FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie couple question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Neither of us has ever been to a swingers club. We do want to go and watch a live sex show together in Amsterdam, and go to a strip club. I was wondering if there are any guidelines on swingers clubs. Can you just go, relax and enjoy watching other people fucking, or do you have to be active participants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can go and just watch. There’s no pressure to play at clubs.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Hi,

We started this by going to a strip club to see how Mrs T felt about being in that type of environment. It was a very sexy night!

Following this, we took the plunge and went to the VA. We didn’t play, we’re nervous as hell…a couple saw this and took us under their wing. All we did that night was fuck each other and enjoy the atmosphere.

Few years later, we love our club nights and have made some great friends. Just relax and enjoy it

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

The joy of clubs is the freedom to do what you like. You can enjoy the social side, the dressing up/dressing down, the voyeurism, exhibitionism, private play together, 3somes/4somes/moresomes together or even swapping. Maybe simply just enjoy the facilities and possibly have a good meal (some club do catering). Plus it's just a great safe chilled adult space to escape everyday life and get away from the kids (if applicable). You can enjoy any combination of the above as your desires and mood dictate. You can simply pick n mix, no pressure to do anything other than follow the basic house rules and dress code. A lot of people who go don't play all the time or for some ever. Some people just enjoy the environment and company. For us we just go with the intention of having a great time together in an environment we love and if mischief finds us, it finds us.

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

"Neither of us has ever been to a swingers club. We do want to go and watch a live sex show together in Amsterdam, and go to a strip club. I was wondering if there are any guidelines on swingers clubs. Can you just go, relax and enjoy watching other people fucking, or do you have to be active participants? "

One of the key things in swinging is to only do what both of you want to do and don’t let anybody else push you into doing things you don’t want to do.

Clubs are a great way to experiment, they are a safe environment where you can remain in complete control of what you do and don’t do. Just watching others can be great fun.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

One of the key things in swinging is to only do what both of you want to do and don’t let anybody else push you into doing things you don’t want to do.

Clubs are a great way to experiment, they are a safe environment where you can remain in complete control of what you do and don’t do. Just watching others can be great fun."

I totally agree.... if it helps

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

No always means no xxx

Clubs are a great way to mix with like minded people.

I always say treat it like you would a normal nightclub/ bar just some wear less clothes than others and if you click with the right person(s) then there maybe a chance to go play xxx

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