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By *avender76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Altrincham

I’ve never been to a club before but want to try them as a safer alternative to solo private meets. How comfortable would I be attending as a single woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been a couple of times (not really my scene but thats by the by), i messaged a few people who worked/attended the clubs as regulars and tagged along with them. Everyone was super friendly regardless. No real difference from going to a bar or cafe your self in some respect. But if your nervous, message some regs and tag along with them

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle


"I’ve never been to a club before but want to try them as a safer alternative to solo private meets. How comfortable would I be attending as a single woman? "

you be fine.. clubs have a code of conduct for single men. 99.9% of the time people are respectful of the rules in clubs and will chat and make friends with you.. anything more is always down to how you feel

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By *xyIcequeenWoman
over a year ago

Halesowen


"I’ve never been to a club before but want to try them as a safer alternative to solo private meets. How comfortable would I be attending as a single woman? "

The first couple of times I went o my own, I felt very comfortable, they make us single ladies feel so safe n welcome.if u ever wanted someone to go in with I'd be more than happy come in with you

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech

At jaydees we are renowned for looking after our single ladies, you can read through the reviews section and see just how safe and secure all our guests are.

Best advice is to get an overall idea of what your club of choice offers and check their reviews.

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By *he Original SpartanMan
over a year ago

Daventry

Totally agree with last thread, each club offers something different. Some are more night club feel other dress down.

Depends what your looking for and what your comfortable with. But what ever the case, “no thank you” works on ALL clubs!

Enjoy, your be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are really excited about of first club visit in a couple of months time. I in sure most people will be nervous the first time. Just remember everyone is there for the same reasons. Xx

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Clubs make single ladies most welcome. And very safe. I went as a single lady for 3 yrs .was my 2nd home

I felt safe .well looked after and had a ball

Then i met del in club. Been downhill eversince . Lol (joking )

You will get followed about by single guys no doubt about that but if anyone is to annoying you just tell the staff they will deal with it. Go to 1 if you dont enjoy it try another. I can recommend adam and eves reinvented and partners.k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been to a club before but want to try them as a safer alternative to solo private meets. How comfortable would I be attending as a single woman?

The first couple of times I went o my own, I felt very comfortable, they make us single ladies feel so safe n welcome.if u ever wanted someone to go in with I'd be more than happy come in with you "

We 2nd that motion! Seriously though, there are plenty of couples or single ladies who will gladly go to a club with you (with no strings!) To make sure you get your bearings and feel comfortable.

Plenty of great clubs nearby and we're only up the road

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

My partner often attends clubs alone (which works great as I'm often too busy to go). Likewise myself alone sometimes. I never have a worry about her at a club. Clubs are generally pretty safe and as others have said clubs will look after you. As for socialising alone most clubs are really welcoming social spaces and you'll have little problem making new freinds.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve attended clubs many times as a single lady and trust me you won’t be feeling lonely haha

Couples tend to take you under their wing , looking out for you - and not just cos they want to have you lol

I made truly lovely friendships that have continued for the last 9 years from those single girl club nights

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