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By *ustfulness OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

We would love to hear people’s thoughts on the pros and cons of the best way to join the scene, for a first time swing couple?

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I think a club would be a good place to start. You'll be able to meet a lot of different people, no one will have a problem if you decide you just want to sit back and observe, and many clubs have regular nights where they only allow couples and single women.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

I guess it depends what you want out of the experience.

We went to a club with the expectation to just enjoy the experience and play together, but ended up with a guy joining us… so set your boundaries and agree what you want out of it … we agreed to be flexible and go with the flow and that’s exactly what happened.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were really nervous about clubs when we first got started so went for private meets.

With hindsight we realise this was a huge mistake and clubs were a much healthier environment to meet people and find out more about the scene, the reason being we find there's a lot less expectation in clubs to take part than with a private meet when people can be quite pushy and manipulative!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"We were really nervous about clubs when we first got started so went for private meets.

With hindsight we realise this was a huge mistake and clubs were a much healthier environment to meet people and find out more about the scene, the reason being we find there's a lot less expectation in clubs to take part than with a private meet when people can be quite pushy and manipulative! "

Ain’t that the truth.

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By *havenpussycatsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Club

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We prefer clubs, as there's no pressure to play.

With a pre arranged private meet, there's usually an expectation at least, and if one of you is not attracted to the other(s) it can be awkward.

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