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By *ewCoupleHX OP   Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Good Morning All,

So we were happy playing with each other in a club, we chose the biggest room with multiple sofas and beds, left door open.

There were a few watchers who needed a nod to come in which we found very polite.

They also joined in action but with their own partners, now no one will make eye contact or talk, how do you break the ice and ask ...would your Mrs like to play with mine or something similar or do people just get physical without talking.

All advice welcome.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's difficult or sometimes so easy depending on the people and atmosphere. Sometimes it just works in a room so naturally and sometimes not. Normally it's just a case of eye contact, body language and reading people right. You can normally pick up the vibe if people want to join in or not. Eye contact is the big thing or maybe something like shuffling over a bit closer. You just have to test the water and see what is reciprocated or the vibe given back. Of course at a good, convenient and polite time you can always just ask politely. But in our experience you'll just kind of know or not if the vibe is right and that's more of just an extra safe curtesy to ask rather than a way of finding out.

If there isn't anything like eye contact coming back, I say chances are it's just not right. They may not be feeling you, they may just like to do their own thing around others, maybe lost in each other or of course they may be shy. But whatever if nothing is coming back eye contact chances are it's just a no go. Its not unusual to see multiple couples all getting it on in close proximity to each other in a room and totally keeping themselves to themselves. Naturally it's a shame because nothing like a good spontaneous orgy. But the reality is its not always so easy to find that mutual attraction.

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By *ers321Couple
over a year ago

beverley

Following...

Got our first club visit next month, so curious about this. Having said that, I know the wife will likely just ask outright so almost certainly not an issue for us.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Following...

Got our first club visit next month, so curious about this. Having said that, I know the wife will likely just ask outright so almost certainly not an issue for us. "

What do you think she will say ?

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By *ers321Couple
over a year ago

beverley

She's just very open so I imagine something straight up that doesn't rely on understanding subtleties...

"Oh my god, would you mind if I had a go with that?"

"I'd love to join you both if you'd be interested."

Or depending on how turned on she was it might end up a little more coarse and blunt...

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