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To go or not to go back to the attic

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By *weetfeet_and_clothears OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Hi

Pre covid we were regular at the attic. Especially party nights.

We are pondering going back but.. I have put on a kilo so am a bit nervous and self conscious (never used to be). I've also turned 50.

Also we're so nervous about covid..

Has anyone else felt the same? If so did you go back? How did you find it?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've been back a few times and will be back again soon.

There have been some room changes, but the overall feel is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite an open club so not confined.

I'm hoping for a revisit soon as its a bloody good club with very nice people

That good I travel up from south wales !

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Our favourite club, as soon as we get a free weekend we are going back

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Tbh I have put on weight since covid it’s just what it is..::

I am still have been going to clubs

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Hi

Pre covid we were regular at the attic. Especially party nights.

We are pondering going back but.. I have put on a kilo so am a bit nervous and self conscious (never used to be). I've also turned 50.

Also we're so nervous about covid..

Has anyone else felt the same? If so did you go back? How did you find it? "

Well with this kind of thing just do what your comfortable with. I think most of us have gotten a bit older and put on abit of weight on over the lockdown so I wouldn’t worry about that at all. I must admit when first started going back to clubs I was hyper paranoid but I’ve now settled down to being like normal again.

It’s a big club so if your worried you could start by going back on the quieter nights instead of party nights and see how feel.

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By *itGirl and KickAssCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Is the attic busy on Saturday nights that are not special event ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourselves back into the swing of things.

The more you hesitate, the more you'll find excuses not to go.

Dip your toes back in and see how you feel after

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By *imnher123452000Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

A kilo? ..that's 2.2lbs..hardly a worrying weight gain..and 50 is the new 30

We are hoping to go back very soon..our go too club

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East


"Hi

Pre covid we were regular at the attic. Especially party nights.

We are pondering going back but.. I have put on a kilo so am a bit nervous and self conscious (never used to be). I've also turned 50.

Also we're so nervous about covid..

Has anyone else felt the same? If so did you go back? How did you find it? "

I think you look great! Even if you put on 20 kilos you’d still be a stunner. I’m hoping to go on Saturday. Hope you’re there!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

A lot of people have put on weight during lockdown.. so your not alone Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit more weight than before the pandemic - yes, we both felt we had some extra curvy bits we didn't before.

A concern about covid itself at vlubs - yes. Its been drummed into us for 18 months, its natural.

We went through exactly the same mindset before returning to clubs a couple of weeks ago.

Once we got there it was like being home again, everything felt right and we had an amazing time. Now, it feels as though we were never away, and are loving this part of our lives again.

Go for it, and I'm sure you'll have a great night once again xx

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By *weetfeet_and_clothears OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Hi. Thanks everyone for your replies... We're working up to it I think.

You're all lovely humans for replying so warmly and not making me feel daft. X

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By *r-OrangeMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I was regular but not been back yet will be good to see everyone again and don’t worry about a little weight I’m sure the daisy duke shorts will still look amazing

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By *hris loves to pleaseMan
over a year ago

Camberley / Derby

So I’m inking if going for the first time to an evening event but unsure what it’s like for a single male as I don’t know anyone. Is it a friendly environment and single men welcome?

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By *iceGuyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *iceGuyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hi

Pre covid we were regular at the attic. Especially party nights.

We are pondering going back but.. I have put on a kilo so am a bit nervous and self conscious (never used to be). I've also turned 50.

Also we're so nervous about covid..

Has anyone else felt the same? If so did you go back? How did you find it? "

Man ... you definitely need to lose that kilo pmsl

You must be joking hahaha

Was just going through your profile and one kilo makes no difference , im sure you gonna lose it in one night at the club if you are getting “busy” lol

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By *imnher123452000Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By *imnher123452000Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"So I’m inking if going for the first time to an evening event but unsure what it’s like for a single male as I don’t know anyone. Is it a friendly environment and single men welcome?"

Yes ring first to make sure u tell them name and expected time u will turn up

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By *odka Red BallMan
over a year ago

Bideford


"Hi. Thanks everyone for your replies... We're working up to it I think.

You're all lovely humans for replying so warmly and not making me feel daft. X "

Nothing Daft about being a little anxious and self conscious, perfectly natural, I'm the same age and felt just you are feeling. Go and dip your toes again, life's too short xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair a kilo is nothing, just call it the covid curve xx

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