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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening all, hope you are well.

We registered on FabSwingers a couple of months ago to help us start exploring the swinging scene and are working up our courage to attend some clubs/parties this year. As a couple we are looking to meet other MF couples, but are open to individual fun with the right people.

We have seen positive reviews on FabSwingers for Le Boudoir Club in London. We would like to hear from Le Boudoir Club members on how welcoming the club is to people of colour?

We are NOT specifically looking to meet people/couples from BAME backgrounds. We are happy to meet anyone providing they are decent, nice clean people.

But being that we are a married couple with Indian heritage we assume there aren't many into the swinging scene and just want to make sure this club and any others we may attend are a safe place for us to explore.

Thanks in advance,

/couple4369

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By *redy81Man
over a year ago

London

Hello, guys! In short: that club is absolutely safe and amazing. You will have a great experience!

The crowd in general is very diverse in terms of skin colour and there is a lot of interracial fun that goes on every night! (I mean, I have only attended Fridays as a single men, but I'm sure it's no different on the couple's only Saturdays)

And you will be surprised, you will meet more Indian origin couples in these clubs (my other fav is OP4F) than you'd think! Luckily, as I'm a huge fan of Indian girls... :D

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london

It absolutely is, there a number of Asian regulars actually. It’s in london after all, also gets a fair few tourists so all sorts of people attend.

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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago

East Devon & London

We’ve been regulars at LB for many years.

It’s by far the most sophisticated club we’ve been to in the U.K. and also the most cosmopolitan.

Don’t have any hesitations about making it your fist club experience, you’ll have a great time what ever level of interaction you are comfortable with.

Do make an effort with what you both wear and be aware the girls usually dress down later in the evening when things start hotting up.

Have fun!

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By *lubCouple500Couple
over a year ago

Paradise Island


"Evening all, hope you are well.

We registered on FabSwingers a couple of months ago to help us start exploring the swinging scene and are working up our courage to attend some clubs/parties this year. As a couple we are looking to meet other MF couples, but are open to individual fun with the right people.

We have seen positive reviews on FabSwingers for Le Boudoir Club in London. We would like to hear from Le Boudoir Club members on how welcoming the club is to people of colour?

We are NOT specifically looking to meet people/couples from BAME backgrounds. We are happy to meet anyone providing they are decent, nice clean people.

But being that we are a married couple with Indian heritage we assume there aren't many into the swinging scene and just want to make sure this club and any others we may attend are a safe place for us to explore.

Thanks in advance,

/couple4369

"

We're a British/Asian couple that have attended Le Boudoir for many years. It's a great club, we have had a lot of fun there. You won't regret going !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies. Comforting to hear it's a safe place for all.

Unknown to us at the time of writing this post as the Le Boudior Club email advising us that our application could not be accepted went into our junk folder.

Are there any others we could look into?

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By *redy81Man
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for all the replies. Comforting to hear it's a safe place for all.

Unknown to us at the time of writing this post as the Le Boudior Club email advising us that our application could not be accepted went into our junk folder.

Are there any others we could look into?

"

I'm sorry to hear that your application has been refused. There were some rumours here that LB rejects some people due to age and body type, but looking at your photos and profile this clearly can't be the reason! Probably they made a mistake, or the photos you uploaded don't match some formal criteria?

If you are interested in these parties, I'd recommend you contact the club and try again, as I'm sure that it can't be anything else than a misunderstanding.

But you are right, LB is not the only club in London, my other favourite is OP4F, a cosy, small club near Alexandra Palace. That is the only club in London run only by girls, all members of the management and staff are female. It's super clean and tidy, and there is always a sexy crowd. I usually attend Saturday nights, when they let in only 5 single guys (selected ones who are known for following the etiquette). Usually, there are 15-30 couples and a few single girls too. I always have a good time in that club!

And this club also seems to be popular among Indian swingers, they have many regular Asian couples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Fredy will drop LB an email now.

As far as we know we did everything asked of us. Had clear face photos etc.

Will look into OP4F, sounds promising. Good to hear it has a multicultural attendance, its more for a safety security point of view as a lot of places still aren't very welcoming to people of colour!

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By *redy81Man
over a year ago

London


"Thanks Fredy will drop LB an email now.

As far as we know we did everything asked of us. Had clear face photos etc.

Will look into OP4F, sounds promising. Good to hear it has a multicultural attendance, its more for a safety security point of view as a lot of places still aren't very welcoming to people of colour!"

I just checked the requirements on their website, as we are thinking about signing up with my FWB partner as a couple. (I have a membership on my own already) Now they are asking for a full body picture with the date of the registration written on a piece of paper, held in your hands. I'm not sure if I needed to do this when I registered for myself.

I'm sure it can't be anything else than a misunderstanding, or maybe they are really full and can't accept more? (I doubt it)

Do you really met this sort of attitude? I'm non-British white, but I never experienced anything like that. Contrary, if I browse female profiles too long here, I feel that I wish I was black, as nearly half of the profiles start with "black men only!"

But that's okay, everyone can have a type. For example, Indian girls are my absolute weak point, I can't imagine how could anyone not be happy to see you in clubs, you Asians are incredibly sexy!

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"Thanks for all the replies. Comforting to hear it's a safe place for all.

Unknown to us at the time of writing this post as the Le Boudior Club email advising us that our application could not be accepted went into our junk folder.

Are there any others we could look into?

"

Abfabs at Heathrow is a good alternative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But you are right, LB is not the only club in London, my other favourite is OP4F, a cosy, small club near Alexandra Palace. That is the only club in London run only by girls, all members of the management and staff are female."

I’m certain that OP4F was owned and run by an older Australian couple that were in their 60’s?

It’s been a few years since my last visit so maybe the Aussies have retired and sold the club on to the new female management?

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

Hey, there are lots of clubs to try all very welcoming xx we were rejected by le boudoir as well a couple of weeks ago. Yes it makes you feel a bit rubbish but honestly there are so many clubs and private parties to attend it won’t bother you soon xxx

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"

But you are right, LB is not the only club in London, my other favourite is OP4F, a cosy, small club near Alexandra Palace. That is the only club in London run only by girls, all members of the management and staff are female.

I’m certain that OP4F was owned and run by an older Australian couple that were in their 60’s?

It’s been a few years since my last visit so maybe the Aussies have retired and sold the club on to the new female management? "
. I think the Australian couple you mean are Greg & Lisa who owned or possibly still own OP4F as about 4 years ago I did hear that they owned the club and live in Australia.Katey is the manager who together with the other girls manage the club very well. I first met Greg and Lisa about 20 years ago at Sunset cinema in Soho were they would turn up most Wednesday evenings for a gang bang for Lisa.

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