FabSwingers.com forum: Abfabs Death

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone else seen a news article regarding a death in the swimming pool at Abfabs on Monday??

Such sad news!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Where is the article please ?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Was it this?

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/15894923/man-swimming-pool-secret-sex-party-steamy-bash/

Rachel Dale

18:19, 17 Aug 2021 Updated: 18:19, 17 Aug 2021

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How tragic

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"How tragic"
My condolences go out to those who knew him

Who ever tried to save him deserves to be thanked and offered some sort of counselling, as this tragic shock will affect everybody in different ways.

To think, I was there with my partner and friends on Saturday afternoon.

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By *adylerieWoman
over a year ago

Leatherhead, Surrey

It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.

Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.

Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. "

Tell me about it; if it was a women they would have published her vital statistics, given half a chance.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

So sad. Can happen anywhere though x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

So very sad to read this.

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook

What a terrible tragedy. Condolences are with his family & friends. It happened at Radlett a few years back so tragic

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By *ark320Man
over a year ago

Cork

RIP...very sad

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

Deepest sympathy

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

That's terrible news....rip

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.

Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. "

Hear,hear. Good old sun sinking into the mire as usual? Disgraceful rag

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Such sad news

and traumatic for those who tried to help him. I hope his family and other people who were there get support if they need it.

I wouldn't trust anything that the Sun publish. The fiance of a work colleague died in a car crash and they published an article which which was full of lies. It was heartbreaking for him to have to read that.

Ms x

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

omg how tragic...rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was awful, the guy must’ve had a heart attack or fit. It all happened so quickly and everyone did what they could and worked together to help him.

Trust the Sun to make it look so seedy. "

How did they make it look seedy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

RIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive.."

Because its we known swinging club maybe...

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive.."

For a couple of reasons. Firstly because it’s a club that people from this site frequent and so they might be interested to know and secondly it might be closed now if you wanted to go there.

Yes this is a sex site but we presume you have seen the different posts in the forum. People post about lots of things.

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By *breedyouMan
over a year ago

Bedfont

RIP sad times, makes you think. Life’s for living.

Condolences for his family and friends and my thoughts to the staff and customers who tried to help save him.

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive.."

Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.

(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.

(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)"

As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.

And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.

My thoughts are with this persons family x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s open

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.

(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)

As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.

And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.

My thoughts are with this persons family x "

If I pay an operator to get on their train I expect the operator to have discharged all their responsibilities to keep me safe. If they have then yes, it’s unfortunate and no liability on anyone.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

That is so sad. Imagine having a difficult time splashed in the papers

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By *carlet Rose RedWoman
over a year ago

Woodley

I believe all staff are first aid trained and the local council have given them an operation licence to use the pool.

If I'm right the poor guy had a cardiac arrest. That can happen to anyone at anytime just look at the fit footballer at the euros he was lucky.

Such a sad situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that is so awful I can't imagine how distressing it was. RIP

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Oh that is so awful I can't imagine how distressing it was. RIP "

Particularly with how it was presented in the papers

. RIP

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.

(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)

As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.

And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.

My thoughts are with this persons family x

If I pay an operator to get on their train I expect the operator to have discharged all their responsibilities to keep me safe. If they have then yes, it’s unfortunate and no liability on anyone. "

The club is not liable, as someone who was present at the time and for the respect of the person who tragically lost their life and those who where involved.

I am not going to say anything other than a Thank You to all the staff and guests for coming together and working as a team to help someone in need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he went out happy.

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.

(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)

As an adult I rather be responsible for my own safety rather than place the onus on a venue/another person.

And no the club was not at fault, it was a tragic incident.

My thoughts are with this persons family x

If I pay an operator to get on their train I expect the operator to have discharged all their responsibilities to keep me safe. If they have then yes, it’s unfortunate and no liability on anyone.

The club is not liable, as someone who was present at the time and for the respect of the person who tragically lost their life and those who where involved.

I am not going to say anything other than a Thank You to all the staff and guests for coming together and working as a team to help someone in need. "

Ok, that’s good then.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

Because its we known swinging club maybe..."

I was there, the week before this poor man died.

Abfab is the night time party venue for swingers

Kestrels is the daytime naturist/swinger venue.

This club doesn't have an official listing on this site.

Plenty of forum users would have visited their previous building, over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's been a fair few people die at the posh gym/health club near me over the years (they post memorials on the club facebook page

) - heart attack, stroke, epilepsy etc - but because they have clothes on the Sun doesn't report on that. Nor is it the club's fault. Cardiac arrests and such can strike at any time.

How very sad for the gentleman and for those who witnessed and tried to help.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Condolences to his family. I also hope those who tried to revive have been offered the support needed to come to terms with things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is so sad. Imagine having a difficult time splashed in the papers

Splashed! Poor choice of words there...

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

We were present in the pool when it happened.

It was a tragic accident, the staff and those customers who tried to save his life were heroes.

The club was not at fault in anyway.

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By *urreymojoCouple
over a year ago

Ascot

..didn’t something similar happen in the pool at the old Abfabs?..sympathises to the gentleman’s family and staff at the venue. It must of been harrowing.

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

"..didn’t something similar happen in the pool at the old Abfabs?..sympathises to the gentleman’s family and staff at the venue. It must of been harrowing."

Think that was Radletts

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By *breedyouMan
over a year ago

Bedfont

"..didn’t something similar happen in the pool at the old Abfabs?..sympathises to the gentleman’s family and staff at the venue. It must of been harrowing.

Think that was Radletts"

Yes that was Radletts

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-32114015.amp

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Apologies why is this relevant on a sex site..without being insensitive..

Understanding the reasons will be of interest to get some confidence in the safety of the venue.

(No assumptions here, just need to understand if all reasonable measures were in place and in accordance with their risk assessments. You can never remove all risk)"

True, you can't force club goers to remember to take their medication, such as inhalers, angina tablets or the like.

That is solely down to the individual, not the hosts.

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