FabSwingers.com forum: Women - what gets you into a club?

By *urreyVixenStag OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Just curious - what makes you want to attend a club?

Whether that be as a couple or as a single lady.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Love the social side of swinging so being with fun, likeminded people is a great way to spend a few hours.

Club needs to be clean and well run with a requirement for membership. We like dress down and love having fun in a jacuzzi. Plenty of variety in terms of rooms be they private or open

Prefer a good mix of people so we don't attend couples only nights, it's just not our thing.

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By *ickleOurFancyCouple
over a year ago

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We enjoy the whole atmosphere - everyone being able to just be themselves with no judgement.

We like clubs that are clean, friendly staff and a bonus if they have rooms to stay over.

Some are 'bring your own bottle' which makes for a cheaper night out too.

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By *urreyVixenStag OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

I’m finding a lot of men attend clubs but not so many women.

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

We use clubs as we got hacked off with last minute cancellations and no shows. Happy to meet people at clubs, but if people don't show, we can still have a great night out.

We also rather like the weekend away kinda thing, our next weekend in the UK We have 2 nights booked at Pleasures in Kent in mid November. We go out for lunch/dinner, have a look round the local area and 2 naughty nights. What's not to like?

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By *parkybunnyCouple
over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

It also tends to be driven by me (Bunny) as I handle the media, flights and all that kinda thing. I just let him know what we are doing!

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By *urreyVixenStag OP Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

"It also tends to be driven by me (Bunny) as I handle the media, flights and all that kinda thing. I just let him know what we are doing!

Love that! I enjoy clubs - but would be nice to see more women in there also.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I go to a club as a single lady as it means I can meet lots of people in one evening, rather than sifting through loads of messages trying to work out who is genuine.

I love the friendly, fun atmosphere at my local club and once you have been a couple of times, people recognise you and conversations get easier.

There is also the important issue of safety. If I decide to have some fun with someone and things don't go to plan, I know there are people close by who would intervene if I let out a shout. I've never had any problems, but it is reassuring to know help would be at hand .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go to a club as a single lady as it means I can meet lots of people in one evening, rather than sifting through loads of messages trying to work out who is genuine.

I love the friendly, fun atmosphere at my local club and once you have been a couple of times, people recognise you and conversations get easier.

Totally agree with all this

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I attend clubs mostly to catch up with friends, I also enjoy the social nature of the event, making new friends without endless messaging back and forth.

My job involve working most weekends, if it wasn't for that reason I wouldn't consider private meets with "new" people and stick to parties and clubs only .

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I go as I like the no pressure environment and being around people from the lifestyle.

I go to a couple of venues regularly so I know a few people there and feel comfortable having a chat and catching up.

It gives me a chance to relax in the hot tub, if they have those facilities.

I get to meet new people and if the vibe is there can potentially take it to a more private area of the venue.

We are already right there we don't have to try to find times our diaries will match, we can see if there is an attraction, because we are both in the same room and see if there is a connection as we are right there to chat.

So much easier than trying to organise anything online in my opinion.

Plus I just love the whole atmosphere of the venues, including the dance floor and nightclub atmosphere.

I wouldn't dream of going to a nightclub by myself but a lifestyle club absolutely!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

The single men, usually lots of choice & it's easier to chat face to face than via messages

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Fairly new to the scene, I've chosen clubs local to me. So not much experience of what my likes/dislikes are, I just go with the flow really. Find fun in most places, as long as the vibe is right and people are social and polite. Agree that the more recognised you are, the more friendly people tend to be.

Havent had a bad night so far

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