do anything then…. It’s a tough one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Tbh I don't think anyone uses a condom for oral. Xx

I tried it once and it tasted horrid"

Yeah it's horrible xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"It’s a risk. Assume everyone has stis and make your decisions accordingly.

I don’t think I would do anything then…. It’s a tough one"

Maybe get a few flavoured condoms and hand them out

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Life's a risk, assess the situation and risk to your health accordingly. It's all about personal responsibility for us.

Personally it's condoms for penetrative, but oral then it's like food...if it smells bad then it's off amd don't eat it

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By *iss Imperfect OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Personally it's condoms for penetrative, but oral then it's like food...if it smells bad then it's off amd don't eat it "

Omg…. Too funny but so true

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By *iss Imperfect OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Thanks everyone for your input…. Much appreciated from this clubbing newbie

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By *eductiveEncountersWoman
over a year ago

South West

Oral is a Risk.

It is even more of a risk if you have gum infections for eg.

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

It's is always risky & you can't protect against herpes.Always take care and get tested regularly.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

It's Russian roulette

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I recently started a thread about people’s preference for giving/receiving a blowjob with a condom on. I would conservatively say that 98% said either no condom or no bj (from both men and women).

Oral sex with either sex is a risk, and you have to hope others have regular checkups, and do so yourself.

You can check people’s ‘history’ to an extent, with their veris on their profile in here, and make a decision based on that, but in a club scenario……? Caveat emptor…….

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

It’s the done thing with me.

8 years at clubs, condoms for oral and sex. Never a complaint or issue from any men 1:1 or in group fun

Do what makes you comfortable. But as someone who clubs regularly, it’s never been an issue. No one’s mentioned it or made remarks. xx

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

There are clubs that actually do checks once a month.If you choose this life style you need to get checked out regularly.As for clubs being a problem I disagree you only need to play with one person to be at risk... Nothing stop herpes.x

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