FabSwingers.com forum: How many single guys is to many

By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow

After reading a few club reviews and noticing that a few couples that have raised that there were to many single guys at various clubs

I wondered what people consider too many. For me there should be a decent ratio of about 2 or 3 couples to each single male. Obviously then is issues where say 30 couples have put name down but 10 in club when say 5 men arrive.

I always say that if couples don’t want single guys then don’t go to an event that they are at. I have been at club events when no more than 10 single guys but rammed full of couples. However been at events where 5 couples and maybe 10 single guys if not more

I appreciate it’s not always the clubs fault if there are a lot of single guys. Just wondered what people’s thoughts were

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

I don’t care how many single guys there are as long as they are respectful and don’t follow you around or touch you without permission! As u say going on a single guy night you know there is going to be a fair few single guys compared to couples so we accept there will be lots!

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

"I don’t care how many single guys there are as long as they are respectful and don’t follow you around or touch you without permission! As u say going on a single guy night you know there is going to be a fair few single guys compared to couples so we accept there will be lots! "

Exactly this x

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

We agree with this, too. There could be just a couple of single men in the club but if they are of the creepy variety that doesn't take "no, thank you" for an answer or follow people around, it's not going to be a good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. Respect is the key part. For me, lots of single guys is a good thing as it's more likely I'll find men I'm attracted to, and even better if those I'm attracted to are numerous as well

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of it is down to the vetting too, and making sure that standards are properly kept to.

As long as the guys are respectful and there for the right reasons then the ratios aren't the key issue.

In my experience, you soon find clubs that keep the single guys in check and those are the ones to go for!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I agree with those saying that the numbers aren't the issue.

I actually avoid places with heavily restricted numbers of single guys and normally have issues from halves of couples than single guys x

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

From day 1 I have always made sure my personality and manners are obvious and have always felt welcome in clubs.

I've been lucky enough to make some good friends in clubs and I don't understand why some single guys seem to treat others as walking sex acts or act like horny teens and stalk others from room to room.

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