FabSwingers.com forum: Chams - is no towel frowned upon ?

By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …

So usually when I’m at the club I’ll towel up at the start of the night but as the night progresses and it gets later I tend to have the towel round my neck instead and “wander free” so you speak ..

I thought this was ok ???

Until I walked past a couple the other night and the male tutted and said to his partner “pfff I thought towels had to stay on?”…. I mean I clearly heard and it really took the wind out of my sail :/

So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??

I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm not aware of a rule around this, and I often go naked/carry towel - it's actually one of the things I love about the place, the freedom to do that!

I suppose the only issue is if you've got a cock, it's probably in poor taste to walk round the general public areas parading your erection about. But if you are flaccid then I don't see why not.

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …

I thought this was ok ???

So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??

I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/"

Plenty do this and it's not frowned on..they don't have to look lol

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"I'm not aware of a rule around this, and I often go naked/carry towel - it's actually one of the things I love about the place, the freedom to do that!

I suppose the only issue is if you've got a cock, it's probably in poor taste to walk round the general public areas parading your erection about. But if you are flaccid then I don't see why not."

Yes exactly it’s the freedom thing I love !!!

Mmmm well mostly flaccid but sometimes hard too

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

Plenty do this and it's not frowned on..they don't have to look lol

Ok good , thankyou !

Lol yes I guess your right they don’t need to look ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nakedness has always been tolerated in our experience, generally later in the night but you regularly see men and woman au natural...

Of course pre-Covid Tuesdays were entirely naturist, now there's no specific night and nudity is fully accepted any time.

We've played in the bar area before and no eyebrows were raised...sorry you had a negative moment, but you really didn't do anything wrong.

PDx

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Nakedness has always been tolerated in our experience, generally later in the night but you regularly see men and woman au natural...

Of course pre-Covid Tuesdays were entirely naturist, now there's no specific night and nudity is fully accepted any time.

We've played in the bar area before and no eyebrows were raised...sorry you had a negative moment, but you really didn't do anything wrong.

PDx"

Thankyou PD…..

I’m actually wondering if it was a noob couple so maybe it caught them off guard ?

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By *ezza80Man
over a year ago

northampton

Always loved a naked Tuesday… shame they are no more, but still Chams and plenty of other places that allow you to walk around with your kit off! Thankfully I’ve never had any bad experience, even if not everyone there particularly wanted to see all of me!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …

I thought this was ok ???

So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??

I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/"

As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another.

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By *ammanMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've always ended up without a towel.. they always end up "missing in action" so to speak.

I'd chalk it up to someone else being a bit of a cock.

Shrug your shoulders and smile.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …

I thought this was ok ???

So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??

I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/

As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another. "

Ha ha brilliant , no I do refrain from naked bar ordering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he was jealous.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

No towel is absolutely fine. I find it strange that in a fabulously relaxed environment like Chams people would frown on nudity. As others have said, slapping your cock on the bar perhaps wouldn't be the thing to do lol

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By *coobydoo123Man
over a year ago

St Albans

I miss nude night at Chams so much. Great memories and such a feeling of liberation with others who like to socialise and play in the buff.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Sounds like he was jealous. "

Ha ha well maybe

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By *oam_ShrimpsCouple
over a year ago

NEC Arden

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As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another. "

Considering some of the things we have done on the actual bar, walking around without a towel on is nothing (and is NOT frowned upon by the club any night of the week) so just let it hang out, hard or soft

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

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As long as you don't slap it across the bar, people do eat there, I'm sure it fine, from one fellow flash walker to another.

Thanks guys !!

I’m going to put it down to a one off and forget about it x

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By *azylivingMan
over a year ago

random location

"I'm not aware of a rule around this, and I often go naked/carry towel - it's actually one of the things I love about the place, the freedom to do that!

I suppose the only issue is if you've got a cock, it's probably in poor taste to walk round the general public areas parading your erection about. But if you are flaccid then I don't see why not.

Yes exactly it’s the freedom thing I love !!!

Mmmm well mostly flaccid but sometimes hard too

If your hard just hang your towel off your cock

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

Don't let it get to you, we have all done some thing we shouldn't have in Chams, whether it be on the bar juccuzzi sauna cinema toilet stairs lol, walking with out a towel is nothing, looks like one guy had a problem with it, bet his wife looked though lol.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Don't let it get to you, we have all done some thing we shouldn't have in Chams, whether it be on the bar juccuzzi sauna cinema toilet stairs lol, walking with out a towel is nothing, looks like one guy had a problem with it, bet his wife looked though lol."

To be fair his wife didn’t seem overly bothered

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

I miss nude nights, shame they don't pick another night for it

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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've seen a fella anally fisting his girlfriend in the bar area so not wearing a towel in there is nothing. The guy was just being a dick and had no right to say what he said.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Forget about those clowns. Naked is 100% fine. We're sometimes naked, we just love to be free and relax. No one has ever said anything to us and if they did the fools would get a piece of our mind.

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

Well thankyou all for your responses !!

I was really questioning my being at the club but seeing as many of you do the same I’ll carry on regardless and just enjoy myself

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By *ELSH-FARMERMan
over a year ago

south Wales

Love being naked, we were all born naked soo inbrace it be free, still think I was born with only my wellies on tho lol

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Love being naked, we were all born naked soo inbrace it be free, still think I was born with only my wellies on tho lol

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club and to be fair I wouldn’t need a towel because the king size duvet I would have wrapped around me would just about cover up the embarrassment that is my body

However, peeking at your pics OP I imagine the gentleman in question was perhaps intimidated by your errrrm sexy torso!!!

Pays to advertise hunny

Get ya rocks out if you wanna and be free xx

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Good when you can be naked in a club everyone I been to never object to me or anyone else walking around nude

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Trust me if there was an issue one of the staff would have a quiet word with you! It's about choice and ignore what anyone thinks let it hang!!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Sounds like they were in the wrong place! We enjoy a bit of naturism so we've picked Chams as our first club to visit because from what we've read being naked seems to be accepted there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any comments like this take the wind out of your sail.. most of the people on chams are like minded a d open minded to see anything and not comment. But the odd one or two can make it challenging being yourself… take no notice should have done the helicopter at him haha!!

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By *andb13Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Strip off and free everything.. its what clubs are about.. people shouldn't judge. They should just not look if its not their thing.

I (mr) have walked around naked and gone for drinks from the bar naked too.. and sometimes with a hard on in tow and never had negative comments said.. in fact totally the opposite on a couple of occasions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not been for ages but I’d often walk free around the place

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

It looks like you have a great body, if you have it, flaunt it.

I am not offended by the naked body. Carry on being you and ignore other peoples opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks like you have a great body, if you have it, flaunt it.

I am not offended by the naked body. Carry on being you and ignore other peoples opinions "

Couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a newbie and up for our first visit tomorrow , I was hoping this would be the kind of environment I could let my little one out without being frowned at

Me and the misses will probably be a little too nervous to start with anyway to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a newbie and up for our first visit tomorrow , I was hoping this would be the kind of environment I could let my little one out without being frowned at

Me and the misses will probably be a little too nervous to start with anyway to be fair. "

Do what you are comfortable with and enjoy

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"It looks like you have a great body, if you have it, flaunt it.

I am not offended by the naked body. Carry on being you and ignore other peoples opinions "

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are offended by nudity, chams really isn't the right place for them to be visiting

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Knock yourself out OP and walk around as you please, the one thing Chams has shown me is that we're all different shapes and sizes and all of it is absolutely fine within Chams walls.

P.s. the same goes for you ladies too, walk around naked as much as you like

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By *rgasmicFunCouple
over a year ago

Gwent

I bet he gorps at the ladies when the walk about for all to see so y shouldn't u, so u go and get your cock out for all to see, lol

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By *akedsunloversCouple
over a year ago

midlands

he does actually

we've seen it

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"he does actually

we've seen it "

Who does what?

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"I bet he gorps at the ladies when the walk about for all to see so y shouldn't u, so u go and get your cock out for all to see, lol

Ha ha yes good point , why not

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

"Knock yourself out OP and walk around as you please, the one thing Chams has shown me is that we're all different shapes and sizes and all of it is absolutely fine within Chams walls.

P.s. the same goes for you ladies too, walk around naked as much as you like

Yeah this is true , I’ll admit this one instance is the only time I’ve been made to feel awkward , so thankfully it’s not the norm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke often wanders around in just heels. We both used to love naked day - as others have said it’s a shame it’s not on any more

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Smoke often wanders around in just heels. We both used to love naked day - as others have said it’s a shame it’s not on any more

With that figure i don't blame her! So would I, Except swap the heels for converse and even then ill still trip over air.

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester

"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …

I thought this was ok ???

So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??

I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/"

Quite happily watch you walk around naked.. Will have to let you know next time up going!

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By *hropsGuy69 OP Man
over a year ago

telford

Quite happily watch you walk around naked.. Will have to let you know next time up going!

Ha ha let’s match up diaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I should really ask the staff next time I’m there but thought I’d post here too …

I thought this was ok ???

So am I doing wrong by “flash walking”??

I’d love thoughts / advice as it’s made me kinda paranoid now :/

Quite happily watch you walk around naked.. Will have to let you know next time up going!

Agree - can’t see why anybody would complain

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