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By *herry-blossom OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

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By *herry-blossom OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

And as usual, my post gets ignored.... I am trying to engage with single guys here.... HELLO

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By *edway paul 1978Man
over a year ago

Chatham

I love club nights and for me it's to meet new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been before. I'm willing for most but currently would love a femdom night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it has to be good reviews on the atmosphere

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By *cmidlandsMan
over a year ago

rushden

Agree with post above. Knowing a club has a friendly atmosphere, and welcomes men to the scene. And just to met new people too.

So after knowing that, then I just pick an event that appeals to me.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Obviously a good ratio of women to men, a sausage fest doesn't appeal to us straight guys and it often creates a bad atmosphere if the ratio is too guy heavy.

For me, the clubs I go back to tend to have a good vibe and encourage guest to dress well and make an effort. Saturday nights are ideal especially if it's a club that requires travel to.

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As for specific events or nights I'm most likely to try to attend one that tries something a little bit different and unique such as a foam party or a "heavy play/fetishes encouraged" type night.

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By *ungle_kingMan
over a year ago

Nuneaton

The feedback on the forum or review sections help, usually it’s case of the mix of people on any given night not necessarily the theme.. however…

I went to the hot wifes event at libs and honestly it’s a super night with so many sexy women but it’s just not for me, there were far to many single guys and so much of it seem pre-planned with the couples so the mix just feel right and you’d have to be quite pushy to be invited into any fun but it obviously works as it’s a massive turn out but personally I’m looking forward to tomorrow nights over 40’s with a more realistic mix of single guys (10) and couples.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

Being made to feel welcome, and included, as opposed to feeling like you’ve gatecrashed someone’s party. At the end of the day, we’re all there to meet new, likeminded people

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By *ipplebarnyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

I like to try different clubs and just accept what is on that night unless it is Bi or something else that is not my bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a single male I had little to no interest in going to clubs,(shagging about doesn’t make you a swinger, partner swapping does)and quiet honestly if there was a night of no singles allowed male or female that would be a good night for us,

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Some so called party nights are just a dj doing records. To me that's not a party night it doesn't get people involved or anything. However there are certain party nights up here where there are games etc and limited single guys verified only. Which makes the atmosphere so much better. Hope that helps op.

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

St trinians.... mixed into a bukkske event

Thanks for asking the single guys

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

It all depends really on;

Who's trowing it

What night it's on

What's the club like where the event's being held

Can I be asked to go that far

If anyone I knows going to be there.

What's the likely hood of me getting into it.

How much in total would it cost to attend the event.

Does it sound like a fun event.

Etc etc etc

What about you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

When I go to clubs I look at the number of men going. Too many and it ruins the experience.

I use the term “wanking zombies”. When it’s packed with single guys it’s unbearable. There was one time I was stood in a window watching a couple (after being invited) and there was two guys behind me tugging away. You could hear the jingle jangle of their locker keys and their penis kept touching me.

And then you get them breathing on you. It’s so off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

When I go to clubs I look at the number of men going. Too many and it ruins the experience.

I use the term “wanking zombies”. When it’s packed with single guys it’s unbearable. There was one time I was stood in a window watching a couple (after being invited) and there was two guys behind me tugging away. You could hear the jingle jangle of their locker keys and their penis kept touching me.

And then you get them breathing on you. It’s so off putting.

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Forgot the second part.

What I look for mainly is the host. There are one or two hosts that if they’re hosting, I’m looking at my calendar to see if I’m free that weekend.

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By *illy_actionMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

For me its when the misses has gone to the Bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi my reason is ive never been to one before and after talking to couples who have been and what they have got up to has got me really interested, im not looking to go on any specific night as due to work commitments my time is limited but im arranging to go on a sunday afternoon not sure if anything special is on just goung for the experience

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me it depends if I am around in Manchester - if I am I will normally go to Cupids

When amours was open I used to compare the two and see what was going on and each and make my mind based on type of night, who was going.

For example I normally wouldn’t go to a bmfc or bi night as it’s not my thing from a play pov. I may decide oh I am in manc Cupids is open oh it’s bmfc oh I will pop a long.

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By *herry-blossom OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford


"When I was a single male I had little to no interest in going to clubs,(shagging about doesn’t make you a swinger, partner swapping does)and quiet honestly if there was a night of no singles allowed male or female that would be a good night for us,"

Not all of us are happy to be in a relationship, each to their own!

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By *herry-blossom OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford


"For me its when the misses has gone to the Bingo"

Hahahaha, this has me cracked up

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By *herry-blossom OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

Thanks everyone that added input

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

Has to be a hot wives event every time.

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

I'm trying club now as a away of meetings new people and hopefully make friends to and if luvkly play ,but find it's cheaper on a gay and bi nigth as they are 17 pounds to a normalnite which for me is 45 pounds ,as I'm st8 but used to being around gay and bi men on nudist beach and walking around bars in gran carries

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I generally look for curvy girl nights as that is my “type” but generally it’s about the atmosphere

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"When I was a single male I had little to no interest in going to clubs,(shagging about doesn’t make you a swinger, partner swapping does)and quiet honestly if there was a night of no singles allowed male or female that would be a good night for us,"

Ah the typical response from the born again couple who think swinging is all about them.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

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By *ittle big hornsMan
over a year ago

nerja

I would like to try a singles right at a club. Where there are single Women and couples who specifically like to play with single guys.

You can sometimes feel like you are in the way almost.

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

I'm looking to go to a club for the first time. I'm looking for a quieter event, maybe daytime, so there's more chance to chat and meet people. I'm not expecting to play so somewhere with a sauna/jacuzzi to enjoy while I'm there. Any recommendations?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I have social anxiety issues with large groups so I don't go to clubs, I realise I'm probably missing out - lockdown has made it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get the chance to meet sexy girls like you !!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Clubs that are Friendly and sociable ...I also tend to steer clear of clubs with a massive price differential between single guys and couples...I think just results in desperate weirdos rather than vetted members.. who go regularly and enjoy the social banter

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"When I was a single male I had little to no interest in going to clubs,(shagging about doesn’t make you a swinger, partner swapping does)and quiet honestly if there was a night of no singles allowed male or female that would be a good night for us,"

Wow ! You really believe Swinging is just wife swapping? So single guys or single ladies can't be a part of the Swinging community. I think you have a very old fashioned view if things. Why not plant some pampass grass in the front lawn and get a bowl ready for the keys, and let the rest of us have fun in the clubs

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"When I was a single male I had little to no interest in going to clubs,(shagging about doesn’t make you a swinger, partner swapping does)and quiet honestly if there was a night of no singles allowed male or female that would be a good night for us,"

Not a dictionary definition of swinging but whatever floats your boat

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

Any event where it’s obvious that the organisers (and hopefully other attendees) actually want single guys to attend. Gets me interested on every (rare) occasion I see it.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It sounds lazy and obvious but I think a lot of single guys don't like the aspect of jumping through hoops, making the first moves and putting the effort in (totally understandable). I think many guys would be attracted to a night where single ladies and couples were encouraged and empowered to make the first moves and be more sexually aggressive (I'm sure there's a better way to word this) when hunting men. I don't know exactly how you'd orchestrate such a party/night or if you'd attracted enough singles ladies and couples to such a party. I guess it's success would be a lot based on how well you've advertised to the right people and the format, framework and rules you've put in place to create an environment where only single ladies and couples take the lead.

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

As a single guy going to clubs the theme of the night does not make a difference,

I like to go for the social aspect and meet more like minded people, have a chat, play some pool (if there is a pool table) and make connections that way.

If there is a spark then will see where that leads to.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner……."

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs."

You make it sound like lots of single ladies go to clubs lol! That’s certainly not been my experience, otherwise I would probably be more keen to visit clubs more often…….

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

In a nutshell; single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs."

This is me! I never go to club nights where single guys aren’t allowed! I have no interest in couples or married men so I’d love to see a singles only night

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By *hipsncuffsMan
over a year ago

rugby

Erm you I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs.

This is me! I never go to club nights where single guys aren’t allowed! I have no interest in couples or married men so I’d love to see a singles only night "

Where are these clubs that welcome single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs.

This is me! I never go to club nights where single guys aren’t allowed! I have no interest in couples or married men so I’d love to see a singles only night

Where are these clubs that welcome single men."

Most clubs have nights where single guys are welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs.

This is me! I never go to club nights where single guys aren’t allowed! I have no interest in couples or married men so I’d love to see a singles only night

Where are these clubs that welcome single men.

Most clubs have nights where single guys are welcome! "

I rang one up a while ago, and it would of cost me 60 quid to sign up, pay for entry and rent a locker, so I thought no.

are all clubs so expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs.

This is me! I never go to club nights where single guys aren’t allowed! I have no interest in couples or married men so I’d love to see a singles only night

Where are these clubs that welcome single men.

Most clubs have nights where single guys are welcome!

I rang one up a while ago, and it would of cost me 60 quid to sign up, pay for entry and rent a locker, so I thought no.

are all clubs so expensive."

Yep that’s about standard! Some will be a little bit cheaper but not by much!

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner…….

In our experience a lot of the single ladies we've met and know go to clubs far more to find single men than they do couples (which is very logical when you think about). That's why many single ladies shun couples and single ladies nights because they want their fill of uncomplicated unattached guys and not feel like the third wheel around all the couples. And in our experience from the clubs we've been to certain clubs definitely seem to attract more regular single ladies than other clubs.

This is me! I never go to club nights where single guys aren’t allowed! I have no interest in couples or married men so I’d love to see a singles only night

Where are these clubs that welcome single men.

Most clubs have nights where single guys are welcome!

I rang one up a while ago, and it would of cost me 60 quid to sign up, pay for entry and rent a locker, so I thought no.

are all clubs so expensive."

Not all clubs are expensive,

Costs me on average £40 a night with locker at club play blackpool.

Hotel prices vary unless you don't drink and just drive home afterwards.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

Price and membership requirements…

When the Mr went by himself this was the biggest stumbling block, why pay £50 for a year’s membership when you don’t know if your going to like the place then another £50 on top of that - £100 before drinks, transport, accommodation etc is a big ask.

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By *urves and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I (Curves) have hosted a couple of singles only nights back in the day and they went down a storm. I think some clubs have started doing them, definitely sounds like there's a demand for it x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"It sounds lazy and obvious but I think a lot of single guys don't like the aspect of jumping through hoops, making the first moves and putting the effort in (totally understandable). I think many guys would be attracted to a night where single ladies and couples were encouraged and empowered to make the first moves and be more sexually aggressive (I'm sure there's a better way to word this) when hunting men. I don't know exactly how you'd orchestrate such a party/night or if you'd attracted enough singles ladies and couples to such a party. I guess it's success would be a lot based on how well you've advertised to the right people and the format, framework and rules you've put in place to create an environment where only single ladies and couples take the lead."

That is a common and largely mistaken perspective... Most guys in clubs realise it's they who have to put in the effort... Rarely will couples or single ladies make the first move to say hello etc...i have arranged to meet couples in clubs , swopped face pics etc and then on the night tried to find them..(it's difficult to remember what peoples faces look like ). We've chatted the day after and I've said I tried to find you ... And they reply...we were there .. Hoping you would say hello....

This has happened a few times...maybe I scared them in real life ( but I doubt it) , it's just that they simply are so unused to making the first move I think...

H aka Casanova

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"It sounds lazy and obvious but I think a lot of single guys don't like the aspect of jumping through hoops, making the first moves and putting the effort in (totally understandable). I think many guys would be attracted to a night where single ladies and couples were encouraged and empowered to make the first moves and be more sexually aggressive (I'm sure there's a better way to word this) when hunting men. I don't know exactly how you'd orchestrate such a party/night or if you'd attracted enough singles ladies and couples to such a party. I guess it's success would be a lot based on how well you've advertised to the right people and the format, framework and rules you've put in place to create an environment where only single ladies and couples take the lead.

That is a common and largely mistaken perspective... Most guys in clubs realise it's they who have to put in the effort... Rarely will couples or single ladies make the first move to say hello etc...i have arranged to meet couples in clubs , swopped face pics etc and then on the night tried to find them..(it's difficult to remember what peoples faces look like ). We've chatted the day after and I've said I tried to find you ... And they reply...we were there .. Hoping you would say hello....

This has happened a few times...maybe I scared them in real life ( but I doubt it) , it's just that they simply are so unused to making the first move I think...

H aka Casanova "

And I think your idea is great by the way

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

When younger and first on site did not think about clubs, since the lockdown and my age been a few times, as the local one to me is Newport as it is chameleon 2 it's 45 pounds for me to go Saturday its greenhouse and its a gay and bi nigth st8 go if bi and gay friendly and it's 17 pounds and I found lot of people who go on Friday go Saturday to and both nights are very good and they are a friendly group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction for me would be a club with girls that are open, not in there little click so to speak. Also entrance charges, always seem to be doubled for a single guy ?

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD


"Attraction for me would be a club with girls that are open, not in there little click so to speak. Also entrance charges, always seem to be doubled for a single guy ? "

Yes that true it this courty and a board, I find my local club on a Saturday its a gay and bi nigth and if you bi and gay friendly it's OK, lots of couples and singles ladly and it's 17 pounds each person when Friday night 45 male 25 couples free for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

Price and membership requirements…

When the Mr went by himself this was the biggest stumbling block, why pay £50 for a year’s membership when you don’t know if your going to like the place then another £50 on top of that - £100 before drinks, transport, accommodation etc is a big ask. "

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (Curves) have hosted a couple of singles only nights back in the day and they went down a storm. I think some clubs have started doing them, definitely sounds like there's a demand for it x"

sounds good

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By *redy81Man
over a year ago

London


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV"

The two most important things for me when I try to choose a party:

1. the number of single men should be limited. The lower the better.

2. I prefer those clubs where more girls (single or part of a couple) attract me sexually, or shall I say "match my preferences". Different clubs attract different demographics, (which is great, as it offers a chance to everyone to find their party) so the crowd is somehow predictable. That's cool when there is a mix of people of all ages and shapes, but there are some clear trends in each club about their clientele. And these trends seem to be changing from time to time even within the same club so it's useful to keep an eye on the reviews here.

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By *herry-blossom OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

Oh I know, as a SF I know we are in short supply. But I go when I can!!!

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner……."

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"GUYS, what draws your attention to attend a club night? Other than the obvious, we all want to have fun and be involved. But what makes you choose a specific night over others?

Interested from a SF POV

Oh I know, as a SF I know we are in short supply. But I go when I can!!!

One thing I’ve noticed about the club scene is; there tends to be more single ladies comment in the forums about clubs, than I’ve actually seen in clubs. Do any clubs run singles-only events? Do any clubs have specific events which attract single ladies? Whenever I’ve played in clubs, it’s only ever been with couples, whether I was by myself as a single male, or with a play partner……."

If there were more single females in clubs, I would go more often. There’s nothing worse than being a single guy in a club full of nobody interested in single guys

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