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By *iggSS OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Why is it so hard to add as a friend then talk? Plus noone will meet you without a veri but then how do you get your first one, ive had 3 or 4 meets not happen all because i havent got a veri

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By *eb77Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Most people will delete random friends requests from people they don’t even know. As in real life would you be friends with someone before you even know them?

Try chatting to someone before sending a request, being friends on here gives you access to someone’s private pics, they’re not going to do that with a stranger otherwise they would be public.

As for veris try going on the cam chatrooms, go to an organised social or try a club, they are all easy ways to get verified and meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you get friend invites, but then they don’t respond or chat afterwards?

If so I have and still experience that too.

It’s a tough old world for a single male here pal.

Just keep your head up high and carry on.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

People tend to put more private photos, face pics in their friends photos

So I always presume a friend request when we haven't spoken or met, especially from profile like yours that doesn't even have a profile pic is someone just sending friend requests to look a people's private pics to have a wank to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People tend to put more private photos, face pics in their friends photos

So I always presume a friend request when we haven't spoken or met, especially from profile like yours that doesn't even have a profile pic is someone just sending friend requests to look a people's private pics to have a wank to "

This

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to add as a friend then talk? Plus noone will meet you without a veri but then how do you get your first one, ive had 3 or 4 meets not happen all because i havent got a veri "

If it was a lack of a veri that was the issue, it suggests you were nowhere near the meet actually happening in any case.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Why is it so hard to add as a friend then talk? Plus noone will meet you without a veri but then how do you get your first one, ive had 3 or 4 meets not happen all because i havent got a veri "

Sending friend requests before actually "talking" to people is the equivalent of walking down the high street asking total strangers to be your friend.

I doubt if anyone would accept a friend request from someone they've never spoken to or met.

Plenty of people will meet unverified members. I doubt that's the reason you're finding it hard to meet anyone.

There are several ways to get a verification. However, they're not the golden ticket to getting more meetings.

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By *iggSS OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Cheers!

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By *iggSS OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Thankyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept a friend request with people I have actually met or we have been chatting well and are looking at arranging a meet. Saves all the photo collectors and time wasters

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By *ueenieHWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Theres a lot of women on here with private pictures. There's guys on here that just add women to see their private pictures and to use them as wabk material, there's even people that are taking people's pictures and setting up fake accounts to catfish people, this is why most women won't add men unless they know them or have met

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By *iggSS OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres a lot of women on here with private pictures. There's guys on here that just add women to see their private pictures and to use them as wabk material, there's even people that are taking people's pictures and setting up fake accounts to catfish people, this is why most women won't add men unless they know them or have met"

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By *ickasscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Near Leeds


"Theres a lot of women on here with private pictures. There's guys on here that just add women to see their private pictures and to use them as wabk material, there's even people that are taking people's pictures and setting up fake accounts to catfish people, this is why most women won't add men unless they know them or have met"

This ^ - plus tbh your profile raises all the 'red' flags to us as a potential fake - no profile pic, no public pics only private, recently joined and a one line profile text screams "quick fake profile to get private pics".

Either that or people won't consider you as the brevity of your profile and no pics means they have no idea if there is any initial attraction or you're offering something they want.

As someone else replied, Single guys have a tough time as there are so many so do what you can to stand out.

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By *iggSS OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Ok brill Thankyou xx

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