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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm a single male and have wanted to go to a club for a while now, I know most clubs try to refrain from single males attending and fully understand that.

Having never been to a club what Is it like ? What is the atmosphere like, and is it a non pushy non judgement place??

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Single guys are always welcome at clubs with the exception of certain evenings that may be couples only or limited single guys only

The atmosphere varies from venue to venue but is usually always very friendly & relaxed with no pressure to do anything you do not want to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems I've been given some wrong information in the past then, been told that single males are nor vastly wanted in clubs.

But from what everyone is saying they are accommodating of everyone..

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Single guys are always welcome at clubs with the exception of certain evenings that may be couples only or limited single guys only

The atmosphere varies from venue to venue but is usually always very friendly & relaxed with no pressure to do anything you do not want to do "

This is just about right.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Clubs are always very friendly & relaxed with no pressure to do anything you do not want to do. You definitely been given the wrong info. Respectful single men are always welcome at clubs. Clubs have limited spaces for men to attend so as not to have a bad ratio of men to couples and single women. Most good clubs let single men book in advance so no one is disappointed and turned away at the door

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Single guys tend to get a bad reputation in clubs as many have a habit of following couples and single ladies around, touching without asking or being invited to touch, so just ding be that guy, be polite, respectful, go to enjoy the atmosphere with no expectations of anything else & if anything happen it's a bonus

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Single guys tend to get a bad reputation in clubs as many have a habit of following couples and single ladies around, touching without asking or being invited to touch, so just ding be that guy, be polite, respectful, go to enjoy the atmosphere with no expectations of anything else & if anything happen it's a bonus "

The clubs we've been to if that was to happen the single men get thrown out and barred. Unfortunately this does happen at some clubs, not a nice look following couples and woman around. Advice OP is to chat with people and don't worry if they say you are not what they are looking for, it may seem like rejection but it's being polite that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single guys tend to get a bad reputation in clubs as many have a habit of following couples and single ladies around, touching without asking or being invited to touch, so just ding be that guy, be polite, respectful, go to enjoy the atmosphere with no expectations of anything else & if anything happen it's a bonus

The clubs we've been to if that was to happen the single men get thrown out and barred. Unfortunately this does happen at some clubs, not a nice look following couples and woman around. Advice OP is to chat with people and don't worry if they say you are not what they are looking for, it may seem like rejection but it's being polite that matters. "

I'm use to rejection so that wouldn't bother me haha.

Like I've said before I just don't know how people could go to these places and not show respect and don't be a creep...

Surely that just being a nice person and how everyone should act anyway...

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Single men are part of what makes the club scene. Many single ladies and couples go to clubs because they seek good single men. Unfortunately the negativity is a result of a few bad eggs. Respectful, pleasant, social singles guys are very welcome.

As a former single guy on the club scene the main thing I can say is be yourself and learn how to read the vibes in a room. Be respectful, be sociable and introduce yourself to people providing the vibe/situation is applicable. Build a good reputation. We can't be everyone's cup of tea but still be a good egg to everyone. Even if those people don't want to have sex with you they may point you in the right direction/introduce you to freinds and others who may fancy you will see how you treat other people. Also don't follow the wanking dead or seek comfort and security in their ranks. It'll do little to get results. Be your on man and be brave enough to socialise.

(Mr)

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