FabSwingers.com forum: First time club visit planned

By *stwo7478 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

So we have decided to try our first club visit after a couple of bad meets put the wifey off

We have decided on xtasia as not a dress down club and some good reviews

Any tips and advice for first timers and is xtasia a good choice

By *stwo7478 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Forgot to say 5th March we looking at as work

Commitments and a Saturday so just other couple and not full

Of single blokes for first time (no disrespect to the single lads out there

By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think a good choice to dip you toe in if you have reservations about dress down. It has many clothed social areas such a flirts bar (attached to the club), the main bar/dance floor area and the big sofa room. Great spaces to meet new people and ease your self into the scene gently. With of course the option of turning the heat up or simply just watching in the play areas later. Plus it's a popular place so lots of people and thus more opportunities to find people you like.

All I would say is if you like it and start to feel a bit more daring go and try some great dress down clubs like Chameleons. A lot of people who don't think dress down clubs are for them but soon change their mind after they visited. So I definitely would recommend trying these sort of clubs too and seeing what you like best.

By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Xstasia is a great club for a first time! Most of it feels like a regular nightclub bar so it's not too big of a leap from what you may already be comfortable with.

It's not a dress-down club do you can be in and around the play areas fully clothed. This is good and bad. It's great that it let's you explore comfortably but also it can be hard to create a sexy atmosphere with fully clothed people watching naked people have sex

It can also make it a much bigger step to go from watching to playing if you have to fully undress in the playroom.

Taking a dress-down outfit with you is a good idea. Have a drink, have a dance, watch some play and then go change into your dress down outfits if you feel like joining in.

As always there's never any expectation on you to do anything at a club. So feel free to stay dressed and enjoy the club all night if you wish