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"as club owners we would love to see a filter where no more than 1 review can be posted by each person in a 6 month period, so they can reflect changes as a club develops etc. We have had an awful problem with "trolls" setting up fake profiles to write nasty and abusive "reviews" when those concerned never even attended. Its easy for us as we take online bookings so know if a review is genuine or not. A club review should be somebodies GENUINE observations of a club, good OR bad. We strongly promote customers to talk to us on an event night or to mail us after with ANY issues they may have and will do our very best to address issues (refunds, changes, free invites back etc) The review page can make or break clubs and when it is done with vindictive intent it just makes people look silly. The club scene in the UK is beginning to evolve and become more mainstream so with customers support and active involvement the scene will get much better in the next few years with the seedy clubs, or those that dont care simply being driven out of business, MORE people should be going to clubs, and nasty personal comments will just make people stay away ....leading to quiet clubs, there is a possible IRONY there..... Happy clubbing folks xxx Stu & deb" | |||
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"A nightmare It is a shame people can't just let people leave reviews instead of arguing and defending a club when an " avoid" review is left. I don't think they realise that it will probably put most people off trying that club as it looks like imtimidating people use them." But some mods do get carried away removing reviews | |||
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"A nightmare It is a shame people can't just let people leave reviews instead of arguing and defending a club when an " avoid" review is left. I don't think they realise that it will probably put most people off trying that club as it looks like imtimidating people use them.But some mods do get carried away removing reviews " I am sure the smiley on the end isn't needed as I am guessing you are not saying this tongue in cheek or as a joke. ALL reviews good or bad stay on...mods are NOT allowed to take off good or bad reviews. They are however allowed to take off NON reviews. If you have a problem with that you will need to use the CONTACT button to ask Admin to change what they tell us to do. | |||
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"A nightmare It is a shame people can't just let people leave reviews instead of arguing and defending a club when an " avoid" review is left. I don't think they realise that it will probably put most people off trying that club as it looks like imtimidating people use them.But some mods do get carried away removing reviews I am sure the smiley on the end isn't needed as I am guessing you are not saying this tongue in cheek or as a joke. ALL reviews good or bad stay on...mods are NOT allowed to take off good or bad reviews. They are however allowed to take off NON reviews. If you have a problem with that you will need to use the CONTACT button to ask Admin to change what they tell us to do." Well I know 5 people who have complained today about reviews being removed and all you get is a form reply ( like below ), so bit pointless complaining really "Hi, Thanks for the feedback about moderation issues on the site. We use feedback on the moderators to help them understand how better to moderate the site, and to ensure that we have the right folks moderating. Moderating is a thankless task and all the mods are all volunteers dealing with dozens of decisions each day, some of which aren't clear cut. Usually mods get things right but mistakes and misjudgements do happen and we're committed to learning and improving how the site is moderated, something we can only do with user feedback. We're sorry that we're unable to respond personally to your invidual issue but we get literally hundreds of feedback forms and abuse reports to deal with each day and there aren't enough hours in the day to respond to them all let alone keep the site running for the benefit of the members. Thanks again, Admin x | |||
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"A nightmare It is a shame people can't just let people leave reviews instead of arguing and defending a club when an " avoid" review is left. I don't think they realise that it will probably put most people off trying that club as it looks like imtimidating people use them.But some mods do get carried away removing reviews I am sure the smiley on the end isn't needed as I am guessing you are not saying this tongue in cheek or as a joke. ALL reviews good or bad stay on...mods are NOT allowed to take off good or bad reviews. They are however allowed to take off NON reviews. If you have a problem with that you will need to use the CONTACT button to ask Admin to change what they tell us to do." I had a review of mine removed several months ago. It was a genuine review - I'd been there a couple of nights beforehand. However, there was an 'avoid' review earlier that day and then several defensive reviews, so I think mine was removed with all of those, even though it was not in response to the negative review but was just a genuine personal review. I didn't complain because I didn't know I could, tbh | |||
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"I have just done some counting. One person has reviewed it 27 times in 6 months / another 18 times in 6 months / another 15 times in 6 months . To us this has a negative effect on the club as when i read it to see if its become a bit more popular you just see the same old faces reviewing. " I suspect that the people leaving these reviews don't realise that they are actually having a detrimental effect! | |||
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"I have just done some counting. One person has reviewed it 27 times in 6 months / another 18 times in 6 months / another 15 times in 6 months . To us this has a negative effect on the club as when i read it to see if its become a bit more popular you just see the same old faces reviewing. I suspect that the people leaving these reviews don't realise that they are actually having a detrimental effect!" I AGREE i guess they feel they are helping the club but all it does is look like there are only a few people attending. | |||
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"A nightmare It is a shame people can't just let people leave reviews instead of arguing and defending a club when an " avoid" review is left. I don't think they realise that it will probably put most people off trying that club as it looks like imtimidating people use them." | |||
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"Thanks for the comments. Seems most are of the same view. I wonder if the Admins / Mods will take notice and do some "pruning" in the Clubs Reviews? " and add a limit in terms of reviews per user per club per month! | |||
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" ... So why not a section like eBay where one can honestly judge the basics and personal judgements don't cloud the reality ?" That would be a really good idea! A point or star system where you grade the club on relevant categories such as cleanliness, facilities, friendliness etc would remove the need for subjective opinions. | |||
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" and add a limit in terms of reviews per user per club per month! " | |||
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"best to see what a club is like is for you to try it yourself, as whats great for someone could be rubbish for someone else. well thats our opinion, also when people leave a not so good review they get hung drawn and quartered on here, which is not right, every one is entitled to their own opinion" Absolutely right however, I had commented to my friend that I really didn't wish to go to Romeos anymore not because it isn't a nice club because it is, but because there are so few attending the club. My friend then checked the attendance list for last Saturday night and we went along. We then made the decision not to go again ourselves rather than what others say. On the other hand, a couple I met several years ago raved about Xstasia and so we went along a few months ago, no way was it worth the petrol or entrance fee. So you are right, rely on your own opinion, your own instinct not just others; we might be going to a club on a Saturday night but the avoid reviews all made for a Friday nights so it often makes the decision difficult anyway. And I wouldn't comment about a club not being all that for that very reason | |||
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"We agree about the "it just gets better and better" line. Would add the "full of glamorous sexy couples" line too. Puts us off instantly. " | |||
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"Perhaps just have a series of set questions with answers on being a rating, 1 being the worst and 10 being the best. 1 Cleanliness 1 - 10 2 Music 1 - 10 3 etc..." Firstly, having been invited into the houses of some people who visit clubs, the subjective views of some people as to what is clean and what isn't...would be, well, er, VERY "subjective". Likewise what is good music is open to interpretation. Not been to a club yet that's played much Led Zeppelin or Deep Purple, or Pink Floyd... so how could I give a grading for music that all sounds the same to me? | |||
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"Perhaps just have a series of set questions with answers on being a rating, 1 being the worst and 10 being the best. 1 Cleanliness 1 - 10 2 Music 1 - 10 3 etc... Firstly, having been invited into the houses of some people who visit clubs, the subjective views of some people as to what is clean and what isn't...would be, well, er, VERY "subjective". Likewise what is good music is open to interpretation. Not been to a club yet that's played much Led Zeppelin or Deep Purple, or Pink Floyd... so how could I give a grading for music that all sounds the same to me? " Well, you fill in your review as normal, then we view your profile and make judgement upon you and your worthiness in viewpoints | |||
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" Lets use this thread to assist Admin to come up with a new way of doing it, ." | |||
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"Delete everything over 6 months old. They are pointless and no one goes back that far. If a club doesn't have a review in that time, they have probably closed and need deleting anyway." Agree "Stop anyone adding more than one review every month." Agree "Allow the club owners a response field, rather than the need to review themselves to answer a comment. If everyone can see the clubs answer, it would make it less confrontational." Agree, but only if the club owners can be adult about it. I've recently seen people be accused that they are not real just because they've hidden their profile. What does hiding a profile have to do with enjoying a club? "Hate the "Avoid" option. Its only ever used by people having a direct go at the club, and should be limited to "We won't be back" rather than telling others who may like it, to stay away." Agree. I think 'Love' 'Like' and 'Dislike' would be much better options than the one's we have now. | |||
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"Delete everything over 6 months old. They are pointless and no one goes back that far. If a club doesn't have a review in that time, they have probably closed and need deleting anyway. Agree Stop anyone adding more than one review every month. Agree Allow the club owners a response field, rather than the need to review themselves to answer a comment. If everyone can see the clubs answer, it would make it less confrontational. Agree, but only if the club owners can be adult about it. I've recently seen people be accused that they are not real just because they've hidden their profile. What does hiding a profile have to do with enjoying a club? Hate the "Avoid" option. Its only ever used by people having a direct go at the club, and should be limited to "We won't be back" rather than telling others who may like it, to stay away. Agree. I think 'Love' 'Like' and 'Dislike' would be much better options than the one's we have now. " oooo yes like this idea | |||
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"Having run a hotel in the past and now a club, the idea of a decent review system appeals far more than the subjective one. Few ideas: Delete everything over 6 months old. They are pointless and no one goes back that far. If a club doesn't have a review in that time, they have probably closed and need deleting anyway." I think 12 months rather than 6 months but I agree with the idea in principal "Stop anyone adding more than one review every month." Agree, so long as that is one review per club, though personally I'd extend that to stopping anyone reveiwing a club more than once in 3 months "Allow the club owners a response field, rather than the need to review themselves to answer a comment. If everyone can see the clubs answer, it would make it less confrontational." I think this is a great idea, if the club owner makes silly comments in this section, that would simply help people form an opinion of the club "Allow members to grade the club on the specifics we all look for. Cleanliness, facilities, numbers, friendliness, etc. Far better way than loads of comments. Don't use it for subjective things though, like Music." That works in part, but if i was trying to over promote a club I'd simply put 5 for everything. I do think part of the review has to be subjective as that adds to the whole experience so music, did I enjoy the night etc are valid points "Hate the "Avoid" option. Its only ever used by people having a direct go at the club, and should be limited to "We won't be back" rather than telling others who may like it, to stay away." I agree | |||
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"As for the reviews themselves I think adding a checkbox for "out of 10" would be great. Also the over 6 months old thing is a good idea however I would keep the cumulative "out of 10 reviews) but just hide the written ones after 6 months as to be fair after 6 months its generally not that relevant. " I agree, a good idea, though the points out of 10 could be a rolling cumulative over 12 months, therefore if a club starts getting better or poorer ratings it should reflect and allow the club the opportunity to change that perception to correct whatever's been giving them poor scores...or see the changes they are making are getting rewarded. A classic example here would be Xtasia, under new ownership now for about 6 months. Many people have commented on the changes made by the new owners being positive, therefore you should be able to see that slowly change the score to be better. | |||
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"There was a drive by the admin to remove defunct clubs last year but nothign ever came of it. ." They did remove a lot The way things work only Admin can remove them though, so anymore that are kapputt I would let Admin know | |||
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