FabSwingers.com forum: First timer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m really wanting to go to a club but real nervous especially as it would be my first time and I’d be on my own. What would I expect for my first time? I also still haven’t met any one of fab unfortunately. Would everyone at the club just be blanking me? I don’t really know what to expect.

Be helpful if someone can explain thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to a social or 2 as well. Good for an ice-breaker! I've recently been to a club or 2 for the first time and found everyone polite and friendly and I was a bag of nerves! (still am) but relax, be yourself and have a laugh.

Don't go with the expectations of having sex and just go with the flow.. Good luck

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"So I’m really wanting to go to a club but real nervous especially as it would be my first time and I’d be on my own. What would I expect for my first time? I also still haven’t met any one of fab unfortunately. Would everyone at the club just be blanking me? I don’t really know what to expect.

Be helpful if someone can explain thanks"

I don't know why you think people would be blanking you?

On arrival tell them you are new and haven't been to a club before and you should be given a tour, as well as a chat about rules. This is your chance to ask questions.

Have a drink and approach people, introduce yourself and have a chat. Talk to as many people as you can...Males, females and couples. Enjoy the social side of being in the club and meeting loads of interesting people. Don't go expecting sex, just enjoy the atmosphere and maybe watching. Anything more is a bonus.

If you sit alone in a corner, staring at the floor, you won't get far, just put some effort in and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey!

We went to our first club last night ! I (female ) was so so super nervous ! I’m an over thinker and I felt sick with nerves !

When we go there we told them we were new and were shown around - I don’t know what I was expecting but I definitely got in my own head because it was fine !!!!! We had a drink and chatted with other people - every one was really friendly , not much different to being in a bar and chatting with others !

We spoke to everyone - including people that we wouldn’t ‘play’ with as we wanted to enjoy the social aspect too!

I needed the initial push to go but I’m so glad that I did !

Good luck

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By *inkandLolaCouple
over a year ago

Basildon

Hey

I would recommend finding a Kik social group, and talking to people in the group and build friendships as you can than go along as a social with the group to the clubs and not have to worry or feel under pressure!

Unless your ultra confident and happy to approach people

Good luck!

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