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Xtasia first time going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone, it's our first time going to xtasia on Saturday, might not be everyone's cup of tea and I know clubs do social meets to get to know people but as we're very new to this scene we thought, why not go and use the night as a way to socialise and get a better understanding of what we both want and meet other couples and also never say never we might play.

Just wondering if anyone else is going and if anyone can give more of an insite of what to expect on a couples and single ladies night more than the website offers, for example are people going to be annoyed at what we want to do that night or is it really chilled out etc, as we're both quite nervous and really excited we just want to know as much as possible.

All the best, S and B.

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge

It is really chilled out and fantastically welcomeing for newbies dipping their toes in the lifestyle water.

NO ONE will pressure you to do anything and because it has a strong nightclub vibe no one will know if you have played with anyone else or are just sucking in the atmosphere.

Everyone remembers their own "first night nerves" and will be understanding and supportive.

Hope you enjoy your first experience.

BTW, you have chosen the best club in the uk as your starter so you are on the right track.

Best regards

Michael

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia was our first ever club visit amd as it turned out our first ever play experience too . Everyone was massively welcoming, chilled out and just generally nice

Take the tour, it's worth it. At no point did we feel pressured in anyway at all, it's a really nice night out with a bit of excitiment thrown in if you want.

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By *indictiveMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

We are going.

We have been once a long time ago so its like going for the first time, we are the same as you, really nervous but super excited!

We really enjoyed and everyone was super friendly, we have had lots and lots of recommendations for Xtasia! Cant wait!

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By *reedom78555Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We made 30? Visits to various clubs and never involved anyone else, of the 000’s of people that watched us only 1 guy objected and was removed by the staff.

Agree your limits as a couple and stick to them.

It’s best to cuddle up in bed afterwards wishing you had done more than regret doing too much. You can always go again another day…..

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

This club is brilliant just relax and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the messages guys, you've all really settled our nerves and we hope to see some of you there on Saturday!

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