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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Has anyone been to the “Ladies for lunch MILF & DILF” events on Thursdays?

Wondered what it’s like. I’d be going as a single woman on my own (which is nerve wracking enough!)

I thought it might be a good way to try out a club as it’s maybe less daunting than an evening, but it’s a long way to go if it’s likely to be dead.

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By *racknellboy1971Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I’m a bit nervous about going to a club alone and was also thinking about this one. Not sure I’m ready for a full on night yet

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Bookmarking

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By *asterMagicMan
over a year ago

Woking

I want to visit Kestrels and have not been to a club before. Is there anything I need to know?

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Be nervious (or excited - however you mind it) and just be present.

The thrill alone stepping through that seedy threshold and holding a spot to relax in a club is sure enough for me.

Hoping to get to Kestrels soon. Just applied last night for membership. x

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole

It would seem very few on here have been. I wonder if that means Thursdays are dead anda waste of time or just that those who go aren’t on the forums on here.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"It would seem very few on here have been. I wonder if that means Thursdays are dead anda waste of time or just that those who go aren’t on the forums on here. "
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I have a vague recollection of reading something about it , and that it was quiet …

I’m keen to try Milf Wednesday at VA

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By *c73Man
over a year ago

LONDON

VA is good abfab is always quiet and same people

I will go to VA

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By *aughtyminx300Woman
over a year ago

london

I have been to both

Kestrals was pretty chilled out, a few couples, a dozen or so single guys and maybe one or two single women

MILF at VA is a much more established event and much busier

In my opinion kestrals is great for a chill out, lovely warm indoor pool and jacuzzis but VA has a more lively vibe and much more play going on.

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"I have been to both

Kestrals was pretty chilled out, a few couples, a dozen or so single guys and maybe one or two single women

MILF at VA is a much more established event and much busier

In my opinion kestrals is great for a chill out, lovely warm indoor pool and jacuzzis but VA has a more lively vibe and much more play going on."

Thanks - appreciate the reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a bit nervous about going to a club alone and was also thinking about this one. Not sure I’m ready for a full on night yet "

Think I'm going to go to the Halloween ball on my own for the crack. Mostly to have a drink dance and perve, mostly.

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

It’s a catch 22 isn’t it? The events won’t get busy if no one goes - but no one will go unless they’re busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a catch 22 isn’t it? The events won’t get busy if no one goes - but no one will go unless they’re busy. "

That is a paradox indeed

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

I've been to a couple of Thursdays and there's been half a dozen or so couples and quite a few single guys.

We need to support these events, as someone has already said its catch 22.

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By *ustylouWoman
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I've been a few times on a thursday, it varies on how busy it can be. However it is a really nice chilled out day. I didnt make it this week but going today instead. Cant keep away from the pool.

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Thanks for the responses everyone. Still not sure if it’s worth it or not but thinking what have I got to lose. It’ll cost me a tenner plus fuel. At the very least I’ll get a free lunch and I might have a great time!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

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By *098bazMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I am going to go this Thursday, to see what its like I hav'nt been during the week so can't really comment until I have tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the responses everyone. Still not sure if it’s worth it or not but thinking what have I got to lose. It’ll cost me a tenner plus fuel. At the very least I’ll get a free lunch and I might have a great time! "

We haven't been on Thursdays so can't say much about it but mondays and wednesdays are good days to go. Regardless of if its busy or not you will enjoy spa facilities pool, jacuzzis etc.

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By *allum29Man
over a year ago

Banbury


"Has anyone been to the “Ladies for lunch MILF & DILF” events on Thursdays?

Wondered what it’s like. I’d be going as a single woman on my own (which is nerve wracking enough!)

I thought it might be a good way to try out a club as it’s maybe less daunting than an evening, but it’s a long way to go if it’s likely to be dead. "

I usually go on a Wednesday and Sunday but have done the odd Thursday. It's always a good place to chill out and socialise, there are the regulars who will always be happy to spend time with people and socialise. I always have a great time.

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By *008billy2008Man
over a year ago

London/Gloucestershire

Hi Carol

Not been to that particular event but have been to Kestrels many times. It’s okay to be nervous as that’s half the fun but you should be confident that you are safe and in control. People are respectful and will not bother you you you ask for that. You will find the single men constantly following you around annoying but that is easily fixed if you find another single to socialise with and be your pal.

If you do decide to go let me know and I will look out for you as I am going to try this session on Thursday and it would be nice to see a friendly face.

I’ll send you a face pic privately.

Hope it goes well.

Xxx

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"Thanks for the responses everyone. Still not sure if it’s worth it or not but thinking what have I got to lose. It’ll cost me a tenner plus fuel. At the very least I’ll get a free lunch and I might have a great time! "

That's the spirit

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole

The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

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By *ice_fun_guyMan
over a year ago

Cranleigh

I'll be there today as a single guy. Feel free to say hi. If you want to drop me a message beforehand then feel free

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts

Went to Kestrels today. Rather nice and relaxing

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Is attending the lunch event today? I’m considering for a future week depending on what I feedback I can gather.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )"

How was it ?

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By *ervent X KissMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Where is VA please? I’ve searched the forum but cannot find its full name nor location!

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"Where is VA please? I’ve searched the forum but cannot find its full name nor location! "

VA is Vanilla Alternative

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

How was it ?"

It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.

Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

How was it ?

It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.

Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like. "

During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

How was it ?

It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.

Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.

During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up."

I think Carol’s point is that most people stayed in their towel in the evening …

Us girls enjoy the opportunity to dress up and admire (perv) others sporting their sexy outfits

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

How was it ?

It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.

Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.

During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up.

I think Carol’s point is that most people stayed in their towel in the evening …

Us girls enjoy the opportunity to dress up and admire (perv) others sporting their sexy outfits "

That was exactly my point - thank you.

At 6 pm Kestrels hands over to Abfabs for the evening party and I assumed when they said that robes would not be permitted after 6pm neither would towels.

I thought it was a shame that most people didn’t make an effort for the evening. I think it would have added to the vibe considerably if they had.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Where is VA please? I’ve searched the forum but cannot find its full name nor location! "

VA is Vanilla Alternative, a swingers club just off A1, between Sandy and Black Cat Roundabout, in Bedfordshire.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I am planning to go to MILF club at VA on 17th of November, with my male FWB, then the next day, make it to Kestrels with him. Can't wait to relax in the pool in Kestrels, it's massive!

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Any ladies planning on going to next weeks Thursday lunch event?

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By *ssexgalWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I go regularly and there Sunday and Monday but tend to just wear towel as come in early to late

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By *estlondonladMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )"

Did you go and how did you find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

How was it ?

It was a lot of fun. Met some really nice people. I was surprised that nobody really dressed up for the evening they mostly stayed in towels which I thought was a shame.

Going again on Sunday to see what that’s like.

During the day it's a spa, so everyone in towels. It's only the evening/night events when people are dressed up.

I think Carol’s point is that most people stayed in their towel in the evening …

Us girls enjoy the opportunity to dress up and admire (perv) others sporting their sexy outfits

That was exactly my point - thank you.

At 6 pm Kestrels hands over to Abfabs for the evening party and I assumed when they said that robes would not be permitted after 6pm neither would towels.

I thought it was a shame that most people didn’t make an effort for the evening. I think it would have added to the vibe considerably if they had. "

Wednesday's is a clothing optional party, so I guess that's why most people stayed in towels. Friday or Saturday nights would be best for dressing up

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By *arol321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Poole


"The general consensus seems to be that Wednesdays are better so I’m going to give it a try today.

A bit nervous, but mostly excited I think. (and the car could do with a run )

Did you go and how did you find it"

Yes I did go and it was fun, so much so that I went again on the Sunday!

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