FabSwingers.com forum: Chams Bi-night

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How busy is it at Chams on a Monday? And what time do people usually start to arrive please

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Was a busy night before the lockdowns, I went a few weeks ago a it was a bit quiet, quite a few going this Monday though, hopefully getting back to normal, poeple arrive through the afternoon into the evening.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

The number of people doesn't determine the quality of the visit. We've been when it's busy and found far less fun that on quieter days. Last Monday we had a brilliant time, got there just after 2 and left around 7. It wasn't packed but there were fun people there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just asking OP, why you're looking to go to a Bi night when you're both straight?

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By *ilthyBIMan
over a year ago

Stoke- Newcastle staffs

Exactly! I have been going Bi nights at Chams for over 20 years I never missed but don't go as much now because to many straight people go and it is not a patch on what it used to be & that's why a lot of people do not go anymore.

8-10 years ago it was Awesome on the BI nights the fun and filth was crazy it was non stop and it was all BI fun.

I have met a lot of BI Freind's from Chams.

I spoke to mark about it few weeks ago he said he will sort it out.

Straight people should not be there they mostly go because they can not get a full membership and most are married they easily stand out.

I do have a full membership and my next visit is Monday 25,th

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just asking OP, why you're looking to go to a Bi night when you're both straight?

That is the most ridiculous question ever and who do you think you are you to ask that?!

Mind your own business!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Exactly! I have been going Bi nights at Chams for over 20 years I never missed but don't go as much now because to many straight people go and it is not a patch on what it used to be & that's why a lot of people do not go anymore.

8-10 years ago it was Awesome on the BI nights the fun and filth was crazy it was non stop and it was all BI fun.

I have met a lot of BI Freind's from Chams.

I spoke to mark about it few weeks ago he said he will sort it out.

Straight people should not be there they mostly go because they can not get a full membership and most are married they easily stand out.

I do have a full membership and my next visit is Monday 25,th"

That is soooo funny! Are you the ‘Bi-Police’…?! Maybe both of us are bisexual or bicurious and chose not to put it on our profile? Or maybe just one of us is? Or maybe we would just like to explore a bit? But none of that has ANYTHING to do with you!

Stop being so nosy and petty and mind your own business!!!

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By *carborough_funCouple
over a year ago

Scarborough

Ooohhh someone has nibbled

Good reply though lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

8-10 years ago it was Awesome on the BI nights the fun and filth was crazy it was non stop and it was all BI fun.

I have met a lot of BI Freind's from Chams.

I spoke to mark about it few weeks ago he said he will sort it out.

Straight people should not be there they mostly go because they can not get a full membership and most are married they easily stand out.

I do have a full membership and my next visit is Monday 25,th"

And did you know, married people can also be Bi?! I think you need to educate yourself a little my friend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooohhh someone has nibbled

Good reply though lol"

thank you! For a supposedly openminded group of people there are some very narrow minded people on here!

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

"Ooohhh someone has nibbled

Good reply though lol

thank you! For a supposedly openminded group of people there are some very narrow minded people on here! "

Please don’t take the comments too personally. If you’re both straight in your profile and want to try a Bi night to explore your curiosity then why the f@ck not!! Isn’t that how most curious people start and what better place than a club with a dedicated Bi night…seems perfect. Go and enjoy yourselves and take your time with it, if it’s for you then change your profile afterwards.

To all the negatives think about your comments, it’s mostly straight single guys that go to Chams on Mondays with zero intention of Bi play! A long time ago there was a huge waiting list for regular memberships on any other day so guys used to get Bi specific memberships to blag their way in. Don’t try telling me otherwise I’ve been there on Bi night plenty of times with my Bi partner and plenty of guys have openly admitted it. Mark identified that problem a long time ago but how do you stop it?? Not like you can set a threshold test to suck cock before entry now is it!!!

Before anyone starts with the single guys abused appreciation society we loved the company of single guy Bi or not on any night, especially Mondays!!

Forums are for advice and fun not negative opinions, that’s for moanbook!

Have a nice Monday everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

8-10 years ago it was Awesome on the BI nights the fun and filth was crazy it was non stop and it was all BI fun.

I have met a lot of BI Freind's from Chams.

I spoke to mark about it few weeks ago he said he will sort it out.

Straight people should not be there they mostly go because they can not get a full membership and most are married they easily stand out.

I do have a full membership and my next visit is Monday 25,th"

Thank you for you kind message that you sent me privately:

“Great attitude you have

You should not be there on a monday

I will show youre profile & comments to Mark & zoe next monday at chams as i will be there .

Another good thing about BI nights they are great people really relaxed and freindly .

You would not belong there”

You being an advocate of the event is reason enough not to attend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The judgement on here is ridiculous! “But you’re listed as straight…” so, who decides what to label ones self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mark identified that problem a long time ago but how do you stop it?? Not like you can set a threshold test to suck cock before entry now is it!!!"

You might have been joking when you said this but it's not a terrible idea. I used to attend and know of a few guys who'd happily take a turn waiting near the door to help others pass the entrance test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just asking OP, why you're looking to go to a Bi night when you're both straight?

That is the most ridiculous question ever and who do you think you are you to ask that?!

Mind your own business!!! "

Great answer, good for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just asking OP, why you're looking to go to a Bi night when you're both straight?

That is the most ridiculous question ever and who do you think you are you to ask that?!

Mind your own business!!!

Great answer, good for you"

Thank you, much appreciated. It appears unless you give yourself ‘a label’ you’re not allowed in!

I am 100% the owners of Chams would agree that exploring and experimenting is exactly what they encourage, whether that relates to sexuality or swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2pm!.Usually a decent afternoon crowd then quietens a bit through "teatime" then ramps up again after 7pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a nice Monday everyone. "

Focus on this bit

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

""Mark identified that problem a long time ago but how do you stop it?? Not like you can set a threshold test to suck cock before entry now is it!!!"

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

I think of myself as straight, but go to bi nights and have fun with couples, both partners, love trannies as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8-10 years ago it was Awesome on the BI nights the fun and filth was crazy it was non stop and it was all BI fun.

I have met a lot of BI Freind's from Chams.

I spoke to mark about it few weeks ago he said he will sort it out.

Straight people should not be there they mostly go because they can not get a full membership and most are married they easily stand out.

I do have a full membership and my next visit is Monday 25,th"

As long as they don't have problem with bisex then what's the issue? You don't expect to have sex with everyone in club. Some people just attend to watch, socialise and make friends and like company of bi people etc. According to your logic bi people should be excluded from straight parties. No one should be judged because of their sexual orientation.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I thought it was bi OR bi-friendly.... eg perhaps an MF couple where one half is straight and the other is bi, but they attend together.

Also, contrary to unfortunately popular belief, participating in sexual acts is not a requirement of attending! I love to watch the kinds of things that happen on bi night. But I've never joined in with strangers on those nights. That doesn't mean I shouldn't be allowed to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind taking a turn on test duty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like the old fashioned, narrow minded people here don’t have much support.

Even on the website it says ‘…bisexual and bi friendly’.

Thank you to everyone that put us at ease!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been on a Monday and had a great time. We love Chameleons and don’t think we’ve ever had a bad night there. Had some good nights at Greenhouse in Luton on their bi night too x

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Near an Aldi

8-10 years ago it was Awesome on the BI nights the fun and filth was crazy it was non stop and it was all BI fun.

I have met a lot of BI Freind's from Chams.

I spoke to mark about it few weeks ago he said he will sort it out.

Straight people should not be there they mostly go because they can not get a full membership and most are married they easily stand out.

I do have a full membership and my next visit is Monday 25,th"

Ooh I say OP..brave words.

I wonder if bi people 'shouldn't be there' on 'straight nights'?

People may be curious OP..they may not wish to declare themselves as such on a public site and that is their right to do so.

Assuming people go due to membership entitlement is somewhat disrespectful too. You don't know their reasons for going and assuming cheaper entry is out of order.

I'm a straight male in our marriage, yet have no issue going to a bi night with my wife as she is bi. Just because I'm there, you shouldn't get upset or assume for any reason I shouldn't be, just because I'm not chomping on dick all day and night!

Never assume fella.

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

Anyway OP how was it?? Bi-tastic or tragic??

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By *ravitysUnionCouple
over a year ago

EXETER

Would love to attend this ourselves sometime for some fun. We've had no issue playing bi at "normal" club night although admittedly male bi is harder to find due to a seemingly unspoken stigma on the matter.

As for the rest of this thread, labels. Blah. Whatever. Respect and courtesy, open mindedness - that's where it's at.

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