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By *agicfingers1 OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

Thinking of going to BGHS and would like to hear any advice for a total newbie. Would should I expect? Advice on etiquette? What to take with me? Etc etc

I'll be going as a single male and don't want to make an idiot of myself but would love to meet new people.

Any help would be greatly appreciated, either on here or private message me.

Thanks in advance

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Well firstly, it's not a swingers club. You don't need to take anything with you, you get undressed and walk around with the towel they give you.

The majority of the building is just a naturist spa, just chat and be a normal person, don't be one of the men who walk around permanently looking for a woman to look at.

Not everyone there is a swinger.

The only area for any play is the rest rooms.

Weekends after 6 are couples only.

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By *agicfingers1 OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"Well firstly, it's not a swingers club. You don't need to take anything with you, you get undressed and walk around with the towel they give you.

The majority of the building is just a naturist spa, just chat and be a normal person, don't be one of the men who walk around permanently looking for a woman to look at.

Not everyone there is a swinger.

The only area for any play is the rest rooms.

Weekends after 6 are couples only."

Thank you for replying.

I realise it's a naturist spa and not a swingers club.

Do I need to take toiletries for the showers etc or are they supplied?

Do I need to take money for non alcoholic drinks or are you charged upon exit?

I don't want to be one of those guys that look like they're on the prowl so to speak.

You say about the rest rooms.... so you are allowed to play there in certain areas I assume.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well firstly, it's not a swingers club. You don't need to take anything with you, you get undressed and walk around with the towel they give you.

The majority of the building is just a naturist spa, just chat and be a normal person, don't be one of the men who walk around permanently looking for a woman to look at.

Not everyone there is a swinger.

The only area for any play is the rest rooms.

Weekends after 6 are couples only.

Thank you for replying.

I realise it's a naturist spa and not a swingers club.

Do I need to take toiletries for the showers etc or are they supplied?

Do I need to take money for non alcoholic drinks or are you charged upon exit?

I don't want to be one of those guys that look like they're on the prowl so to speak.

You say about the rest rooms.... so you are allowed to play there in certain areas I assume. "

The above advice is pretty spot on, go as you would a normal spa, it's a great place to be.

Yes, play is permitted in the rest rooms but the environment is very different from a swingers club, the rest rooms are pretty low key and I've only seen couples playing there, but single men may well have been involved at other times.

Have fun x

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"Well firstly, it's not a swingers club. You don't need to take anything with you, you get undressed and walk around with the towel they give you.

The majority of the building is just a naturist spa, just chat and be a normal person, don't be one of the men who walk around permanently looking for a woman to look at.

Not everyone there is a swinger.

The only area for any play is the rest rooms.

Weekends after 6 are couples only.

Thank you for replying.

I realise it's a naturist spa and not a swingers club.

Do I need to take toiletries for the showers etc or are they supplied?

Do I need to take money for non alcoholic drinks or are you charged upon exit?

I don't want to be one of those guys that look like they're on the prowl so to speak.

You say about the rest rooms.... so you are allowed to play there in certain areas I assume. "

You pay for all drinks and food when you leave.

There are some shower gel dispenser but most people take a small wash bag for shampoo etc.

You can do pretty much anything in the rest rooms, the area isn't monitored by the staff.

If your primary reason for going is to swing you're likely to be disappointed, it doesn't always happen. Often the other people there are not looking to swap or just watch or not want men to join etc. Just go intending to have a spa and chat, then anything else is a bonus.

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By *agicfingers1 OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"Well firstly, it's not a swingers club. You don't need to take anything with you, you get undressed and walk around with the towel they give you.

The majority of the building is just a naturist spa, just chat and be a normal person, don't be one of the men who walk around permanently looking for a woman to look at.

Not everyone there is a swinger.

The only area for any play is the rest rooms.

Weekends after 6 are couples only.

Thank you for replying.

I realise it's a naturist spa and not a swingers club.

Do I need to take toiletries for the showers etc or are they supplied?

Do I need to take money for non alcoholic drinks or are you charged upon exit?

I don't want to be one of those guys that look like they're on the prowl so to speak.

You say about the rest rooms.... so you are allowed to play there in certain areas I assume.

The above advice is pretty spot on, go as you would a normal spa, it's a great place to be.

Yes, play is permitted in the rest rooms but the environment is very different from a swingers club, the rest rooms are pretty low key and I've only seen couples playing there, but single men may well have been involved at other times.

Have fun x"

Thanks for the advice

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By *ustyshimmerCouple
over a year ago

Bexhill

Dont do what hubby did last night and spend too long in the hot dip, then faint in the shower cracking his head for a semi concussed drive home. Its been a long time but pleased to report its still excellent.

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By *agicfingers1 OP   Man
over a year ago

near Brighton


"Dont do what hubby did last night and spend too long in the hot dip, then faint in the shower cracking his head for a semi concussed drive home. Its been a long time but pleased to report its still excellent. "

That doesn't sound good

Is he ok now? I'm sure you've nursed him back to good health

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