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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this is the scene. We’re sat in the AbFabs cinema. I suppose this could apply to others clubs also so let’s say it’s the cinema at any swinging club.

We might be having a play. I may be fingering Ruth . She may be wanking or sucking me off. Another couple come in and sit on the sofa next to ours . Most of the other sofas are free but they have chosen to plant themselves there. Without trying to make it to obvious we try to see if they are looking our way or what they are doing . They might be glancing over at us or have taken it a little further and also getting a bit frisky. Now comes our dilemma . So many times we want to engage with them because we feel they may be interested because of the way they have positioned themselves. But nearly every time we won’t because we’re just not sure . I’d love to know what other couples think or what they would do. Would you guess that other couple is interested in engaging or are we reading too much into this and overthinking it ????

We feel we maybe passing up opportunities and being a tad naive.

All feedback appreciated.

Love and peace x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We would make sure they had a good view, add in plenty of eye contact and judge the interest from there. If all appear interested then we take it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may have been newbies or nervous. Im sure if you had chatted with them It would have put them and yourselves at ease . Nothing ventured ,nothing gained

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY


"So this is the scene. We’re sat in the AbFabs cinema. I suppose this could apply to others clubs also so let’s say it’s the cinema at any swinging club.

We might be having a play. I may be fingering Ruth . She may be wanking or sucking me off. Another couple come in and sit on the sofa next to ours . Most of the other sofas are free but they have chosen to plant themselves there. Without trying to make it to obvious we try to see if they are looking our way or what they are doing . They might be glancing over at us or have taken it a little further and also getting a bit frisky. Now comes our dilemma . So many times we want to engage with them because we feel they may be interested because of the way they have positioned themselves. But nearly every time we won’t because we’re just not sure . I’d love to know what other couples think or what they would do. Would you guess that other couple is interested in engaging or are we reading too much into this and overthinking it ????

We feel we maybe passing up opportunities and being a tad naive.

All feedback appreciated.

Love and peace x

"

They`ve come and sat next to you when there are plenty of other free sofas. Doesn`t necessarily mean they want to play with you. They may just be voyeurs or exhibitionists. However, under similar circumstances, we usually tend to think that they might be interested, and after a while just ask them if they`d like to join you. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don`t. What`s the worst that can happen. We do completely understand though that as relative Newbies , you may be reticent about making the first move.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"So this is the scene. We’re sat in the AbFabs cinema. I suppose this could apply to others clubs also so let’s say it’s the cinema at any swinging club.

We might be having a play. I may be fingering Ruth . She may be wanking or sucking me off. Another couple come in and sit on the sofa next to ours . Most of the other sofas are free but they have chosen to plant themselves there. Without trying to make it to obvious we try to see if they are looking our way or what they are doing . They might be glancing over at us or have taken it a little further and also getting a bit frisky. Now comes our dilemma . So many times we want to engage with them because we feel they may be interested because of the way they have positioned themselves. But nearly every time we won’t because we’re just not sure . I’d love to know what other couples think or what they would do. Would you guess that other couple is interested in engaging or are we reading too much into this and overthinking it ????

We feel we maybe passing up opportunities and being a tad naive.

All feedback appreciated.

Love and peace x

They`ve come and sat next to you when there are plenty of other free sofas. Doesn`t necessarily mean they want to play with you. They may just be voyeurs or exhibitionists. However, under similar circumstances, we usually tend to think that they might be interested, and after a while just ask them if they`d like to join you. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don`t. What`s the worst that can happen. We do completely understand though that as relative Newbies , you may be reticent about making the first move."

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

If it was me (mrs) I would just turn and say “your welcome to join us if u would like to” then turn back to what u are doing, then gives them a chance to discuss and decide between themselves if they want to or not or if they prefer just to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was me (mrs) I would just turn and say “your welcome to join us if u would like to” then turn back to what u are doing, then gives them a chance to discuss and decide between themselves if they want to or not or if they prefer just to watch. "

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By *rwildCouple
over a year ago

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"If it was me (mrs) I would just turn and say “your welcome to join us if u would like to” then turn back to what u are doing, then gives them a chance to discuss and decide between themselves if they want to or not or if they prefer just to watch. "
that's what we do it works for us ...same for saying no if not interested that way no misunderstanding

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