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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all.

Myself and Hubby have been talking about going to our first club night for ages and really like the look of VA.

Thinking about treating him for his birthday first week of November.

we're wondering how busy the Wednesday nights get and if there will be plenty of single guys there for us?

or are we better off going on a Saturday?

Be nice if there was a lot going on so we can sit back and watch until we feel ready to get involved.

also wondering if it's unusual to see a guy wearing a cage? and what's the dress code like?

sorry for all the questions

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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As far as I'm aware it isn't open Wednesday night, it is however open Wednesday daytime from 11am till 5 p.m.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ah I see. is that just the Lux lounge or the whole club? gonna be far to cold in November for outdoors I guess.

If it's still likely to be decent numbers on a Wednesday afternoon early nov that actually may work well for us.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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The outside bit is closed now till next year, but the inside is lovely with a hot tub and lush decor.

It's always very friendly and fun, I go whenever I can on a Wednesday.

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By *adie Slut and CharlieCouple
over a year ago

Bucks

Saturdays are great and a bit less of a sausage fest. Not that there’s anything wrong with a sausage fest..

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I went for first time gew weeks ago , is a lovely place . I went to a few clubs already but VA definitely is very diferent from all i went because the open rooms . I can't wait to back again!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I went for first time few weeks ago , is a lovely place . I went to a few clubs already but VA definitely is very diferent from all i went because the open rooms . I can't wait to back again!"

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I went for first time gew weeks ago , is a lovely place . I went to a few clubs already but VA definitely is very diferent from all i went because the open rooms . I can't wait to back again!"

You must let us know when you're next going.....it's less than an hour down the A1 from us and we've not managed to get together yet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The outside bit is closed now till next year, but the inside is lovely with a hot tub and lush decor.

It's always very friendly and fun, I go whenever I can on a Wednesday."

Found the virtual tour on the website. Yes the hot tub certainly looks lush!

I imagine we would end up spending a lot of time in there and the play needs next to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Not that there’s anything wrong with a sausage fest.."

indeed

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

We went for the first time a month ago, great club and facilities also very friendly. We accidentally booked on the team player event, so we was very nervous but what a great night , we are going back on the 23rd of this month. Now that is busy if you want a sausage fest and very respectful.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Went a few times, love Lux Lounge (nudist venue on the grounds of VA, currently closed until next summer) but can't really get on with the club itself. Despite being a nudist and a little bit of exhibitionist, I do like to have an option of having sex in a lockable room, with nobody disturbing me by either coming really close or even trying to touch without being invited first. This option is not available at VA, as all their play areas (as far as I'm aware) are open. There is one bed with a curtain around it that can be drawn for privacy- good idea as long as it is respected by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first club visit together was VA for Milf Club Wednesday and it was wonderful. A great venue, relaxed and professional with great staff.

Dress code can be anything from smart clothes to walking around in a towel or nude - to bed fair after being in the hot tub it is mostly nude. I am certain a cage will not be a problem and I have no doubt you will have fun.

We are hoping to get a return trip to VA soon.

Mr HH

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I went for first time gew weeks ago , is a lovely place . I went to a few clubs already but VA definitely is very diferent from all i went because the open rooms . I can't wait to back again!

You must let us know when you're next going.....it's less than an hour down the A1 from us and we've not managed to get together yet!"

I know!... i defenitly wil be going to VA again very soon , i will let you both know when

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We went for the first time a month ago, great club and facilities also very friendly. We accidentally booked on the team player event, so we was very nervous but what a great night , we are going back on the 23rd of this month. Now that is busy if you want a sausage fest and very respectful. "

We've been looking at the website and think the team players night is most suited for us.

Dates for it in movement dont seem to be posted yet but guessing it's the same week as in October?

thanks for all the replies everyone.

excited and nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to visit VA! Can you please message the details? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ooo just seen the _ink flamingos nights!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We absolutely love the VA, the hot tub is super warm and amazing. Sat nights is more couples and single ladies. We’ve had some awesome times theres. We are booked in for the pure purgatory party for Halloween. It’s going to be fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The club looks absolutely amazingly decorated and the hot tub/ playroom area is very very sexy!!

We've applied for membership and have settled on a Friday early November.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are newbies and are hoping to go 15th October, it's nice to see all the positive comments about it!

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By *ink flamingoWoman
over a year ago

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"We are newbies and are hoping to go 15th October, it's nice to see all the positive comments about it! "

See you there xx

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