FabSwingers.com forum: Club newbie questions

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My partner would love to attend a club and have FMM. It's his fantasy. But concerned fantasy don't always go the same way in reality. I'm very particular who I want as the third person and wondering how easy is it to chat to people without feeling pressurised in more non sexual setting in a club. Does most if the physical activity happen behind closed doors, invite only to view? Nakedness and frolicking happens in private rooms only? Sorry sounding like a sexual prude, more to do with lack of confidence and nerves.

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"My partner would love to attend a club and have FMM. It's his fantasy. But concerned fantasy don't always go the same way in reality. I'm very particular who I want as the third person and wondering how easy is it to chat to people without feeling pressurised in more non sexual setting in a club. Does most if the physical activity happen behind closed doors, invite only to view? Nakedness and frolicking happens in private rooms only? Sorry sounding like a sexual prude, more to do with lack of confidence and nerves.

There should be no pressure from anyone at a club. There's usually a socialising area and then play areas separate with some open areas and some private rooms with lockable doors. This varies from club to club. But you should always feel safe and find somewhere you can relax and have fun.

By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We have started clubbing in the last few months and have absolutely loved the experience.

We have found them on the whole to be very relaxed and respectful and people if you politely turn down play are very mature and understanding.

Make sure the club you go to has private lockable rooms and have a great time.

By *ets DanceCouple
over a year ago

Brixworth

The club we go to in Bedford ‘Jaydees’ is the most inclusive, friendly and natural relaxed atmosphere you will experience.

Very party with a lot of dancing…clubs really are not as intimidating as you may feel.

Hugely social and motivated only when you desire.

Kevin and I would love to welcome you to our club of choice …the rest you really can do yourself without anxiety or concern.

Enjoy the anticipation and nerves, as you only feel that to that extent the first time you go…then you realise it was unwarranted.

Hope to see you in attendance.

All the best.

Anya xx