FabSwingers.com forum: First Club meet Help.

By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Good morning all.

We are looking to our first club visit on Friday evening and as complete newbies have a couple of questions that I hope more experienced club goers can help with.

1) do ladies, either single or within a couple, usually arrive in their “party clothes” or wear their church outfit and change into something less appropriate once they are comfortable there?

2) We are a couple where F enjoys being enjoyed by gentlemen but I (M) do not play, other than with my wife. Is there some kind of signal or symbol or something that would show other couples or single ladies that this is the case. We just don’t want to create any awkwardness or misunderstandings.

Any thoughts, advice and ideas would be very welcome.

Many thanks. Keep safe.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

1) Ladies do both. Either is fine.

2) Maybe it would be best not to go in a couples only room ?

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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"1) Ladies do both. Either is fine.

2) Maybe it would be best not to go in a couples only room ? "

Thank you. Didn’t even know clubs had couples only rooms!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you chosen a night where single men are welcome, not couples only ?

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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"Have you chosen a night where single men are welcome, not couples only ?"

Yes. Apparently at Pleasures, Saturday night is Couples only but Friday is singles also. Spoke with the owner who advised, with how we play, friday would be best.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hope you have a great night

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow (for now)

Always get a walk round of the club, especially if it's your 1st time there.

The host(ess) will tell you the do's n don'ts and what rooms are for what and who. There are normally staff about so you can always ask if you forget.

Remember a club night is what you make it, do not feel pressured in any way to do things you feel unsure or uncomfortable with.

No means No, if someone does not respect that - the club staff will deal with them.

And on that note, enjoy your night.

Jane

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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"I hope you have a great night"

Thank you. And loving the white body stocking/pink skirt picture by the way!

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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"Always get a walk round of the club, especially if it's your 1st time there.

The host(ess) will tell you the do's n don'ts and what rooms are for what and who. There are normally staff about so you can always ask if you forget.

Remember a club night is what you make it, do not feel pressured in any way to do things you feel unsure or uncomfortable with.

No means No, if someone does not respect that - the club staff will deal with them.

And on that note, enjoy your night.

Jane

Thanks. Apparently the host always shows guests round which should help but just very conscious of having a flashing neon newbie light on our heads or being considered rude or arrogant. Want to check it out. Play? We will have to see how we feel.

Thanks for the reply though. Keep safe.

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow (for now)

"Always get a walk round of the club, especially if it's your 1st time there.

The host(ess) will tell you the do's n don'ts and what rooms are for what and who. There are normally staff about so you can always ask if you forget.

Remember a club night is what you make it, do not feel pressured in any way to do things you feel unsure or uncomfortable with.

No means No, if someone does not respect that - the club staff will deal with them.

And on that note, enjoy your night.

Jane

Thanks for the reply though. Keep safe. "

We were all noobies at one time.

As you walk to the door your heart will be going 10 to the dozen.

A wee bit later - "why was I so worried".

Enjoy

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Pleasures is a great club for your first one. It was also ours and we were made to feel so welcome, Steve and his team are fantastic. As said above once you have been there a while your wonder why you felt nervous. There are always new people every night.

Have a great time x

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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"Pleasures is a great club for your first one. It was also ours and we were made to feel so welcome, Steve and his team are fantastic. As said above once you have been there a while your wonder why you felt nervous. There are always new people every night.

Have a great time x "

And do you arrive dressed to play, or get changed there?

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Have a great time x

And do you arrive dressed to play, or get changed there? "

Some dress down during the evening, there are lockers if you need them. However you feel comfortable

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By *ubwife4u OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Have a great time x

And do you arrive dressed to play, or get changed there?

Some dress down during the evening, there are lockers if you need them. However you feel comfortable "

Thank you for your help.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Your welcome have a great night, we were there last night and it was a great x

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