FabSwingers.com forum: Infusion for a first timer

By *inkiecouple OP Couple
over a year ago

solihull

We have listed a meet for 17th September. The Mr has been to clubs before in the past and Miss has never been. She has said that she wants to go and see what it is like and see if it’s something that she’s interested in. How do I calm her nerves that there is no pressure for anything and that nothing or everything can happen depending on how you feel?

Thanks for any advice guys!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have listed a meet for 17th September. The Mr has been to clubs before in the past and Miss has never been. She has said that she wants to go and see what it is like and see if it’s something that she’s interested in. How do I calm her nerves that there is no pressure for anything and that nothing or everything can happen depending on how you feel?

Thanks for any advice guys!"

First club I ever visited with a friend 8 years ago now - I've been loads of times on my own since.

Great place to relax downstairs with no pressure to dress down until you are ready.

Fabulous hosts and apparently a new layout in some areas.

I've yet to go back since reopening, but I'd definitely recommend going for the first time.

By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

It's a good place for nervous newbies to be honest, speak to other couples in the lounge and just socialise while you are there. That will put her more at ease.

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

As above comment. We very often just stay around bar socialising, the visit is what you want it to be