FabSwingers.com forum: Bi male play on normal couples night?

By *outhbucks OP Couple
over a year ago

Great Missenden

We know there are bi nights that we could go to but we wondered what peoples thoughts/responses would be to open bi male play on a normal couples night at somewhere like The VA?

There is definitely a case of double standards when bi female play is acceptable so why not bi male play?

We have never witnessed any when we have been but are times changing and it is becoming acceptable?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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I have known bi male play in a few venues on nights not aimed at bi men, personally I really enjoy seeing bi male play

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Probably depends who is there at the time.

At a normal night at the old AF (pre scandal days) we got involved in an inpromptu group thing in the corner of the main room (with sofas and net curtains). Maybe 8 of us.

After, some bloke said to me "thanks, thats the first BJ I had from a guy"

My truthful response "wasn't me!"

No one complained and I'm sure some were watching.

That said, we stick to bi nights run by good hosts now as they tend to be more relaxed and the guys genuinely bi rather than only for the last 30 minutes before leaving

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

I’m bi and I’ve had bi fun many times at kestrels / abfabs as well as straight fun. Many times in not ‘designated bi’ days. I haven’t felt concerned or noticed any negativity around me once. I think swingers are in general more liberal and open minded.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"I’m bi and I’ve had bi fun many times at kestrels / abfabs as well as straight fun. Many times in not ‘designated bi’ days. I haven’t felt concerned or noticed any negativity around me once. I think swingers are in general more liberal and open minded. "
As it should be.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've seen and been involved in open bi play at Club Play. No one bat's an eyelid there, it's a very inclusive and non judgmental club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love seeing bi play in any areas of a club.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I love seeing bi play in any areas of a club. "

Club Play are having an all inckusive bi night on 28th August. They are always busy and you'll see bi play all over the club, lots more than usual

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

As long as everyone that's playing is OK with it, I'm not sure what anyone can say, if they don't like watching it, then they shouldn't, but can't see why it should or would be frowned upon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as everyone that's playing is OK with it, I'm not sure what anyone can say, if they don't like watching it, then they shouldn't, but can't see why it should or would be frowned upon?"

Exactly. That's what is so brilliant about the club atmosphere - freedom and acceptance.

As you have said, nobody is forced to watch.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"...There is definitely a case of double standards...

There certainly are... it wasn't long ago I read a thread where people (mainly bi men at a guess) were complaining about straight men attending bi nights...

Seems to me that it should be no less unacceptable to indulge in bi play on "straight" nights as it is to indulge in straight play on bi nights. No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as everyone that's playing is OK with it, I'm not sure what anyone can say, if they don't like watching it, then they shouldn't, but can't see why it should or would be frowned upon?

Exactly. That's what is so brilliant about the club atmosphere - freedom and acceptance.

As you have said, nobody is forced to watch."

I’m straight and not interested in other males, it you can’t attend a swingers club and get offended by two or more guys interacting with each other! If you do your in the wrong place. My only criticism is that I have been grabbed on several occasions, and I quickly - it politely point out I’m straight and it’s not for me. But on one occasion the guy got annoyed that I wasn’t, so a little bit more of a reassuring not for me was given!

But hey III sure it’s the same for others and more so for females, where some males just grab, without asking or talking to them.

I personally couldn’t care less, fill your boots, but be mindful who you try to interact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as everyone that's playing is OK with it, I'm not sure what anyone can say, if they don't like watching it, then they shouldn't, but can't see why it should or would be frowned upon?

Exactly. That's what is so brilliant about the club atmosphere - freedom and acceptance.

As you have said, nobody is forced to watch.

That is completely unacceptable

Nobody has the right to be touching anyone else without permission, let alone grabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen and been involved in open bi play at Club Play. No one bat's an eyelid there, it's a very inclusive and non judgmental club. "

Club Play have a dedicated Bi Play room open on all nights so there's a space people can indulge without worry of judgment. I think having that facility really speaks about the positive culture of acceptance for all sexualities at that club.

Maybe its something more clubs could potentially adopt?

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By *r DiverseMan
over a year ago

Binfield

I used to attend the bi night at Abfabs but did also have some bi play on other evenings there, always remember one particular Wednesday with a couple I used to meet there and while stood in the stable/dungeon area she pushed me down to my knees to suck her partners cock, after a while I became aware of quite a few watching

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By *r DiverseMan
over a year ago

Binfield

On another note, what makes me chuckle on a bi night is single straight, not even curious guys

Surely anyone attending a bi night would be expecting any singles to be bi or at least curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On another note, what makes me chuckle on a bi night is single straight, not even curious guys

Surely anyone attending a bi night would be expecting any singles to be bi or at least curious

I think some clubs just ask that they are bi tolerant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good topic

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By *a KatWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

The Gate House Bolton, is an open minded club, all are welcome, wether you are Bi, Tgirl, Straight ect.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

It’s been a while since we attended a Bi evening at a club due to a little virus.

Anyway. The last couple of times we did visit there was a number of guys who were not Bi.

To us this kind of spoilt the vibe and just became like any other night.

Yes. In a couple situation, it can be the woman who is just Bi.

But on a Bi evening you would at least expect the single guys to be Bi????

These events are once a week or once a month depending on the club. Surely, it’s not too much to ask to ask to respect that the said evening is for those of the Bi ilk??

Just our take on things.

No offence to anyone xx

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Our thoughts are that bi play should be acceptable any day in a club be it between men or women. It's swinging after all and as long as play is consensual then all good.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

"On another note, what makes me chuckle on a bi night is single straight, not even curious guys

Surely anyone attending a bi night would be expecting any singles to be bi or at least curious

I think some clubs just ask that they are bi tolerant."

You made a typo. I think you meant "I think some clubs just ask that they pay entry fee".

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