FabSwingers.com forum: Etiquette For New Single Males At Club Events

By *lackley78 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hey Guys this is my 4th post here I've been back as a single guy about 3 weeks & i must admit the experience has beej a mixed bag. I've met lots of sound ppl online & had 1 social which went well with fun to follow. I've made a few

Good connections with some meets looking likely in the future.

There are I've discovered here many time wasters & fantasists equally some single males & fake couple accounts that don't read profiles & others who write filth before any sort of a convo taking place or a hey, hi style message giving the impression the art of holding a conversation is dead.

1 of the original dons the friend request coming straight outta nowhere or arguably the most offensive & mindless old faithful an unsolicited dic pic that oozes finesse & class.

Sadly not last & not least the cut & paste message sent repeatedly untill their blocked & why decent single lads get stopped from interacting by the mindless behavior of a few with the inability to understand incompatibility isn't the same as being rejected. It shouldn't result in an abusive response or a Spanish inquisition as to why not. Although ive asked a couple to politely any major reasons & had a couple of explanation which helped but we had chatted for awhile.

I'm reliably informed often it does result in ppl sending vile messages & i wonder if anyone finds that approach works. Lets be honest y

ou dont have to be a lothario to know it wont ffs. After feeling a bit disheartened with the difficulty caused by all of the above it was suggested to make some face to face connections in a safe environment in public & arranged to go to a proper social no play event.

So my 1st question is in comments can any experienced member of the community give me any tips or advice for a single male attending the Manchester no play Social event & maybe what to expect.

The 2nd question relates to attending a play event & this time its one being held at Quest in Leeds. This has been recommended as its definitely wheelchair accessible. The other ive seen advertised is The Greedy Girl event held at The Gatehouse on a Monday.

Could any experienced members or people organising events give some advice or tips on the etiquette for a new single male attending his 1st play event. So as not to drop a bollock or at least not in the wrong way as thw last thing i want to do is upset anyone & not knowing what I've done wrong.

Knowledge is power & ignorance is no longer bliss or an excuse as surely its these sort of questions forum & this group is all about. Thanks in advance for anyone who comments & to all the lovely people ive met so far i really appreciate all of you especially my favourite couple you know who you are.

Happy Fabbing B xx