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"Want to book but but never been before. Single bi guys get much attention?" One of the best party night. I have been going for years and always had lots of fun  | |||
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"Hey lovely people. Who's going to VA Bi Night Friday 24th? Curvy Cougar needs entertaining " After I release you from my sexy ropes?   | |||
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"Want to book but but never been before. Single bi guys get much attention?" You will have loads of fun, I love these nights but still not sure if I can make it next (next) Friday x | |||
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"Brilliant, Well hopefully we're bump into eachother " Hopefully more than just bump | |||
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"Well don't think I'll miss your sexy figure" Thank you … I’m genuinely flattered if that was aimed at me?? Xx | |||
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"I’ve seen the guest list, wow it’s looking like a fun one " | |||
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"I’ve seen the guest list, wow it’s looking like a fun one "Looking forward to a great night | |||
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"I’ve seen the guest list, wow it’s looking like a fun one "Didn't realise there is a list Please add me and Sharer42 | |||
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"Guest list is looking mighty hot!! Can’t wait xx" Looking forward to coming to one of my favourite places | |||
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"After attending the male only party at the weekend and thoroughly enjoying it then this is something we would both be interested in visiting together. However we struggle to both get time away together unless it’s a Saturday or Sunday. We may see if one of us can pop down though. " Ah you’d love it, one of our most popular events xx | |||
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"After attending the male only party at the weekend and thoroughly enjoying it then this is something we would both be interested in visiting together. However we struggle to both get time away together unless it’s a Saturday or Sunday. We may see if one of us can pop down though. Ah you’d love it, one of our most popular events xx" I think we spoke briefly at the weekend I was wearing the flashing harness on the Friday night | |||
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"I’ve seen the guest list, wow it’s looking like a fun one "I've lost my original freedom day bi night qr code email I've messaged tattooed talent Looking forward to Friday | |||
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"2 more sleeps whoop whoop "Indeed! Getting closer! Does any one know if the st Andrews cross and the glory holes have been found a new home yet? When I was last there what was the couples area was still a bit of a work in progress! | |||
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"We’re thinking about it. Never been before. Nor to a club. Tad nervous! " Grab it by the balls and go for it! It's such a great club, a nice sexy bar that happens to have some amazing fun rooms attached! It is such a friendly crowd too, I am sure you guys would fit right in, and even if you only make it as far as the bar I am sure you will still have a great night. But if you do venture Futher a whole new world of fun awaits! X | |||
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"We’re thinking about it. Never been before. Nor to a club. Tad nervous! Grab it by the balls and go for it! It's such a great club, a nice sexy bar that happens to have some amazing fun rooms attached! It is such a friendly crowd too, I am sure you guys would fit right in, and even if you only make it as far as the bar I am sure you will still have a great night. But if you do venture Futher a whole new world of fun awaits! X " You’ve sold it to me! | |||
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"We’re thinking about it. Never been before. Nor to a club. Tad nervous! Grab it by the balls and go for it! It's such a great club, a nice sexy bar that happens to have some amazing fun rooms attached! It is such a friendly crowd too, I am sure you guys would fit right in, and even if you only make it as far as the bar I am sure you will still have a great night. But if you do venture Futher a whole new world of fun awaits! X You’ve sold it to me! " Amazing! You can book online I think! I am sure you guys will have a blast! (pink / tattooed talent - Lets talk about my commission structure for this one! ) | |||
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"We’re thinking about it. Never been before. Nor to a club. Tad nervous! Grab it by the balls and go for it! It's such a great club, a nice sexy bar that happens to have some amazing fun rooms attached! It is such a friendly crowd too, I am sure you guys would fit right in, and even if you only make it as far as the bar I am sure you will still have a great night. But if you do venture Futher a whole new world of fun awaits! X You’ve sold it to me! Amazing! You can book online I think! I am sure you guys will have a blast! (pink / tattooed talent - Lets talk about my commission structure for this one! ) "Haha  | |||
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"Dont be nervous hun,So friendly and a good laugh as well as lots of naughty fun " Decided we’re definitely going! Excited and nervous | |||
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I’ll be watching all the lovely ladies in Action | |||
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"We are strongly tempted to go to this. Depends how much work takes it out of me today. I have vague memories that you need to register for membership again? We were already ready members pre covid and emailed the website a couple days ago to ask. Not got a reply yet " The party event says you don’t need to be a VA member to attend. We’re going. Don’t care how knackered we are haha. Going to buy the tickets now to make sure I don’t bow out | |||
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"We are strongly tempted to go to this. Depends how much work takes it out of me today. I have vague memories that you need to register for membership again? We were already ready members pre covid and emailed the website a couple days ago to ask. Not got a reply yet " Yes! It would be lovely to see you both! | |||
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"So this is a massive bummer, booked tomorrow off work,VA, and a hotel a week in advance. VA is 3 hours drive away...but I'm on my last bar of petrol and everyone is panic buying petrol and I can't find any to make it there! ??" Feeling rather smug about driving an EV right about now.... | |||
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" Feeling rather smug about driving an EV right about now.... "
I'll give it 30 mins more and check again, better late than never! But if no luck then I guess I'll be relaxing tonight. | |||
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"Hopefully you find some!" Got some! Don't think I'll get there until 11pm though haha! | |||
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"I want to go. Is anyone Essex direction going? Don’t wonna go alone " Why are you going to a bi night if you are straight?? | |||
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"Hopefully you find some! Got some! Don't think I'll get there until 11pm though haha!" And another straight guy? Hmm - are the VA bi nights allowing straight guys now? | |||
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"I’m a third wheel and interested to see how it goes I’ll be watching all the lovely ladies in Action "And another!!! | |||
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"I want to go. Is anyone Essex direction going? Don’t wonna go alone Why are you going to a bi night if you are straight??" Because I have friends going? And I like people of all sexualities? I could see your issue if it was a gay night but seen as I tick the box to half of peoples fancy what is the problem? Would you have an issue with gay people? | |||
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"I want to go. Is anyone Essex direction going? Don’t wonna go alone Why are you going to a bi night if you are straight?? Because I have friends going? And I like people of all sexualities? I could see your issue if it was a gay night but seen as I tick the box to half of peoples fancy what is the problem? Would you have an issue with gay people? " I really don't think single straight people should be going to a Bi night personally. Not in the spirit of things. But if you're polite and respectful I'm sure it'll be fine. | |||
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"Think people need to go and read the actually description of the night before they start making assumptions and judgements " A straight guy at a Bi night is like a straight woman or a man at a lesbian night . It doesn't hurt anyone if there's just one there but if multiple attend it kinda defeats the bloody point. Most events are heteronormative by default so having a Bi night is supposed to be an alternative for people who want Man on Man and Woman on Woman action, or some mix thereof. There's only usually one a month, straight people get all the other events. It's kinda like super vanilla people going to a kink event. Why? I also don't think straight cis people should be at Pride or in Gay bars either though. We've created our own spaces because society is so heteronormative by default. You seem like a nice guy and I don't have anything against you personally, but if loads of straight single guys go to a Bi night it just defeats the point. | |||
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"I want to go. Is anyone Essex direction going? Don’t wonna go alone Why are you going to a bi night if you are straight?? Because I have friends going? And I like people of all sexualities? I could see your issue if it was a gay night but seen as I tick the box to half of peoples fancy what is the problem? Would you have an issue with gay people? " Generally bi nights are tailored for bi males for safe open MM fun. Straight guys on such night don't really work and in our experience upset the dynamics. They aren't nights geared to single straight guys as *generally speaking* females there like bi M play else they wouldn't be there. Having a straight guy joining in really ruins any group fun (unless they are liars and aren't actually straight). We've been in group fun before totally killed by a straight guy thinking the women were fair game and being anti MM fun. Not sure how you tick half the boxes, the female half of us would turn right cold if you were straight on a bi night. Gay guys or girls, no they work as generally bi nights are targeting same sex fun. Maybe it'll work for you and wish you well for tonight, but sounds like the VA bi night is no longer a true bi night judging by this thread - be interesting to hear from friends we know going if the dynamics still work. | |||
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"I want to go. Is anyone Essex direction going? Don’t wonna go alone Why are you going to a bi night if you are straight?? Because I have friends going? And I like people of all sexualities? I could see your issue if it was a gay night but seen as I tick the box to half of peoples fancy what is the problem? Would you have an issue with gay people? Generally bi nights are tailored for bi males for safe open MM fun. Straight guys on such night don't really work and in our experience upset the dynamics. They aren't nights geared to single straight guys as *generally speaking* females there like bi M play else they wouldn't be there. Having a straight guy joining in really ruins any group fun (unless they are liars and aren't actually straight). We've been in group fun before totally killed by a straight guy thinking the women were fair game and being anti MM fun. Not sure how you tick half the boxes, the female half of us would turn right cold if you were straight on a bi night. Gay guys or girls, no they work as generally bi nights are targeting same sex fun. Maybe it'll work for you and wish you well for tonight, but sounds like the VA bi night is no longer a true bi night judging by this thread - be interesting to hear from friends we know going if the dynamics still work." I agree! It seems like FF fun is always fine in the swinging scene but MM is often not looked on kindly. So Bi nights are meant to be a safe space to let men play! and women to enjoy each other without it just being for the straight male gaze.... *snark* I want to see the boys play together and if half or more of the men there are straight it kinda puts the kibosh on that! | |||
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"Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha "Well yes... I mean if it was people you might have met in the hot tub, then it could be anyone's guess, it was very busy in there most of the night! | |||
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"Fun evening! Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha
Well yes... I mean if it was people you might have met in the hot tub, then it could be anyone's guess, it was very busy in there most of the night!"Aha no we avoided the hot tub for that very reason. We were having fun in the couples room. | |||
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"Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha "See you in the couples area , as we headed to the rooms upstairs | |||
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"Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha
See you in the couples area , as we headed to the rooms upstairs "Didn’t know there was a room upstairs didn’t make it that far haha | |||
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"Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha
See you in the couples area , as we headed to the rooms upstairs
Didn’t know there was a room upstairs didn’t make it that far haha "Guest bedrooms for overnight stays or private playing I should have said | |||
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"Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha
See you in the couples area , as we headed to the rooms upstairs
Didn’t know there was a room upstairs didn’t make it that far haha
Guest bedrooms for overnight stays or private playing I should have said "Oh I see! We’re thinking we might book a room next time. But of a pain limiting myself to one glass of wine  | |||
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"Wish we could find out who it was we met! Haha
See you in the couples area , as we headed to the rooms upstairs
Didn’t know there was a room upstairs didn’t make it that far haha
Guest bedrooms for overnight stays or private playing I should have said
Oh I see! We’re thinking we might book a room next time. But of a pain limiting myself to one glass of wine "Be a dare devil and have two today and let the fun continue | |||
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"Great evening Heading back for November's bi night party and making a long weeknd of it "Staying at VA hotel this time | |||
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"We’re doing the Halloween one and also thinking of staying. " Wanted to go for that Bit work says no time off | |||
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"We’re doing the Halloween one and also thinking of staying. Wanted to go for that Bit work says no time off " Ah that’s a shame. Looks like it could be a good laugh | |||
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"We’re doing the Halloween one and also thinking of staying. " I’m not sure if there are rooms left but the travelodge is 5 mins away xx | |||
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